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Are there still good men in this era?
How many men seem to be good husbands of the family, but in fact, they are not as bad as cheating and domestic violence, and even wear masks to set up a good man in front of the public, which is really outrageous.
However, Feng Enhe is an exception, he always sticks to his bottom line, keeps his heart, and wholeheartedly wants to be a good husband, father, and actor.
Everyone should be unfamiliar with the name Feng Enhe, but they must have seen him star in "Latent".
In "Latent", he starred as the head of the intelligence station Wu, a ruthless and scheming Kuomintang spy.
Feng Enhe's acting skills are so strong that even Sun Honglei can't catch them, so he is also known as "the most scene-stealing supporting role".
He is "lurking" in the play, and the same is true outside the play.
In order to take care of his son, he lurked his acting skills and was willing to be a caring father, and for the career of his wife Ji Ying, Feng Enhe was willing to give up his career to support her to study in Japan at the age of 48.
Therefore, Feng Enhe and his wife have been separated for 12 years, but he said that he believes that they have never changed their hearts, and their relationship is still the same.
Is this true, and how do couples who have been separated for 12 years maintain their relationship and marriage?
The source of this article comes from the authoritative report [Very Couple] [Douyin Encyclopedia] (the detailed source is attached at the end of the article). In order to improve the readability of the article, the details may be polished, please read sensibly and for reference only
01 A simple blind date
In 1978, Feng Enhe just entered Bayi Film Studio and officially started his career as an actor here.
In fact, before entering Bayi Film Studio, Feng Enhe had already starred in family films, and his acting skills and performance were deeply recognized by his peers.
The career can be taken slowly, Feng Enhe is not in a hurry at all, he is anxious that he is 30 years old, and the marriage has not yet been settled.
Fortunately, people were very enthusiastic in that era, and the leaders and colleagues learned that Feng Enhe didn't have a wife, so they began to help him go on a blind date, and really introduced him to a girl who was one year younger than him.
This girl's name is Ji Ying, she works as an editor, her personality is very quiet, her hobby is reading, and she is a good girl.
Feng Enhe was already a little moved when he heard the introduction, such a quiet girl was exactly the type he liked, but when they met, they fell through their glasses.
Ji Ying hurried to the appointment that day, wearing a torn coat and pants in overalls, and the whole person looked casual and a little sloppy.
However, Feng Enhe is not much better, the cuffs of his clothes are torn, and the whole person looks gray-faced, looking as honest as a bear.
However, what is surprising is that the two chatted very closely, Ji Ying talked about his literary opinions eloquently, and Feng Enhe shared his filming anecdotes, and the conversation was forgetful.
Therefore, this blind date was very successful, and it didn't take long for Ji Ying and Feng Enhe to confirm that their relationship had entered the stage of talking about marriage.
Maybe it seems that the pace of the two is a little fast now, but for Feng Enhe, meeting the person he loves is not fast at all.
At that time, when the two of them were talking about marriage, Feng Enhe accidentally injured his forehead while working, and he had several stitches, which originally felt that it hurt so much, but after seeing Ji Ying, he felt that it didn't hurt at all.
Feng Enhe also took Ji Ying to wander around the village in a leisurely manner, the two sat by the pond and chatted, with patches of reeds in front of them, and it was sunset at that moment, Feng Enhe and Ji Ying were very romantic together.
So Feng Enhe and Ji Ying soon got married, although the living conditions of the two were not good at that time, Feng Enhe secretly vowed in his heart that he would take care of and take care of Ji Ying for the rest of his life, and would let her live a good life.
So later, Feng Enhe worked harder and harder to make money from filming, and Ji Ying went to work and took care of her family in a down-to-earth manner, and her family income became higher and higher, and her quality of life improved a lot.
It didn't take long for Ji Ying to get pregnant and give birth to a son, Feng Enhe named his son Feng Guozhong, "Zhong" means that the family of three has been reunited, which is one of Feng Enhe's few wishes.
At that time, Feng Enhe and Ji Ying's small family was moving in a good direction, and the family had money and children, why did Ji Ying insist on studying abroad?
02 Separated for 12 years
Although Feng Enhe and Ji Ying are very compatible, there are still many differences between the husband and wife, especially in terms of personality, Ji Ying is more casual than Feng Enhe.
For example, once Ji Ying saw that the neighbor's noodles seemed to be delicious, so on a whim, she asked Feng Enhe to learn how to make noodles with others, and she made marinade at home.
