When the flame of love gradually extinguishes, when the once affectionate eyes become indifferent, if a woman no longer loves in her heart, her words often reveal the determination to leave.
In this relationship, which is about to end, her words are like autumn leaves, inexorably heralding the arrival of separation.
Once upon a time, the two fell in love with each other and built a nest of love together, however, as time passed, the rift in their relationship gradually appeared.
Women begin to become picky, full of dissatisfaction and accusations against every word and action of their husbands.
She no longer appreciates his merits, but turns a blind eye to his efforts and even satirizes him with harsh words.
Xiao An, the man who once loved his wife deeply, is now in deep confusion and pain.
He worked hard for his family and tried to win back his wife's heart, but each attempt was only exchanged for more indifference and ridicule. He began to doubt his worth and wondered if he would be able to salvage the marriage.
"People despise each other and flatter each other, and each wants to be higher than the other, and each prostrate himself in front of the other."
This famous quote by Marc Aurelius seems to be a portrayal of this relationship.
The woman no longer cares about her husband's feelings, she only has the thought of leaving in her heart, and no matter how hard her husband tries, he can't change her decision.
As the conflict escalated, the woman began to frequently mention breakups and divorces. These words are like sharp blades, mercilessly cutting through the husband's heart.
He tried to influence her with love and tolerance, but every concession and compromise only brought more accusations and complaints. She seems to have forgotten her vows and promises, and only wants to escape this home and find a new home.
"It's simple, but it's not a small thing. What you say is important. Hurting someone with simple words can have a lot of consequences. ”
This sentence of Master Xuecheng in "Speak Well" expresses the deep meaning of the woman's words.
She no longer cherishes the relationship, so her words have also become cold and heartless. She wanted to force her husband to leave through these words, making him feel hopeless and helpless.
And when a woman becomes cold, her words are full of alienation. She is no longer willing to have a heart-to-heart relationship with her husband and no longer cares about his feelings and needs.
Even if the two are barely together, it is only a formal existence, without the warmth and sweetness of the past. Her indifference is like the cold wind of winter, which makes her husband feel extremely lonely and cold.
"He's attentive, that's when he's just fallen in love with you; He's clumsy, that's because he loves you deeply; He's calm, that's because he's tired of you. Li Bihua's words seem to be a portrayal of a woman's mentality.
When a woman no longer loves a man, her mindset also changes. She no longer cherishes the relationship and is no longer willing to give more for a man.
She wants to make the man retreat through indifference and alienation, and end this relationship that has lost its meaning.
However, for men, they often feel powerless and hopeless in the face of women's indifference and alienation.
They try to win back women's hearts, but each effort only leads to more indifference and ridicule. They begin to doubt their worth and wonder if they can still win a woman's love.
However, when love has come to an end, men should also learn to let go. They should face up to the breakdown of the relationship and respect the woman's decision to leave.
After all, love is a matter of two people, and if only one person is trying to maintain it, then the relationship is destined to not last.
At the same time, men should also learn to learn from this failed relationship. They should reflect on their problems and shortcomings in the relationship and work hard to improve themselves.
Only in this way will they be able to face problems more maturely and rationally in their future relationships.
Finally, when love is irretrievable, both men and women should learn to let go. They should give each other a chance to start over and find new possibilities in life.
After all, life is short and precious, and we should cherish every opportunity that allows us to grow and progress to create our own happiness and beauty.