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(Note: This article is purely fictional, if you have similar experiences, it is purely coincidental, please read it sensibly)
When my father was young, he served as a soldier in the army for a few years, and it happened that there was a fellow countryman in the company he was in.
When they were discharged from the army, my father's comrade-in-arms (Uncle Zhang) told my father that if they could meet in the future, they must get married, so that this friendship will be close to each other.
But who would have thought that it was so coincidental that in the second year of my father's return to his hometown, he attended a friend's wedding and met Uncle Zhang again at the banquet.
At that time, Uncle Zhang took his son (Xiaodong) and my father took me, and they met like this, and the two of them hadn't seen each other for a long time, and they drank a lot of alcohol when they met.
In the end, I asked my mother to take them home, when Uncle Zhang was drunk and asked him where his family lived, he also muttered that he couldn't tell, and asked Xiaodong, he was younger than me, and he couldn't count the words, let alone know where his family lived.
So I asked Uncle Zhang and Xiaodong to live together in our house for one night, and planned to wait until the next day when they woke up and then send them back.
The next day, Uncle Zhang woke up early, and pulled my father to talk all morning, my father is also a big-hearted person, so he patronized and recalled the past with Uncle Zhang, and forgot to let Uncle Zhang inform his family.
It was his mother who reminded his father, and his father told Uncle Zhang to let him inform the family and not let them worry.
Speaking of the family, Uncle Zhang was obviously a lot frustrated, and after sighing, Uncle Zhang said that he and Xiaodong were the only ones left in the family, his wife divorced him two years ago, and the old people in the family also passed away one after another.
The father blinked and didn't speak, patted Uncle Zhang's shoulder and asked, then why didn't you think about finding another one, and you are still young, didn't you find a suitable one?
Uncle Zhang glanced at Xiao Dong and said that he hadn't thought about looking for it again, but he was afraid that Xiao Dong would be wronged, I was such a child, how could I be willing to see him wronged, so I stopped thinking about it and was not ready to look for it.
Looking at Uncle Zhang's sad face, my father didn't know what he thought, so he suddenly patted his head, took Uncle Zhang's hand and said, Old Zhang, do you remember the agreement between the two of us?
Uncle Zhang was obviously a little confused, he didn't know what his father would say again, seeing Uncle Zhang's puzzled look, his father hated iron and said that it was a matter of let's recognize the godfather, you forgot, we said back then, if we can see each other again, we will recognize a godfather.
Uncle Zhang wiped the tears on his face and said to my father, these are all the things that were said that year, you still remember it, don't count it, don't count it, I'm mixed up like this now, then I'm embarrassed to admit it to you!
After hearing this, the father pulled Uncle Zhang and Xiaodong to the house, and said how can I not count, while there are all the people today, I recognized Xiaodong as my godson, and now I salute, quickly.
Saying that, my father called my mother, who was still busy in the kitchen, over, and after a few rings, I completed the confession ceremony, and my mother had an extra godson in her confusion, and I also had a godbrother from now on.
After recognizing the marriage, my father also took out 50 yuan to Uncle Zhang, saying that this is a ceremony that should be left, and if you accept this money, our godfather will be considered a marriage.
My father held his head, and Uncle Zhang couldn't say anything, so he collected the money, had lunch at our house, stayed for a while, and then took Xiaodong home.
As soon as Uncle Zhang left, his mother quarreled with his father, blaming his father for not consulting her in advance and taking matters into his own hands and admitting a godson.
The father explained to the mother that this was agreed a long time ago, but they had only met in the past two days, and it was only after hearing that they were not doing well that he impulsively recognized this family.
However, the mother's anger still did not disappear, and the father comforted the mother and said, our family is such a daughter, it is actually quite good to recognize a godson, maybe he can help us in the future!
After listening to her father's words, her mother eased her emotions a little, but she still didn't give her father a good look, and said with resentment, what can you use him, our daughter is very good, don't always think about taking advantage of others, when the time comes, it is not enough to be ashamed.
Although the mother was reluctant in every way, she couldn't help that the father had already made the decision on his own, and the ceremony was completed, and the money was given, so she could only accept it silently.
But my mother told me that she actually likes Xiaodong's child, which is very painful, and it is good to recognize a godmother, although she has no love from her own mother, at least I am my godmother.
Since then, my father has invited Uncle Zhang and his son to come to the house for dinner every now and then, and sometimes my father will buy Xiaodong two new clothes or new toys.
As their biological daughter, I can't buy new clothes a few times a year, but this kid who is not related by blood always has new clothes and shoes to wear.
My little tempered father didn't know, but he always told me that he wanted me to let my younger brother a little, and my younger brother had no mother since he was a child, and they just felt sorry for him.
How did I understand these words at that time, anyway, since they recognized their godfather, I have always been unaccustomed to Xiao Dong, and naturally I don't have a good face for him.
It's a pity that he is a competitive child, since he went to school, he has not asked Uncle Zhang to worry about it, and he has always been among the best, but I, who have poor grades, will not study after finishing junior high school.
When Xiaodong was a sophomore in high school, Uncle Zhang had an accident on the construction site and broke his leg, and all the money Uncle Zhang had saved over the years was used in the hospital.
