#头条创作挑战赛#
There is a story that is a different interpretation of the legend of "the wolf came".
Once, on the way home, a boy was suddenly attacked by two wolves left and right, and his retreat was blocked by a dead end.
At the last moment, the boy had a whim and shouted: "There is a monkey show here, come and see it!" ”
Miraculously, this cry for help attracted many curious villagers to flock to it.
When the wolf saw the crowd suddenly gathered, he was afraid of the situation and fled in a hurry, so the boy saved the day.
Imagine, if he shouted "the wolf is coming", the ending would be very different.
This situation is just like a desperate situation - a different way of thinking has opened a turning point for life.
The same is true of life, joys and sorrows may only be in a thought, a corner of the distance.
Turn the mindset and good luck will come
Professor Fogg was often disturbed by the air conditioner turning on in the middle of the night, and his dreams were broken.
In the beginning, whenever he was dragged back to reality by this noise in the middle of the night, he was always full of irritability and couldn't sleep.
Later, he decided to turn this annoying thing into an opportunity to practice - whenever the air conditioner was silent, let the tension in his face and neck go away with the sound and relax.
Amazingly, the sound of the air conditioner gradually turned into a lullaby, and he was awakened by a relaxing ritual, and the dream land was once again gently accepted.
This is the essence of the "pearl habit": turning adversity into a good omen, and making the sound of unhappiness a prelude to a better life.
The wisdom of William Ward says, "The pessimistic complains about the wind, the optimist waits for the wind to change, and the wise man changes the wind." ”
People who are frustrated and easily frustrated will have their worries before the future comes, and everything will be empty and dusty.
And the owner of an optimistic attitude can also find happiness in suffering, and can always find a turning point and turn things around.
The rudder of fate is really held in the heart for a moment.
In the face of the problems thrown by life, if you look at them with a negative eye, the difficulties will only swell, and the difficulties will become more and more serious;
On the contrary, by embracing the state of the world with a positive attitude, the trajectory of life has turned to the light in silence.
In the journey of life, it is inevitable to encounter seemingly hopeless and unsolvable situations.
When the outside world can't shake it, it's better to turn around and adjust your inner perspective, find a new way in a desperate situation, and win in defeat.
Every turn of fate is a witness to the transformation of mentality.
The core lies in the fact that in the face of challenges, our mental choices not only shape our perception of the outside world, but also quietly determine the direction of life.
When feelings turn a corner, happiness is right
The root of "resentment" often lies in having high expectations of one's partner. If you want your emotions to last a long time, the first thing to do is to lower that unconscious expectation.
Friends often confide in me about her husband's grievances.
She said that her husband's career progress was slow, there was no way to be promoted, and a salary increase was out of reach;
When it comes to daily life, and is dissatisfied with its frequent overtime, even spending a full weekend together has become a luxury.
In this regard, I can't help but sigh: "It's a blessing that you don't have the burden of parenting on your shoulders, and your partner has worked so hard for your little life." ”
It seemed to tug at her heartstrings.
Since then, her complaints have drifted away.
When we talked again, I could deeply feel her firm determination to join hands with her partner to create a better home.
There is a saying: "Marriage is actually dancing with each other's shortcomings." ”
If you blindly look at each other with a magnifying glass, grasp the shortcomings and do not let go, I am afraid that such a marriage will not last long.
In the face of inappropriate emotions, the wise thing to do is to have the courage to turn and stop the loss from expanding in time.
As Plato said, "If life loses its joy and happiness, letting go may be the best option."
The biggest regret in life is to easily give up what should be cherished, but stubbornly hold on to those who should have let go. ”
In the TV series "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", Minglan married Shulan, your cousin in Youyang, to a down-and-out talent of the Sun family. Far from bringing peace, this marriage plunged Shulan into endless misery.
Sun Xiucai squandered the Sheng family's rich dowry, indulged in Fengyue places, beat and scolded Shulan, and even blamed her for infertility. And the mother-in-law's attitude is to treat her as a domestic servant, with no respect at all.
Thanks to Minglan 's wisdom, Shulan and Sun Xiu were able to reconcile and get rid of this unfortunate marriage.
Minglan 's wisdom reminds us: "Once you find that the road ahead is hopeless, it is the choice of the wise to turn around in time, and don't wait until Shaohua is exhausted and leave a grudge." ”
Getting deeper and deeper into a wrong relationship will only make it harder for self-liberation.
Therefore, in the face of inappropriate emotions and inappropriate people, learn to turn at the right time, instead of wandering in consumption and pain, it is better to let go bravely, restart the chapter of life, and explore the vast world that truly belongs to you.
Such a turn is not only responsible for oneself, but also a kind of respect and embrace of future possibilities.
When the mind turns a corner, things go smoothly
In the depths of the ocean, there is a unique blue-gray mackerel, which is long and flattened, and the meat is tender, which is favored by fishermen. The trick to catching them is as simple as it gets: use a thick net to get into the water, and with the stubborn nature of mackerel sprinting in a straight line, they will eventually fall into the net, and they will eventually become a dinner table.
Just like the fate of mackerel, many people often get lost in the alleys of life, as if they have reached a dead end.
The wise words in "Thinking Down" remind us: "Difficulties come from knots in the heart, not from the end." "The road of life, there is no hopelessness, only a corner to be discovered.
Brother Chun, a friend with the dream of being a painter, has been immersed in the studio since he was a child, studying overseas to deepen his skills.
After ten years of spring and autumn, although there are small achievements, it is still far from the other side of the dream.
At the critical moment, he chose a twist – extending his brush to the fabric and transforming into a costume designer.
The fusion of art and fashion has made his work shine, and his personal reputation has risen to the top in the industry.
Referring to the way of longevity, the hundred-year-old linguist Zhou Youguang said with a smile: "The heart is wide and the road is broad, and the future is long." ”
Facing the host's question: "If the knot is difficult to solve?" ”
Zhou Lao humorously: "Why don't you think about it and suddenly open up?" ”
There is an ancient adage: "Thinking about changes in difficulties, seeking understanding in changes, and general rules are eternal." ”
When the road is blocked and long, you may wish to find another way;
When the mind is sleepy, a different way of thinking is bright;
When you are upset, you change your perspective, and the world is completely new.
Therefore, in the face of life's twists and turns, the new direction will surely lead you out of the haze and into the light.
Zhou Guoping said: "The essence of life contains regrets, and compromise is a compulsory course in life."
Being stubborn and uncompromising is actually demanding of oneself and ignorance of the true meaning of life. ”
If an individual is faced with a desperate situation and still insists on "not turning back until the end of the road", he will eventually suffer the bitter fruit and be covered with scars.
Shi Tiesheng depicted a "wall" in "Me and the Altar of Earth".
Wheelchair free, everywhere he looks, he is blocked by this wall.
In his frustration, he slammed against the wall, but the wall stood still, but he was left in vain.
Enlightenment: "Life requires accepting limitations, embracing imperfections, and facing suffering and obstacles calmly." ”
The journey of your life and mine has such a "wall".
In the face of the pressure of life, don't blindly resist.
It is important to know that the road of life is not straight and smooth, and twists and turns are the norm.
Only by mastering the wisdom of turning can you enjoy the extraordinary scenery.
Let life turn a corner and meet a better you.