This "Internet literature" can be said to change day by day, and every once in a while, a new literary form will be born.
In the past, there was crazy literature and rat literature, and now it has become popular again "husband lovelorn literature".
Husband? Lovelorn? Don't make noise, I'm thinking......
How do these two words fit together? How did "Husband's Lovelorn Literature" become popular?
"My husband fell out of love" has become a hot spot on the Internet?
Recently, "Internet literature" has been iterated again, and finally iterated to what I don't recognize:
"Husband's Lovelorn Literature".
Whoever sees these words has to be stunned, right, my husband is out of love? Good niche text, a bit like Chinese, not sure, look at it again.
Yes, you understand it right, the so-called "husband lovelorn literature" is the situation shared by some married women about their husbands falling in love with others and falling out of love.
Many netizens shared their melancholy reactions to their husbands' breakups under this topic, some cried late at night, and some posted emo on Moments, which made people call "explosive" when they saw it.
Of course, what is even more explosive is the attitude of these wives, they don't seem to have any anger that "husband cheats", but like describing other people's gossip, they talk about their husband's love gossip to netizens on the Internet.
What's more, after her husband fell out of love, she launched a series of comforts, and tried her best to promote the reunion of her husband and lovers.
For a while, "Husband's Lovelorn Literature" became popular all over the Internet by virtue of its explosion and grabbing horses, and some online novel writers directly launched novels with related plots in order to rub off on this hot spot.
The main two families have their own lives, and no one delays anyone, and the attitude of contemporary young people towards marriage is really 20 years ahead of mankind.
Many young people are also taking advantage of the popularity of "husband's lovelorn literature" to express their own ideas about marriage.
For some, marriage is no longer a necessity, but a dispensable.
"Marriage is originally cooperation, if you fall out of love, you will fall out of love, comfort your buddies."
Contemporary young people have "added a fire" in the comment area, and they seem to be quite interested in watching their husbands fall out of love coldly, and there is some recognition in the funny.
John Holcroft
The husband's lovelorn literature, relying on the helpless gossip attitude of his wives and the follow-up of many young netizens, has reached a slightly abstract and funny sense of contrast, and it has become a new hot spot on the Internet.
Why did "Husband's Lovelorn Literature" become popular?
These "husband's lovelorn literature" that is now popular on the Internet looks a bit "anti-human" at first glance.
So who is involved in developing this strange "literature" into an Internet trend?
In fact, netizens who praise the popular husband's lovelorn literature are also divided into two kinds.
Camille Deschiens
Some people have had similar experiences, and they may indeed be in the midst of marriage with an indifferent attitude.
Because there are too many trivial things in other aspects of life, I really don't have the leisure to take care of my marital status, so I have a marriage attitude of "whatever".
Whether a husband is in love or out of love, it's just a small spice in life.
As a result, these people saw that some people were also sharing their "husband's lovelorn literature" on the Internet, so they took the opportunity to express their opinions in the form of gags as self-deprecation.
Camille Deschiens
The other part is purely to see the lively melon-eating netizens.
The words "husband" and "broken love" are connected together, which is simply the gospel of "horse catchers", which is enough to hunt for curiosity and eye-catching enough to attract a wave of melon-eating people who watch the show to stop and watch.
And among contemporary young people, there are indeed many people who have a pessimistic attitude towards marriage.
Marriage = grave, it has simply become the standard impression of many unmarried young people on marriage.
Therefore, behind the "husband's lovelorn literature", it is actually in response to this kind of young people's mentality that marriage is meaningless.
Indeed, with the improvement of material conditions and education level, the younger generation has become more and more indifferent to the view of marriage.
Many young people feel that marriage is essentially a kind of business to live together, and then abandon the idea that they must marry the person they love, and many people begin to "hate marriage" and "refuse to marry".
John Holcroft
Therefore, most of the participants in these husbands' lovelorn literature did not really experience these events, but just found this view of being numb and indifferent to marriage and love very interesting, and it was also very consistent with their own views on marriage, so they participated in making a joke and laughing at themselves.
Young people's attitudes towards marriage are gradually "kapibala"?
You've probably heard a word lately – kapibala.
Kapibala is actually the English transliteration of the capybara.
The reason why small animals like Kapibala are popular is because they are so emotionally stable.
Ridden by other small animals, they just carried all kinds of animals like that, without any resistance, without any expression, their eyes still looked half-squinted, and they always revealed a mood of "it's good to be alive, it's okay to die".
The "dead look" of contemporary young people who are tortured to the point of no temper in the course of part-time work is simply the same as the mental state of Kapibala - indifferent and bland.
In addition, there is another word recently to indicate the mental state of young people: "light people", which describes those who have no mood swings and are indifferent to everything.
Not long ago, a new word "social coldness" emerged, which is social apathy.
These words that are lining up to become popular on the Internet are all accurate descriptions of the indifferent attitude of contemporary young people in the face of life.
And this kind of kapibala attitude is also used by many people in the concept of marriage.
Katherine Lam
The Kapibala attitude of "it's good to be alive, it's okay to die" has become a marriage beacon for contemporary young people.
So many people are unwilling to be distracted to maintain the relationship, and they will separate if they have no feelings, and it doesn't matter if they focus on one.
Some young people have even begun to discuss sexless marriage, yearning for a marriage relationship where they simply help each other and "hitchhike" each other like friends.
In fact, the main reason for the gradual kapibala of contemporary young people's view of marriage is economic and social pressure.
Under the winter of employment, many young people of marriageable age are still struggling to make ends meet, and it would be good to keep their jobs, who still has the energy to think about marriage?
Moreover, today's online media has really changed the social structure and needs of young people.
Lying down with a mobile phone in the bed, countless entertainment information, people's spiritual world is extremely fulfilling, and there is almost no need for marriage.
Kayoon Anderson
Although it is the general trend of the times to become more and more indifferent to marriage, in the final analysis, "husband's lovelorn literature" is just a joke on the Internet.
Moreover, most of its participants are also joining in the fun, so it is okay to make a joke on the Internet, and in reality, you still have to pay respect to marriage, not child's play~