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Adler, a master of psychology, pointed out sharply: "Many human worries are essentially mirror images of human relationships." ”
I resonate deeply with this view.
In the web of interpersonal communication, those who have a narrow pattern often fall into the dilemma of mutual constraints, and each other becomes a shackle to move forward, and finally they are covered with dust; And people with a grand pattern choose to go hand in hand, hold each other's umbrellas in the wind and rain of adversity, and go to the future together.
As the old saying goes: "Help yourself and then help others, and achieve yourself to reach the world." ”
The supreme philosophy of human interaction is to achieve such a state of mutual fulfillment, each other as noble people in life.
What is a nobleman?
There is an old proverb: "When you meet a noble person at the end of the road, it is like food falling from heaven when you are hungry." ”
The journey of life is complicated, and most of them pass by, and they become passers-by in a hurry.
In times of distress, there are only a handful of people who lend a hand; When it falls, it is even more rare to be accompanied by the same companion.
Although there are many friends, do not be complacent with the quantity, and sincerely pay for the heart.
The journey of life is not alone, there is an invisible hand behind it, silently supported.
Family members rely on each other for a long time, friends send charcoal in the snow, and nobles help each other selflessly to build a way forward.
It is precisely because of the strength of the noble people that we can go through thousands of sails, ups and downs, and still have hope for the future.
What is a nobleman? It is the hand that pulls you by in distress;
It is the one who supports you unconditionally when you are at a low point;
It is a partner who shares your worries after defeat;
It is also a mentor who inspires you to move forward bravely and keep pushing.
Nobles are the beacon of the soul and the beacon of life.
There is no difference between large and small graces, and friendship is not important.
In interpersonal communication, only by being grateful can we win respect and get help; Only by remembering kindness and seeking reciprocation can we stand in society and feel at ease.
Life is long, the icing on the cake is easy to get, and it is common to fall into the well, and those who pay wholeheartedly and sincerely keep each other are rare.
Whether it is the grace of a drop of water or the kindness of the sea, it is the treasure of life and is worthy of our cherishing.
Look for the nobles
The Tang Dynasty poet Bao Rong once profoundly pointed out: "The weight of mountains and rivers is not as deep as the love of meeting confidants." ”
This reveals that on the vast stage of life, although there are thousands of scenery, the most precious thing is to meet those noble people who can discern pearls.
Indeed, "Maxima is common, but Bole is not common", there is no shortage of talented people in the world, but unfortunately, there are very few nobles who can identify and promote these talents.
The real challenge is, how to find the noble person who can light up the path of your life in the vast sea of people?
Looking for the noble person in your life is not passively waiting, you need to take the initiative to cultivate.
The story of Sun Wukong reveals that at first he was just a monkey king fighting in the forest, until he worshiped under the Bodhi Patriarch and practiced the Tao to win the protection of the gods on the westward journey.
This shows that self-improvement is the first step to attracting noble people.
Looking back at history, Liu Bei sold and weaved mats in his early years, lived a difficult life, and was far away from the aristocratic world;
But after the baptism of the battlefield, he finally became the overlord of one side, conspired with heroes and heroes in the world, and stood in three points.
This example shows that the accumulation of intrinsic value is equally important as the grasp of extrinsic opportunities, and together they pave the way to the help of noble people.
Therefore, in order to meet a noble person in the journey of life, you first need to make yourself a "Maxima" worthy of discovery.
Constantly improve yourself, have the courage to show your talents, and at the same time have a humble heart, and actively build a network, so that every encounter can become a bridge to the future possible.
Remember, nobles tend to favor those who are both prepared and responsible.
At the trough, it seems to be surrounded by like-minded souls;
However, as you grow stronger and shine a unique light, those noble people who can lead you to the next level will come uninvited.
Just like a pearl on the beach, shining in the sand, or like a galloping horse, it naturally attracts the attention of others.
If you continue to improve yourself, improve yourself, and sculpt yourself, that dazzling light will eventually attract the attention of Bole.
At this moment, it is crucial to have the courage to seize the opportunity, take the initiative, and take advantage of the support of your nobles, which will be your bridge to success.
The reason why we have worked tirelessly to temper ourselves is precisely to hold the reins of destiny in our hands.
Only by preparing your bags in advance can you have more choices when the opportunity comes.
There is a saying: "It is better to walk thousands of miles than to read thousands of books; Traveling thousands of miles, it is not as good as a step for nobles to help. ”
In fact, the most precious person in life is the one who is constantly improving and transforming.
Remember, there is no one to help you forever on this long journey, and no one can replace your growth.
Everything must rely on yourself, accumulate over time, and move forward steadily.
Only when you have hard work and enterprising, warmth and kindness in your heart, will you appear at the right moment, and all the luck will follow, as promised, in your world.
Each other is noble
"Romance of the Sui and Tang Dynasties" has a cloud: "Birds fly far away with Luan and phoenix, and people are virtuous and virtuous." ”
This statement speaks to the true meaning of interpersonal communication: the height of our growth often depends on the quality of the people who travel with us.
Choose the best and be accompanied, and do the same good.
Walk with excellence, and you will gradually move towards excellence; Surround yourself with benevolent and benevolent people, and your character will be more noble.
In this journey of life, help each other, exchange sincerity for sincerity, and achieve each other, noble people and you, you are also noble.
The story of Ba Jin and Bingxin is a model of noble people.
When Ba Jin founded the "Literary Quarterly", he was introduced by a friend and mustered up the courage to turn to Bingxin for help.
Bing Xin was supportive, generously agreed, and contributed to the magazine, which made Ba Jin feel deeply warm.
As time passed, when Bingxin suffered from illness and financial difficulties, Ba Jin immediately reached out to help publish his book and repay his kindness.
The two praised each other, and their friendship lasted for more than 60 years, interpreting the deep friendship of "you have me, I have you".
As the old saying goes: "The weak step on each other, and it is difficult to move; The strong hold each other and tide over the difficulties together. ”
The most precious treasure in life is to know and help each other.
Holding your hand in the midst of hardship and lighting the light for you in the confusion are all precious lights on the road of life.
Meeting is fate, and it is a rare luck to be accompanied by nobles.
At the crossroads of life, their presence is like a beacon, leading the way, giving firm recognition when confusion and self-doubt, and cheering up when faith is shaken.
This mutual support is a warm harbor in the ups and downs of life.
Cherish every encounter and be grateful for every help.
Remember those who reached out in your time of need, and reciprocate their kindness and trust with tangible actions.
In this way, friendship can last for a long time, and the journey of life will be more colorful.
May we all find those confidants and nobles who walk hand in hand in this troubled world, inspire each other, advance and retreat together, achieve each other, and light up each other's lives.
Click "Follow", let's pass on this positive energy together, and may you and I have a smoother and better life path because of mutual fulfillment.