In this online world full of surprises and excitement, everyone is looking for their own fate. However, what kind of story will happen when a virtual love affair comes into reality? Today, let's talk about the experience of a man who is divorced from a long distance in an online relationship, he thought he could harvest a beautiful love, but he was unexpectedly "trapped" by the other party's plump body, and he couldn't run away if he wanted to!
Xiao Li is a young and promising professional elite who is usually busy with work and rarely has time to make new friends. By chance, he met a woman named Xiaofang on the Internet. Although Xiao Fang is divorced, she has a gentle and understanding personality, and soon attracts Xiao Li's attention. The two had a good conversation, and soon established a relationship.
However, when Xiao Li went to Xiao Fang's city full of anticipation, he found that things were not as good as he imagined. It turned out that Xiao Fang's figure was much plumper than he imagined, which caught Xiao Li off guard. He tried to adjust his mentality, but every time he saw Xiao Fang's plump figure, he couldn't help but mutter.
Xiao Li began to hesitate whether to continue the relationship. He felt that his feelings for Xiaofang were not so deep, and he was also worried that such a figure would affect the future life of the two. As a result, Xiao Li began to alienate Xiao Fang intentionally or unintentionally, hoping to gradually fade out of this relationship.
However, Xiao Fang was very puzzled by Xiao Li's estrangement. She felt that she had given her sincerity, why did Xiao Li suddenly become so cold? She tried to communicate with Xiao Li, but Xiao Li always avoided talking about it, which made Xiao Fang feel very helpless.
In this way, the relationship between Xiao Li and Xiao Fang reached an impasse. Xiao Li wanted to run but couldn't run away because he felt that he had fallen into the quagmire of this relationship; Xiaofang, on the other hand, felt very lost and didn't know how to salvage the relationship.
In fact, the story of Xiao Li and Xiao Fang is not an exception. In online dating, many people will have some unrealistic fantasies because of the other person's appearance or figure. When there is a gap between these fantasies and reality, it can easily lead to the breakdown of the relationship. But should we give up on a relationship easily because of our looks or figure?
First of all, we need to understand that love is not based on physical appearance or physical figure. A person's inner qualities and character are often more important than their appearance. If we like the other person only because of their appearance or figure, then this liking is likely to be short-lived. True love should be based on mutual understanding, respect, and trust.
Second, we need to learn to accept and tolerate each other's shortcomings. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and no one is perfect. If we only focus on the other person's shortcomings and ignore their strengths, then it will be difficult for the relationship to last long. Instead, we should learn to appreciate each other's strengths, tolerate their weaknesses, and work together to make each other better.
Finally, we need to be brave and face reality. Although online dating is beautiful, it has to come into reality after all. When we find that there is a gap between the real person and the imagination, don't rush to escape or give up. We should calmly think about whether the relationship is worth continuing and try to communicate our thoughts and feelings openly with the other person.
In short, the story of Xiao Li and Xiao Fang provides us with a good opportunity for reflection. In online dating, we should maintain a rational and objective attitude, and not be confused by appearance or figure; At the same time, we must also learn to cherish and manage a relationship, so that love can shine more beautifully in reality.
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