Xiao Ai recently saw a private message from a reader in the background:
Recently, life has been confused, and my boyfriend, who I have been in love for five years, just got married last year, but in the past six months, I found out that he was prostituting and contracted a sexually transmitted disease, and it has been transmitted to me.
Suddenly, I felt that love was not reliable at all, and I felt that my marriage was extremely shameful. He regretted it, saying that he had just made a mistake that all men in the world would make, and that many of his friends around him were prostitutes.
He said that in the future, all his wages will be paid, and the RV will be written in my name, but I am unwilling and really don't want to eat this bowl of raw rice.
The phenomenon of male prostitution seems to be very common, and there are even many public figures who have been involved in prostitution scandals and ruined their good careers! Why are more and more men prostituting?
1. What are the reasons for more and more men engaging in prostitution?
In a 2015 survey by Pan Suiming, a professor at Renmin University of Chinese, 13.6% of men aged 18-61 had ever looked for a miss, and the highest proportion was 26.4% of men aged 25-29.
In real life, many men feel that wildflowers are more fragrant than domestic flowers, or mental or physical derailment, and some prostitutes continue, and the main reasons for male prostitution are the following three!
1. Loneliness for a long time
Men who have been single for a long time or who have been in a discordant relationship after marriage may choose to engage in prostitution to meet their physical needs.
2. Strong libido and the other half cannot be satisfied
There are also some men who choose prostitution to vent their desires because they have a strong sexual desire and the other half cannot be satisfied. And prostitution, with the blessing of money transactions, makes many men satisfied and addicted to it.
3. Hunting psychology
Even if you have a happy family life, but the daily firewood, rice, oil, salt and trivial life will gradually make people lose their freshness, and prostitution caused by curiosity can face different groups of people, which will also lead to addiction to some men.
2. People with these characteristics are more likely to engage in prostitution
It is said that when a man is rich, he becomes bad and will choose to go out and steal food, but how can a woman find out if her partner is prostituting? In real life, these types of people are more likely to engage in prostitution!
1. Middle-aged and elderly people with high income and no partner
A study in the United States found that some middle-aged and elderly people with high incomes and no partners were more likely to engage in prostitution through a survey of men aged 60-84.
2. Dissatisfied with sex life and frequent browsing of pornographic content
A study published in Archives of Sexual Behavior, through a survey of 6,048 Swedish people, found that men who are dissatisfied with their sex life and frequently browse pornography are more likely to participate in prostitution and buy sexual services.
3. Neurotic, extroverted, and emotionally unstable people
A mainland survey of some clients of prostitutes in custody found that many of them had symptoms of paranoia, anxiety, depression, and obsessive-compulsion compared to normal men.
Nowadays, many young people choose not to get married and not have children, but more and more young people are targeted by sexually transmitted diseases, mainly because the concept of sexuality is constantly open, and the sexual relationship is not exclusive and unclean, which increases the risk of sexually transmitted diseases and provides a channel for the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.
Terrible is the destruction of health, one risky sexual act is enough!
In a previous hot search video, a girl wrapped in a hotel sheet yelled at a man who had just had a relationship, "Do you really have AIDS?" The man's affirmative answer made the girl break down for a while and cry. It turned out that after this man suffered from AIDS, he chose to hide it and have a relationship with the girl in order to take revenge on society.
3. Prostitution is risky, and 5 common STDs need to be understood
A sexually transmitted disease (STD) is a disease that is transmitted through sexual contact, and can be divided into a broad STD and a narrow STD.
Systemic diseases include syphilis, gonorrhea, chancroid, lymphogranuloma venereum, inguinal granuloma, genital warts, genital herpes, AIDS, vulvovaginal candidiasis, non-gonococcal urethritis, vaginal trichomoniasis, scabies, pubic lice, and hepatitis B.
STDs in the narrow sense include five classic STDs: syphilis, gonorrhea, chancroid chancre, lymphogranuloma venereum and inguinal granuloma.
An Jingang, deputy chief physician of the Dermatology Hospital of the Second Affiliated Hospital of Xi'an Jiaotong University, said: These five STDs are very common, and we must learn about them as soon as possible!
1. Genital warts
Genital warts mostly occur in the genital area, such as the vagina, vulva and other parts of the papillary, cauliflower, cockscomb-shaped and other growths, and the growth rate is particularly fast, very contagious.
2. Syphilis
Patients with primary syphilis may have chancre on the vulva, but because it resolves spontaneously, it is easy to miss the diagnosis; Secondary syphilis appears 3 to 10 weeks after infection, and there may be bronze patches on the hands and feet that resolve spontaneously without treatment; Primary syphilis is relatively rare and can cause bone, skin, nerve and cardiovascular lesions.
3. Genital herpes
Patients with genital herpes may have obvious itching and burning sensation in the vulva, as well as pimples, erythema, and blisters, which may recur.
4. Gonorrhea
Patients with gonorrhea will have symptoms such as increased secretions, difficulty urinating, urgency, and frequent urination, as well as symptoms such as proctitis, endocarditis, pharyngitis, and encephalitis.
5. AIDS
AIDS is caused by HIV infection, and the human immunodeficiency virus will attack the body's immune cells, thereby causing symptoms.
An Jingang reminded that the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases should be done cleanly, pay attention to homosexuals, strengthen the awareness of protection, and pay more attention to the sexual needs of the elderly, and guide them correctly.
In general, prostitution not only affects the social climate, but also increases health risks, and if you are not careful, you will be targeted by sexually transmitted diseases. Therefore, whether it is for the health of themselves and their partners, or to better maintain the relationship between both parties, it is recommended that male compatriots clean themselves and establish a correct concept of sex.
Resources:
[1] "How to tell if a partner has prostituted? 7 Practical Suggestions, Please Collect". Clinic 11.2023-09-11
[2] "Young people are having less and less sex, but more and more young people are getting STDs!" 》. Health Times.2020-07-21
[3] "Know a little more and stay away from STDs". Health News.2019-08-20
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