Feng Enhe also listened to his wife and went to his neighbor to steal a teacher, and immediately after finishing learning, he made noodles with flour, and finally went home with noodles, but he was shocked.
The marinade in the kitchen pot has been stewed until the sticky pan is blackened, and Ji Ying is reading in the study and is fascinated by it, and has completely forgotten about making noodles.
Therefore, Feng Enhe likes to have a plan to do something, while Ji Ying likes to follow his heart even more, so he still wants to study abroad at the age of 48.
In 1997, 48-year-old Ji Ying came up with the idea of studying in Japan to study child psychology as a graduate student, and she hoped that her husband could support her.
But at that time, Feng Enhe's career was on the rise, and his son was still young and needed to be taken care of, so it was indeed not a good time to study abroad.
But even if Feng Enhe was embarrassed, he chose to fulfill his wife's dream, he not only devoted everything he had to send Ji Ying to study in Japan, but also gave up the career he loved for Ji Ying and his son.
Feng Enhe no longer took on the drama and joined the crew, and chose to work in the office, so that he could supplement the family and have time to take care of his son.
Feng Enhe gets up at 5 o'clock every morning to make breakfast for his son, then sends his children to school and goes to the office to work, and goes home at night to do housework, cook, and tutor his son's homework.
But Feng Enhe never complained, and would talk to Ji Ying on the phone every week, sharing each other's lives and telling Ji Ying to take good care of herself.
After 12 years of such a life, Ji Ying has changed from an ordinary student to a master and then to an expert, and even their son has graduated.
The couple have been apart for 12 years, are they really not afraid of changing their minds to each other and letting a third party appear in the marriage?
03 At the age of 61, he ushered in the peak of his career
For Feng Enhe, no matter what happens, the stability of the family always comes first, and the feelings of his wife also come first.
So for 12 years, Feng Enhe has been taking on most of the responsibilities of the family, including earning money to support the family, sending living expenses to his wife, taking care of his son, and so on.
As for Ji Ying, she has always known Feng Enhe's dedication and sacrifice, and she also knows that no man will be so kind to her in this life, so she will never change her mind about Feng Enhe.
And Feng Enhe is the same, he will always love and believe in Ji Ying in his heart, and he also believes in the day when the family of three will be reunited.
Later, the child graduated, and Feng Enhe continued filming one after another, and the family conditions were much better, so Feng Enhe was able to save money and travel across the ocean to visit his wife in Japan.
In 2008, the couple couldn't help but miss each other when they met for the first time in 12 years, and then Feng Enhe took Ji Ying back to China for development, and the couple finally ended their long-distance relationship completely.
After the couple returned to China, their lives were very different from before, Ji Ying was busy giving lectures and writing children's books all day long, and the schedule was very full.
But Feng Enhe became a person who had nothing to do, and it was boring to stay at home all day, so he continued to work on filming.
At that time, Feng Enhe was 61 years old, but fortunately, Feng Enhe's acting skills were good and his previous reputation was good, so he got the opportunity to star in "Latent" Stationmaster Wu.
Although he hasn't been filming much for many years, he didn't expect Feng Enhe to still be old, his acting skills are quite good, and he was even nominated for the "Magnolia Award" for Best Actor.
After that, Feng Enhe's invitations to play also increased, but Feng Enhe basically took on two or three plays a year, and he could enjoy and accompany his family, and his life was very happy.
On May 16, 2024, the long-awaited "Celebrating More Than Years 2" will meet the audience.
Feng Enhe plays Qin Ye in this drama, with the blessing of an old drama like Feng Enhe, this drama must be quite exciting and live up to expectations!
epilogue
Many people feel incredible about Feng Enhe and Ji Ying's 12-year marriage in a different place, and even think that such a marriage is estimated to be unknown how many times they have been divorced.
In fact, in the final analysis, people nowadays are too "restless", no one has the patience to wait and wait for 12 years, and no one can be firm and persistent to trust a person.
But Ji Ying and Feng Enhe are still in a relationship after 12 years of being apart, because of their trust in each other's character and firm feelings, and they believe that each other will be the people who will accompany them for a lifetime.
In the past 12 years, Feng Enhe has borne and sacrificed a lot, but fortunately, he met Ji Ying, who exchanged sincerity for sincerity, and exchanged 12 years of long-distance for a lifetime.
In this era of fast food, such a low-fire and slow-cooking relationship is sincere love.
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Source of information in this article: [Douyin Encyclopedia] [Very Couple]