Hello everyone, I am the eldest sister of the north, a 90-year professional mother, this is my 121st article, after a year of persistence, will I thank me for persisting now.
I am 34 years old this year, 90 years old, married and have children, my son is almost three years old, my husband and I are programmers, the salary is less than 10,000 yuan, I may be a fake programmer, but the reality is like this, it is not as high as the salary, and the women I know around me are almost all programmers at this salary.
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I feel that my work has entered a bottleneck, after all, I am 34 years old, and 35 years old is a hurdle for the program, regardless of boys and girls. After the baptism of layoffs last year, I feel that my situation is even more difficult.
Friends I know who are currently unemployed, or who have quit their jobs and are looking for a job, have all encountered this problem one after another.
Now many people have submitted their resumes and have no response, and if they read it, there will be no follow-up, and even those who are less than 30 years old are facing such a problem.
My job is full of uncertainty, so I'm anxious.
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When the two of us got married, we didn't have our own house, so I felt that we both had to struggle to buy a house of our own, and I currently live in my mother-in-law's house, a 50-square-meter old and dilapidated house, if you wait for the child to be older, you can't live, you can't live at all, a total of two bedrooms, no living room ,️ and a small dining room.
At present, I am going all out to buy my own house as soon as possible.
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When it comes to saving money, I still have a little idea of my own. I should be regarded as the kind of person with low desire, I don't have high requirements for my quality of life, so I can always save some money, once when I just graduated, I had a salary of three or four thousand, and I was able to save 100,000 in three years. Although my husband doesn't spend money indiscriminately, but when he buys things, he also buys things casually, and after getting married, under my influence, he goes out and spends as little money as possible.
Now my husband earns money to pay off the mortgage of the current house and help my mother-in-law pay social security and daily living expenses, and the rest of the money is saved, and his money is never handed over to me, he says that he has a little money in his hands. I can just take care of my son's expenses, now my son spends less money, and most of the money I earn can be saved, so there is no big pressure to buy a house and make a down payment in two or three years, as long as the price of the house does not rise
Educational spending
My child has not yet started kindergarten, and he will have to start signing up next month, and when he goes to kindergarten, the family has one more educational expense, and the child's tuition fee is seven or eight hundred per month, plus the cost of eating, one thousand five or six a month should be about the same.
My children have basically not attended any systematic initiation tutoring classes now, and have attended a few experience classes in training institutions. But I've heard from others that it's still important for children to take a training class before they go to school. I inquired about the cost of the tutoring class outside, basically three or four thousand, saying that it was not much, but it was also a lot, and I was considering whether to sign up for a class. Although I am more picky, but I think I can not be stingy in the child's education, and I can apply for this kind of tutoring class that the child is interested in in the future, but the premise is to make my child feel happy, not stressed.
summary
Although our family is not wealthy, it should be at the lower middle level, but there are no lazy people in the family, they are all working hard for their own lives, I believe that as long as we work hard to earn money, our life in Qingdao will be stable, and the better it gets.
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