A loving mother loves her son, not for retribution.
Author: Insight yebo
In 2012, Mo Yan won the Nobel Prize in Literature, and many media asked him a question at that time:
Who are you most grateful for for your remarkable achievements along the way?
Mo Yan replied every time that it was his mother, and he said:
"My mother was the most important teacher in my life, she taught me how to look at life and how to face difficulties."
His mother not only gave him life and raised him as an adult, but also taught him a lot of principles about being a human being and encouraged him to pursue his literary dreams.
It can be said that without his mother's dedication and support, he would not be where he is today.
In this world, mothers are the source of strength and guiding light for every child.
No matter what happens to you, she will support you and shelter you unreservedly.
You will meet many people in this life, but only your mother is the noble person for your life.
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The mother is the eternal protector of the child
Liu An, a historian of the Han Dynasty, said: "A loving mother loves her son, not for retribution." ”
Mother's love is the most selfless feeling in the world, with a mother, there will always be someone to keep you safe and protect you.
The happiness and joy of the child in this life are all earned by the mother's unrequited efforts.
Mo Yan's family was very poor when he was a child, and he always lacked food and clothing.
When he was studying, his family didn't have the money to buy him a school bag, so his mother spliced one for him out of rags.
Mo Yan has been carrying this schoolbag for three years, with several holes, and even the strap is about to break.
When his mother saw this, she said to him, "If you carry it for a few more days, I will buy you a new school bag." ”
A few days later, my mother heard that someone from the next village had been discharged from the army and brought back a military rucksack.
So the mother caught the only hen in the house that laid eggs, came to the other party's house, and after some pleading, finally changed back to the backpack.
The backpack is made of canvas, the material is very thick, and there is a red five-pointed star on it.
When his mother handed it to Mo Yan, a hot current surged in Mo Yan's heart.
At that time, he secretly vowed to study hard and not live up to his mother's dedication and expectations.
Romain Rolland said that a mother's love is a great flame.
This love, deep as the sea, continuous, will always warm us year after year.
Writer Yu Qiuyu was very afraid of the dark when he was a child, and he was always worried that there were ghosts and monsters in the night.
But every time he held his mother's hand, he had something to rely on in his heart, and he could walk freely in the dark.
When he grew up, Yu Qiuyu walked 40,000 kilometers alone, and the road was bumpy.
In the face of danger and difficulty, as long as he remembers his mother's warm hands, he has the courage to continue to move forward.
As Yu Qiuyu said, my mother has given me the greatest confidence in my life.
In our growth process, no matter what difficulties and obstacles we encountered, my mother would use her thin body to support us and her warm hands to hold an umbrella for us.
Mother, always do her best to shelter you from the wind and rain and help you cope with difficulties.
It is precisely because of her support and protection that we can move forward fearlessly in the rain of bullets and bullets in life.
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Mothers are the staunchest supporters of their children
Mo Yan has liked to read all kinds of "idle books" since he was a child, and sometimes he is too involved in reading, and even delays his farm work.
In the eyes of many, this is not a proper job.
At first, Mo Yan's mother was also very dissatisfied with this, thinking that he didn't have to do his homework.
Later, the elementary school teacher told her mother: Mo Yan's composition is very good because he has read a lot of "idle books".
Hearing this, her mother immediately changed her attitude and began to support Mo Yan.
Once Mo Yan took a fancy to a set of "Compendium of General History of China", the price was 4 yuan and 5 jiao, which was a lot of money at that time.
When he mentioned it to his mother, he thought she would refuse.
Unexpectedly, his mother asked him: Will you read it seriously after buying it?
After receiving an affirmative answer, her mother took out a purse from the bottom of the box, took 5 yuan and handed it to Mo Yan.
Thanks to his mother's support, the young Mo Yan read a lot of books.
These books, in the end, all turned into nutrients, helping Mo Yan to embark on the road of writing, thus changing his fate.
Writer Ma De said that only when a person is affirmed and encouraged will his potential be fully explored.
Mother is our staunchest supporter.
Her recognition and affirmation will always inspire us to move forward and boost our lives.
When Lin Qingxuan was a child, his family was so poor that he couldn't open the pot, but he aspired to become a writer.
He once told his family about his dream of being a writer.
When his father heard this, he immediately slapped him and scolded: What are you daydreaming?
At this time, his mother hurriedly came over and hugged him and said, "Son, I believe that you can become a writer."
It was his mother's words that gave Lin Qingxuan infinite strength.
In the following life, no matter what difficulties and dangers he encountered, he never gave up writing, and eventually he wrote many commendable works.
Professor Li Meijin said that the mother's unconditional trust and support for her child is the strongest backing for her child's life.
No matter what stage we are in, our mother will always stand by our side and silently encourage us.
When you doubt yourself, she will encourage you to move forward; When you are in trouble, she never stingy with her support and gives you confidence.
With our mother's affirmation, we also have an inexhaustible motivation to chase the life we want.
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A mother is a lifelong mentor for her children
Mo Yan once recalled his mother like this:
My mother had never read or read or written, but some of the things she said to me were etched in my mind and kept me entertained for the rest of my life.
He told two stories in his article.
When he was a child, he once followed his mother to the field to pick ears of wheat, and the caretaker of the wheat field suddenly came.
The man was tall, and he grabbed his mother, slapped her, and whistled away.
The mother was bleeding from the corners of her mouth and sat on the ground with a look of despair on her face.
Many years later, Mo Yan met the person who was guarding the field at the market, and this person was already gray-haired.
Mo Yan wanted to rush up to him to take revenge.
As a result, my mother grabbed him and said, "Son, the man who beat me and this old man are not alone."
This sentence made Mo Yan understand what tolerance and understanding are.
Another story takes place on Chinese New Year's Eve, and the family makes dumplings.
While they were eating the dumplings, an old beggar came to their door with a bowl.
Mo Yan brought half a bowl of dried sweet potatoes and wanted to send him away, but his mother poured her share of dumplings into the beggar's bowl.
You must know that in the era of scarcity of materials, it is very rare to eat dumplings once.
Mo Yan was puzzled as to why his mother would give one of the few dumplings to a beggar.
Mother said: I don't eat dumplings, I can still nibble on steamed buns. But if he doesn't eat, he may not survive this winter.
This sentence made Mo Yan understand what kindness and compassion are.
Mother's words and deeds eventually made Mo Yan an upright, tolerant and kind person.
Educator Sukhomlinsky said:
The source of a child's moral development lies in the mother's wisdom, emotion and inner passion, and how well a person becomes in his own moral development is determined by what kind of mother he has.
In a person's growth process, mother is undoubtedly the best teacher.
Her words and deeds will become a yardstick for us to measure the world; Her every move is shaping our character and helping us to better stand in the world.
Mother's teachings and guidance are the greatest treasure in our lives.
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When Mo Yan talked about his mother, he said something like this:
Motherhood can allow women to go to heaven and earth, and to go down to the mountains and into the sea of fire. A mother, for the sake of her child, can give anything.
Mother's uncomplaining hard work runs through all stages of our life.
They are like lights that never go out, illuminating the direction we are heading;
They are also our source of motivation, supporting us to trek and climb until we live a happy life.
Mother's Day is here, no matter where you are or how busy you are, remember to come home often and give her a greeting and a hug.
Give it a thumbs up, and also say a word of hard work and blessings to all mothers in the world.