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Recently, because of the tense relationship between her granddaughter and her classmates, a grandmother in Hanzhong broke into the middle school where her granddaughter studied without permission and abused the teacher with a loudspeaker for more than 20 minutes! In the end, the old man was detained for 5 days on suspicion of disturbing public order!
Regarding this result, netizens have different opinions and disputes.
The first is the result of the detention, some people feel that the punishment is too heavy, on the one hand, they just scold, and they don't beat people, on the other hand, this old woman is old, is it really necessary to do this?
Secondly, the reason why the old man scolded the teacher, the notice said that it was because of the tension between her granddaughter and her classmates, and some people asked what happened to this so-called "relationship tension"? Is there any bullying, is it the teacher's inaction that angers the parents?
If the teacher is biased in dealing with two students, should he also deal with the teacher?
This is actually two problems, even if the teacher is biased, it is the teacher's problem, parents can go to the school to reflect the teacher's problem, and let the school deal with the teacher.
And parental scolding is another problem, even if the teacher has a problem, parents can't use a loudspeaker to abuse in public, let alone in school, in front of so many teachers and students, the impact is extremely bad.
If you don't deal with the swearer, will other parents follow suit? If there is a problem, they do not communicate calmly, and they all rush to the school indiscriminately to abuse the teacher, what kind of impact will this have on the students? Will students follow this example when they encounter problems in the future?
In addition, the notice only said that the reason for the old man's scolding was "strained relations between classmates", and did not say that the teacher had a problem with the problem, and the old man scolded when he came up, which was not advisable.
It is normal for the police to detain the elderly, because swearing in public can be punished with administrative detention at worst and can constitute a criminal offense of insulting others.
If the old man meets a more serious person, the other party may take her to court, and the result may be more serious than 5 days of detention.
Therefore, as an adult, you must be calm and calm when encountering things, scolding cannot solve the problem, it is just a vent of emotions, which is not only a waste of time, but also hurts others, and there is no benefit.
In addition, as a parent, you should also let go and let your child learn to solve problems on his own.
In the absence of special issues such as bullying, it is very normal for small conflicts and quarrels to occur between classmates.
Parents should not meddle in everything, and perhaps they should learn to let go and correctly guide their children to deal with problems on their own.
After all, children grow up one day, and parents can't follow their children all their lives to solve all the troubles for him. It may be more helpful for children to let them grow up slowly in exploring and solving problems.
At the same time, parents should also set a good example for their children, knowing that their words and deeds may be subconsciously imitated by their children.
So before being impulsive, parents must think twice. Because the consequences of impulsiveness are not only borne by oneself, but also have an impact on the child.
What do you think of this grandmother's behavior of storming the school and insulting the teacher, and what would you do if it were you? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss!