No matter who you are in-laws with, you must leave 3 hearts, otherwise you will suffer a big loss, and you can't speak, have you ever experienced such a thing?
Today, let's talk about family affairs, there are very few heart-to-heart exchanges between in-laws, and it can't be said that there are none, very few. But between some in-laws, you really have to keep an eye on it, sometimes you can only swallow it in your stomach when you hold your breath, and tell outsiders that your in-laws are not, and others have to laugh at you, don't say it, hold back the fire in your belly, Wang Ba drilled the stove pit, and held her breath and nested fire.
Let's see which 3 hearts and minds to keep? My sister did something that was both breath-holding and angry, and my son has been in a partner for five years and is ready to get married, which makes my sister happy! Mouthless, big bag said, buy a house for the children, buy a car, seem to be generous, thought that the in-laws will be full of promises, but I didn't expect the in-laws to open their mouths to ask for a bride price of 300,000 yuan, and then buy a store house.
This is the consequence of showing off in front of others, I have to be very energetic, my sister is a face-to-face person, the thin donkey pulls hard, you have to agree if you don't agree, and you have to laugh if you eat a dumb loss. Although the relationship between relatives and family sounds quite close, you can't say everything! If you say too much, you will lose, why don't you know that half of the words are left on your lips?
The second eye, is not to easily touch the interests of the other party, everyone knows in their hearts, people have two hearts, in front of major events are all confidants, on the surface, the family is a family, once something big happens! They all think about their own interests, and their brothers are easy to do, not to mention their in-laws, they will not think about each other.
Let's just say that when my eldest sister went to the countryside, she married in the countryside, and the eldest sister's in-laws are her neighbors, and the in-laws are going to open a rice processing factory, and they want to use the land of my eldest sister's family. It's no one else, and the dry processing factory makes money for the children, so I didn't think much about it, and readily agreed.
But what I didn't expect was that five years later, the construction of the highway occupied the processing plant, her in-laws were really too greedy, did not give my sister a penny, and put all the compensation into her own pocket, which made my eldest sister angry with a serious illness, in the past five years, I didn't give her a little benefit, and I didn't treat my sister as my own family, isn't this a trick? I know that I take advantage of it, and I don't even let go of my in-laws.
My sister can't say if she is bitter, she is dumb and eats coptis, and she can't say what she is suffering about! You can't make it difficult for the kids to do this! So! Don't touch other people's interests easily, in front of interests, your in-laws are nothing.
Point 3, what I want to say is that the little couple is angry and awkward, don't run home, it's not that your mother's house doesn't want you to go back, you can't stay when you go back to your parents' house if you make a fuss, my daughter returned to me in the middle of the night two days ago, I can't stay in the middle of the night, I didn't sleep in the second half of the night, I got up in the morning and sent my daughter back to my mother-in-law's house, there was nothing wrong, if we stayed, people would think badly, and they might misunderstand that their mother's family gave a bad idea, and they couldn't leave a handle for others, right? Let them take care of the children's affairs on their own!
Having said that, this family relationship, you still have to keep your distance, don't get too close, am I right? The comment section says thank you for your attention!