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Today's topic for you:
Frail and sick in his later years, which is more reliable, daughter or daughter-in-law?
Some of the real experiences shared by netizens below may give us some inspiration and insights
Daughters-in-law have no obligation to support their in-laws, although children have the obligation to support their parents, but not a bowl of water will also make the children discordant, and most of them will be desolate in their old age
They knew from the birth of their son that they were unreliable and unreliable, and they brainwashed their son into saying that they would marry a daughter-in-law and be filial to us in the future. [Dog's Head]
When she can work and earn money, her daughter-in-law is an outsider; If you don't have the ability to work, when you have to support the elderly, your daughter-in-law will become your own family. Does the daughter-in-law agree?
In this question, the word son doesn't even appear
Now there is a clause in the new civil code that a daughter-in-law has no obligation to honor her in-laws. As for whether to take care of it or not, it depends on how the in-laws treat the daughter-in-law, as the saying goes: there are good in-laws first and then there are good daughters-in-law. Don't usually treat your daughter-in-law unfavorably, and you can't take care of yourself before you want your daughter-in-law to come, why. It is enough for a woman to take care of us and what we are born!
There's nothing wrong with me, my sister-in-law threatened her when I quarreled with my mother, and she said that she wouldn't provide for her, and my mother replied, I have a son and a daughter, what's the matter with you?
The property was left to the son to guard against the daughter-in-law, and the daughter couldn't even drink the soup when she looked dry. Now that you're old, you're going to put your fate in the hands of these two?
Daughter-in-law, daughter, the gender that can only be remembered for the elderly, is not distressed to use, and she is not afraid of being tired. The son who bought a house and a car can't even think of using him for retirement.
When they give their love and property to their sons, they are saying that they will rely on their sons to support their old age. I need to go to the hospital to accompany me to see a doctor, I went to the hospital to pay for it, and I blamed my daughter.
In their cognition, a daughter should be intimate, but she should be partial to her son
Who told you that your son is unreliable, you don't understand the heart of this kind of old man, your son's money is your own, and it is a waste of your own money, so you have to find your daughter to spend other people's money, of course, the son you said is unreliable, I believe that there are a large number of people under the education of this kind of thinking, but people are willing at all, and it is good to be benevolent, not at all the conscienceless white-eyed wolf and the like you think.
The Civil Code stipulates that daughters-in-law and sons-in-law do not have the responsibility to support their in-laws and parents-in-law. There is no comparison between a daughter-in-law and a daughter
In fact, it depends on who is soft-hearted, and the general situation is that the daughter is more soft-hearted
I am a daughter and a daughter-in-law, I shouldn't serve my mother-in-law too much, and if my father-in-law has something, I will call my husband to serve him, and I can do all the work. Just because, ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law. Others are good to me and I am good to others, to repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue.
If the character is good, the daughter-in-law and daughter can be relied on.
Only money is the most reliable
My mother used to say that when she wants to do things, her daughter-in-law is her own person. When it comes to sharing benefits, the daughter-in-law is an outsider. Who is reliable, Grandpa Mao is the most reliable.
There is also a speculation that when he thinks about whether his daughter is reliable, he wants to rely on his daughter to support his old age, and wants a married daughter to support him, he is the kind of person who wants to search for his daughter as much as possible, and wants his daughter to help his own family and his own son. A daughter who can see reality clearly will not be filial to a parent who always wants to loot herself.
If the son is still waiting for his daughter-in-law to serve, how can he serve others
In all fairness, even if I get married in the future and my mother-in-law treats me as my daughter, I can't serve her like a daughter. Such as urinating, such as changing her clothes and so on. There is no shortage of mothers. But the mother-in-law is good, she should pay for the elderly, go to see when she is sick, make soup or something, or even live together, or rent a house for the elderly nearby, these daughters-in-law can still do it...... It would be rude to go any further.
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