Why should extramarital affairs be discovered and explained in time? Because it's easy to get back when you just cheat!
The reason why many original partners can't solve extramarital affairs.
is because when I first found out that a man was cheating, I was entangled in whether a man loved the original partner.
It's a question of whether you love the original match more or the junior more.
Instead of thinking about how to quickly solve the extramarital affair and how to kick the mistress out.
When a cheating man is first discovered, it is actually the time when the psychological defense line is the weakest.
The sense of panic of being discovered, the fear of the price that may be paid,
Cheating men are not clear, so wives can successfully solve extramarital affairs if they take advantage of it.
But wives don't take the chance, then they miss the best time to settle the affair.
Why is it easier to solve an extramarital affair when you first cheat.
On the one hand, it is because the cheating man and the mistress do not have enough emotional foundation.
Most extramarital affairs are not long-term relationships between cheating men and mistresses.
The cheating man and the mistress have known each other for many years, and there are only a few who suddenly begin to develop extramarital affairs.
Most of them met a woman out of the blue, and they knew each other's minds.
And then take advantage of a certain opportunity to break through the moral bottom line.
Most of the time, extramarital affairs are the first time that a passion develops.
So the cheating man and the mistress don't get along for a long time, and they don't have any emotional foundation.
Even if a man cheats, he is not completely devoid of feelings for his wife.
After really cheating, they are ruthless to their wives and don't want to return to the family at all are a minority.
Unless there has been a lot of conflict between the husband and wife in the marriage, the cheating man has a grudge against his wife.
Otherwise, after many years of husband and wife relationship, the cheating man will not make a decision directly.
The cheating man will still compare, and the emotional foundation with his wife, he feels that he really has no feelings with the sake lees.
At this time, the wives found out about the extramarital affair and reacted in time.
It's not too difficult to solve an extramarital affair, but only if you use it in the right way.
On the other hand, because cheating men are afraid of being discovered, they are psychologically tortured.
Many men cheat for the first time, and when they are not discovered, they are psychologically tormented.
Not all men cheat justifiably,
Some cheating men are thieves who have the courage to be thieves.
But after cheating, I will also think a lot, such as what will happen if I am discovered.
Are you sorry for your wife, what should you do if you really get divorced?
If you normally break through the moral bottom line, men are happy but also painful after cheating.
The wife just found out that the man was cheating, and their guilt is still there,
Their psychological torture is also there, and the wife is settling the extramarital affair at this time.
You can guide cheating men, and when they end their affair, they end the psychological torture.
Men cheating are all happy and cool, but if they have an extramarital affair, it is very painful.
The wife found out about the affair, solved the affair, and they were not so painful.
The cheating man will naturally choose, so it is not difficult for him to do something painful.
Cheating men are greedy, and there may be nothing wrong with marriage.
It's because of greed that I want to cheat on the mistress.
But cheating men are also selfish, and extramarital affairs have no effect on him,
will be greedy and want everything, if it affects the cheating man, he will definitely choose to give up the extramarital affair.
The last aspect is because cheating men feel that the threshold for returning is low.
It doesn't take long for a man to cheat and be discovered, and the cheating man will feel that it is easier for the original partner to forgive him at this stage.
This is also a reality, it doesn't take long for a man to cheat, as long as he is discovered,
behaves relatively well, and wives will feel that cheating on men is excusable.
The cheating man quickly ended the affair with the mistress, and he was able to return to the family smoothly.
So wives find out in time, it is easier to solve extramarital affairs,
Because the threshold for return is low, the price that cheating men need to pay is less, and cheating men naturally return to the family.
But many original partners like to raise the threshold for men to return to the family.
For example, there are a lot of requirements for men, and Su Yue does not recommend doing these when the extramarital affair is not resolved.
Don't cheat on the man and hesitate to break up with the mistress, and the wife begins to make all kinds of requests.
The cheating man has to write a letter of guarantee, and he has to do this and that, which directly scares the cheating man so much that he doesn't dare to return.
You can solve the problem of the mistress first, and then go to rectify the cheating man.
This is more beneficial to the original wife, cutting off the way out, and it is easier for the cheating man to choose to return to the family.
The relationship between the cheating man and the mistress has always been fragile, especially when it was embarrassing to cheat for a long time
It is more of a deal between them to take what they need, and only when they are satisfied with each other can they cooperate for a long time.
If one party is more greedy and wants more, it is easy to upset the balance.
Or if one party is no longer able to meet the needs of the other, the relationship will break down.
Or maybe two people are tired of each other, the novelty is gone, the excitement is gone, there is no demand, and the relationship is easy to end.
In fact, only by discovering and solving in time can we get twice the result with half the effort.
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