After my father found out, he didn't give Uncle Zhang money directly, but told Uncle Zhang that in the future, Xiaodong's child's tuition and living expenses would be paid by him, and he would just tell him to take care of his illness.
Since then, our family has been able to afford Xiaodong's expenses, in addition, my father also specially told me that I can earn money now, and when I come back in the future, I will think about buying something to see Uncle Zhang, saying that Uncle Zhang is a hard-working person.
Although I didn't want to, I couldn't escape my father's nagging after all, and every time I went home, I would always buy two gifts, one for my parents and one for Uncle Zhang.
In the second year, Xiao Dong was admitted to a first-class university with excellent grades, and his father Zhang Luo held a "celebration banquet" for Xiao Dong and gave him a red envelope containing 1,000 yuan.
After Xiaodong took the red envelope, he didn't say thank you, nor did he say anything, he sat down to eat after putting the money in his pocket.
Before I could take a step, I was stopped by my father, and my father told me, don't blame Xiaodong, he is just a little shy, and his heart is not bad, don't talk about him on this happy day, I can only endure it.
It's a pity that my father saw the wrong person, and he hasn't contacted us since Xiaodong went to college, if he hadn't sent him the living expenses and tuition fees and someone to collect them, I would have thought that he had suffered something wrong.
At first, his father excused Xiao Dong, saying that he was not used to college just now, so he had to give him time to adapt and contact his family.
After two years, there is still no news, and my father is too lazy to make excuses for Xiaodong, saying that it may be because he went to college, and he is afraid that we, poor countrymen, will trouble him, so he will not contact us!
Although Xiaodong unilaterally cut off relations with us, my father always taught me to go back to see Uncle Zhang more, and don't treat Uncle Zhang badly because of Xiaodong, your Uncle Zhang is a hard-working person.
Because of my father's words, I never studied and worked, and now my children are in elementary school, and I have never stopped, as long as I go back to see my parents once, I will definitely go to see Uncle Zhang once.
Uncle Zhang always said with a guilty face when he saw me, he stained the light of our family, but it's a pity that Xiaodong is a person with no conscience, he doesn't know how to be grateful, and he doesn't say that he will come back to see it after all these years.
But I couldn't say anything in front of Uncle Zhang, so I could only comfort Uncle Zhang, saying that Xiaodong might not have stumbled over something and didn't come back.
A few days ago, on May Day, I took my husband and children back to my hometown, and I heard my father say that Xiaodong also came back from outside, and brought a daughter-in-law, ready to discuss marriage.
I smiled and said to my father, what does it have to do with you when people come back, I haven't been in touch for so many years, and I still think that people can come back to see you, and thank you for your help to him back then!
I don't know if I'm a prophecy, on the afternoon of May 2nd, Xiaodong really came to my house with gifts, and as soon as he entered the door, he called his godfather and godmother sweetly.
It's a pity that my father has long stopped eating his set, and after inviting him into the house, my father asked him kindly, why did he suddenly come to the door with gifts?
Xiao Dong smiled awkwardly and said, don't you remember you in your heart, I haven't come back to see it for so many years, and as soon as I come back, I will quickly bring something to visit.
I was stupid enough to believe that he had come to see my parents with gratitude, but then I was taken aback by what he said.
After chatting for a few words, Xiaodong took the initiative to talk about getting married, and then said that the money to buy a wedding house was still 100,000 yuan, and he wanted to borrow some money from us.
I was really shocked by what he said, I didn't expect to be seen for so many years, and I had to borrow money as soon as I saw it.
's father was quite calm, and told Xiao Dong that they were both so old, where could they lend him spare money, and asked him to think of other ways.
Xiao Dong was silent for a while, and then said to me, Godsister, you lend me 100,000 yuan first, I will write you an IOU, and I will definitely pay it back to you, just for the sake of our relatives, help me!
I also rejected Xiaodong, saying that I had recently changed to a new car and didn't have that much money in my hand. Who knew that Xiaodong actually shouted at me, you and your brother-in-law are running factories, how can you have no money, you just don't want to lend it to me, then don't ask for our godfather, anyway, I have difficulties, and you won't help me.
I also got angry and yelled at him, if it's broken, it's broken, if I want me to say that it should have been broken a long time ago, our family was for you to eat and wear, and for you to go to college, you don't know how to be grateful, and now it's still a rake, relying on us?
Perhaps it was what I said that irritated him, and he looked at us twice and then left without looking back.
This relationship was completely broken off under the quarrel between the two of us, but I don't think it's a bad thing, on the contrary, I think it's good to break off, like this kind of person who only knows how to ask for something but doesn't know how to reciprocate, it's better to have less contact.
I think,It's better to avoid things like godparents.,After all, no one can say whether it's good or bad.,In case you encounter something like my family.,Of course, it's best not to meet it.。
However, this situation like our family should be just an example, most of the children who recognize their relatives still know how to be grateful, after all, most people only hope that their children can grow up healthy and strong!
(The story comes from life, but it is higher than life, this article aims to remind users to identify the possible risks of recognizing their relatives through fictional plots, and face life with peace and joy)