During the May Day holiday, a couple in Shangqiu, Henan Province held a wedding, which was supposed to be a festive day, but a dispute arose because the bride temporarily asked for a gift of 28,800 yuan to get off the car. The bride listened to her best friend's advice and insisted on not getting out of the car if she didn't give the money, and the groom's family reluctantly promised to make up for it afterwards, but the girlfriend didn't give up, and the bride insisted on paying on the spot. During the dispute between the two parties, the groom had a verbal altercation with the bride's girlfriend, and the bride was emotional and hit her girlfriend, and then the two sides beat each other. The bride was beaten on her wedding day, and in a fit of rage, she left the wedding scene and announced the end of the wedding.
This incident sparked heated discussions on the Internet, with some netizens questioning the bride's decision-making ability, believing that she should think about her partner and should not ruin her marriage because of money problems. Some netizens pointed out that the bride may rely too much on her best friend's opinion and not think rationally about her marriage and happiness. In addition, some netizens expressed dissatisfaction with the behavior of the bride's best friend, believing that she should not meddle in other people's marriages, and even cause conflicts.
From a psychological point of view, the bride's behavior may reflect her uncertainty about her marriage and partner, as well as her dependence on her best friend. The bride may not fully appreciate the importance of marriage or not build enough self-confidence to deal with problems in the marriage. Her best friend's opinion may have given her a sense of security, but this dependence can lead to her being unable to make informed decisions at critical moments.
In this case, the bride needs to recognize her psychological needs and learn to think and make decisions independently. She should realize that marriage is a matter between her and her partner and should be decided by both her and her partner. At the same time, she should also seek professional psychological help to improve her psychological quality and decision-making ability.
For the groom's side, they need to understand the emotional and psychological needs of the bride and give her enough care and support. They should communicate openly with the bride to help her realize the importance of marriage and work out the problems in the marriage together.
Finally, the couple needs to realize that problems in the marriage need to be resolved by both partners. They should learn to understand and respect each other, build good communication and trust to create a happy and harmonious married life together.
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