We elderly people want to live a comfortable life in our old age, and there are some things that we really need to pay attention to.
If you live to this age, it doesn't matter if the cards in your hand are good or not, but it depends on how you play.
Even if you have a good hand of cards and are played poorly by you, your life in your old age will not be very comfortable.
At the age of 70, there are a few words that I have memorized, which is good for us.
The first sentence is, don't run to the child's house if you have nothing to do.
Today's young people have a different concept from our older generation.
In the past, everyone liked to live together as a family, and it was lively.
But now, many young people value their own personal space more than their elders.
Look at those newly married couples, which one doesn't want to have their own nest?
It's not that they are not filial, they just want to be free and live their own little life.
We elderly people also have to understand and understand them, and don't always think about getting involved in their lives.
Second, physical health is a top priority.
At this age, our bodies are not as tough as they were when we were younger.
The digestion of the stomach and intestines is not good, and the resistance has also decreased, which is all a natural law, and no one can escape it.
Usually, we have to pay more attention to health, don't toss this and that all day long.
Be careful when you walk, don't fall and bump into it. Elderly people have brittle bones, and falling is not a joke.
We have to take care of ourselves and don't cause trouble to the children. When you get sick, not only do you feel uncomfortable, but you also have to worry about your children, so why bother?
In the third sentence, you still have to rely on yourself for the elderly.
Now, there are many ways to provide for the elderly, some rely on pensions, some rely on savings, some rely on groups, and some rely on children.
But to be honest, relying on children to provide for the elderly is sometimes really unreliable.
It is no longer the era of the past, and the concept of raising children to prevent old age has been "abolished" by young people.
Today's young people are also under a lot of pressure, they have to raise children, pay off mortgages and car loans, how can there be extra money for us to retire?
So, we still have to plan our pension in advance, isn't there such a sentence?
It's better to rely on no one than on yourself. Don't wait until you're old to regret it.
The fourth sentence, if you have been single for a long time or your wife is gone, don't look for it again.
At our age, finding another wife is a lot of trouble.
How pure are the feelings now as when they were young, many of them are purposeful, and most of them are running for money.
Is there a sincere, figure you as a person? Yes, but not all of them are so lucky to come across them.
At that time, not only will you have to deal with the problem of pension, but also the division of family property, how tiring it is.
We old people, it's better to live a quiet life, don't find guilt for yourself.
I have to focus on the fifth sentence, don't touch these things like pornography, gambling and drugs!
Some elderly people may think, "Oh, I'm so old, I can do whatever I want."
I've lived my whole life on this hobby, and I don't know when it's gone, thanks to it.
What a mistake! Think about it, we still have families and children, and if we get these bad things, it will be all ruined, and we will have to drag our families into the water.
Pornography, gambling and drugs are all money-burning things, and they are particularly addictive, once they fall into it, they will never come out.
We have to be a little self-aware, don't touch these things!
The sixth sentence is the mentality of our elderly, stay optimistic and cheerful.
Mentality, but it's a key. We elderly people must maintain an optimistic and cheerful attitude, and don't be sad all day long.
You know, it's less than ten years to laugh! Let's laugh a lot, not only can make ourselves happy, but also bring positive energy to the people around us!
We seniors also have to have a little bit of our own little circle.
You can chat with old friends, play cards, square dance or something.
This can not only enhance the relationship, but also make our life more colorful!