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Others often say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have daughter-in-law, and only then can there be a daughter-in-law. If the mother-in-law does not act in the first ten years, then the daughter-in-law will naturally not act in the next ten years.
People's hearts are mutual, and children's filial piety is also based on the love of their parents. If parents are not loving, how can they demand filial piety from their children?
After giving birth to a daughter, I hurt my body and never conceived a son and a half daughter. When my husband lost hope of having a son, my mother-in-law became angry with me.
The mother-in-law instigated her husband to divorce and marry a woman who could give birth to a son for her husband, even if it was a second marriage. When my husband didn't agree, my mother-in-law vented all her anger on me and my daughter.
02
My name is Su Min, I am 30 years old and I have a 3 year old daughter.
Others envy my husband for protecting me in everything, but only I know that my husband is also a foolish and filial man, but his degree of foolishness is not so serious.
My husband and I met at work, we are not only children, I have a younger brother, he also has a younger brother, and the family background is similar.
It's just that when I talked about marriage, my mother-in-law disliked me all the time, thinking that with her son's handsome appearance and ability, she would definitely be able to marry an only daughter and achieve a leap in class, but my husband chose me, but he pulled his hips.
03
My mother-in-law's dislike made me feel incredible. Obviously, the conditions of the two families are comparable, and my mother-in-law also gave birth to two sons, so what qualifications do you have to pick and choose from me?
Despite my mother-in-law's opposition, my husband resolutely married me. It's just that when we got married at that time, our conditions were indeed shabby. The in-laws' family didn't buy a wedding house, and even the bride price was only a pitiful 10,000.
Fortunately, my husband is good, so I don't have to worry about his parents. House and car, sooner or later he will work hard for me. With my husband's assurance, I lived with him with peace of mind.
In order to save money to buy a house, we postponed our plans to have a baby. It wasn't until we bought a house and moved in that we started trying to get pregnant. Fortunately, I was lucky enough to get pregnant as soon as I got pregnant, and I didn't suffer much.
04
After I became pregnant, my mother-in-law, who hugged her grandson, was very kind to me for a while. Although she didn't come to take care of me, she often called my husband to care about my pregnancy test and body, and often asked my husband to go back to his hometown to bring some souvenirs to supplement my body.
I laughed a little at my mother-in-law's duplicity, but I didn't expose my mother-in-law's careful thoughts. It's just that after I was pregnant for ten months and gave birth to a daughter, my mother-in-law's concern disappeared.
Seeing that the long-awaited grandson has become a granddaughter, my mother-in-law has never made a phone call, let alone fulfilled her promise to take care of my confinement and child.
Just because I gave birth to a daughter, my mother-in-law's good impression of me disappeared again, and I poured all my hopes into my brother-in-law's daughter-in-law, who was pregnant before she got married.
05
In order to hug her grandson, the mother-in-law took out all her savings of 500,000 yuan, bought a house for her brother-in-law, and asked her brother and daughter-in-law for warmth, and lived in her brother-in-law's house early to serve her brother-in-law's three meals a day.
As for the life or death of my daughter and me, it is completely out of my mother-in-law's heart. In this regard, I was aggrieved and sad, and my husband was also helpless, but he couldn't force his parents, so he had to persuade me to continue to endure.
My mother-in-law stayed at my brother-in-law's house to contribute money, and when the old house in my hometown was demolished and divided, my husband and I were waiting for my in-laws' money. According to the rules, the two sons are naturally divided equally.
However, we waited day after day, month after month, but we never waited for the call from my mother-in-law to inform us of the demolition payment. After my husband and I went to my brother-in-law's house, we learned that the demolition money had already been given to my brother-in-law by my mother-in-law, and my brother-in-law took advantage of it and used it to buy a second school district house the next day.
06
In the face of our questioning, my mother-in-law said confidently that the money is ours and we are in charge. In addition, you only gave birth to a daughter, not even a son, what qualifications do you have to compete with your brother-in-law and daughter-in-law who have two sons?
We went home dejected. It's just that since then, my mother-in-law and I have completely cut off contact. And my husband rarely goes to my brother-in-law's house again.
However, I didn't get any benefits from my in-laws, but I have the responsibility to fulfill my in-laws' obligations. After my mother-in-law fell ill and was hospitalized at my brother-in-law's house, she did not ask my brother and daughter-in-law to serve, but a phone call asking me to resign and serve.
The mother-in-law's reason is that your brother-in-law has two sons and is under great financial pressure, and neither husband and wife can easily resign. But I'm different, I only have one daughter, and I refuse to have a second child, I quit my job and go home to serve her, it won't affect anything, anyway, there is still her son earning money to support the family.
When it comes to sharing money and benefits, I'm just an outsider and I'm not qualified. Now that I am sick and need to be filial, I am the best candidate. It's really a thick-skinned person who can do anything.
I couldn't help sneering and told my mother-in-law slowly, divide the money and share the benefits, I am an outsider and I am not worthy. You are sick and need to be served, I am an outsider and I am not worthy, you should find your good daughter-in-law to serve.
It's not that I'm ruthless and selfish, it's that some people's faces are big. Isn't she counting what she has done before?