Be a mother with a big pattern: three don't say, three don't help, three don't get used to it! Be a mother with a big pattern: three don't say, three don't help, three don't get used to it! Be a mother with a big pattern: three don't say, three don't help, three don't get used to it! Be a mother with a big pattern: three don't say, three don't help, three don't get used to it!