Have you noticed that the florist owners in the mall have been smiling a little more than usual lately? That's right, because Mother's Day is coming, and their business is about to usher in a small climax.
But, have you ever wondered if we really need this holiday? Don't rush to answer, listen to me first.
First of all, let's talk about the origin of this Mother's Day. This is not our Chinese tradition, it is an authentic "foreign festival".
It is said that in 1906, there was a lady named Anna Jarvis in the United States, and in order to commemorate her deceased mother, she held such a holiday. Later, the festival spread to all over the world, including our China.
But, you know what? China has a culture of filial piety for thousands of years. From the mother-in-law's tattoo, Meng's mother's three moves, to She Taijun's protection of the family and the country, which of the mother images in these stories is not admirable?
Which one of these stories is not as profound as a simple date?
Now, let's talk about those smart merchants. They saw Mother's Day as a huge business opportunity.
From jewelry to tour packages, from high-end restaurants to various "heartwarming" gifts, they tell you in a variety of ways: "Expressing filial piety? No problem, just use the money! "But is that really the case?
We have an old saying in China, called "filial piety comes first". Filial piety is a traditional virtue of our Chinese. It's not a show, much less a trade.
Our parents don't need to be on a specific day to feel their child's love. What they need is daily care and companionship, a simple greeting, an unexpected visit.
So why can't we have our own festival? Why can't we celebrate Meng's mother's birthday, or mother-in-law's anniversary? The stories and spirit of these characters are what we should really inherit and celebrate.
Speaking of which, I'm reminded of a news item from last year. There was a young man who, in order to surprise his mother, secretly bought a ticket to Hainan. As a result, my mother refused to go because she was worried that there would be no one to take care of the flowers and plants at home.
In the end, the young man had to refund the ticket and accompany his mother to water the flowers at home. This story, although a bit funny, also reflects a truth: true filial piety is not measured by money and material things.
So, folks, when Mother's Day arrives this weekend, you might as well take a different approach.
Put down those expensive gifts, pick up the phone, give mom a call, and tell her, "Mom, I love you." This may be the true meaning of Mother's Day.
What do you have to say about this? Speak freely in the comment area, and we'll see you next time