The joy before the wedding
In a small family in Shangqiu, Henan Province, the bride and groom are busy preparing for their wedding. The sun shines through the window on their faces, and they look radiant. Together, they choose their wedding dresses, arrange the venue, prepare wedding invitations, and every detail is full of their expectations and visions for the future.
The bride and groom are locals and they know what the wedding means to them. In this land, a wedding is not only a ceremony, but also a major event for a family and an entire community. Therefore, they carefully prepared for a memorable wedding.
In the days leading up to the wedding, the house was filled with laughter. Relatives and friends came to help, and everyone worked together to decorate the wedding scene festive and warm. The bride and groom's mobile phones receive blessings from relatives and friends from time to time, and every message makes them feel warm and expectant.
The bride and groom look forward to the wedding day every day, and they imagine the moment they walk into the wedding hall with happiness and contentment. They know that this day will be the most important day of their lives, and they will move on to a new life and create a better future together.
In an atmosphere of joy and anticipation, the bride and groom continue to be busy, making final preparations for the upcoming wedding. They believe that this wedding will be a wonderful start, a moment that they will remember with their friends and family.
Surprise attack of the disembarkation salute
On the day of the wedding, the sun was shining, and the groom came to the bride's house with excitement to pick up the bride and get off the bus. It is a traditional ceremony in their hometown, and the groom needs to surprise the bride with a drop off to show respect and love for her.
However, the bride's best friend suddenly proposed at this critical moment that according to their custom, the groom needs to give the bride a drop-off gift of 28,800 yuan on the spot to lead the bride off the bus. This sudden request left the groom's family stunned and stressed. They had never heard of the custom, and the money was not a small amount for them.
The groom's family suddenly fell into an awkward situation. They had already spent a huge amount of money on the wedding, and they couldn't afford it for a while. The groom discussed with the bride if he could make up for it less or later, but their girlfriend insisted that he must come up with the disembarkation gift on the spot.
The two sides reached an impasse and could not reach a consensus. The bride's best friend is resolute, she believes that this is a respect and blessing for the bride, and there can be no compromise. The groom's family felt helpless, fearing that such an impasse would affect the wedding and even the relationship between the two families.
The bride looked at the groom's embarrassed appearance, and her heart was full of contradictions and pain. She knew it was her best friend's meaning, but she also understood the groom's predicament. She began to hesitate, not knowing what to do. At this time, the auspicious time for the wedding is approaching, and the groom's family is in a hurry, hoping to find a solution to make the wedding go smoothly.
The intensification of contradictions
As time went on, the groom and the bride discussed whether they could make up for it later or later, but their girlfriend insisted that they had to come up with the drop-off gift on the spot. The two sides reached an impasse and could not reach a consensus.
The bride's best friend is resolute, she believes that this is a respect and blessing for the bride, and there can be no compromise. The groom's family felt helpless, fearing that such an impasse would affect the wedding and even the relationship between the two families.
The bride looked at the groom's embarrassed appearance, and her heart was full of contradictions and pain. She knew it was her best friend's meaning, but she also understood the groom's predicament. She began to hesitate, not knowing what to do. At this time, the auspicious time for the wedding is approaching, and the groom's family is in a hurry, hoping to find a solution to make the wedding go smoothly.
Just as the two sides were in an awkward stalemate, a man on the groom's side couldn't help it and stepped forward to try to communicate with the bride's best friend. However, the communication did not make any progress and instead sparked emotions on both sides. In a fit of rage, the man directly pulled the bride's best friend out of the car and scolded her.
This behavior angered the bride, who got out of the car and hit the man. Unexpectedly, the man fought back. The scene became chaotic for a while, and the bride broke down, repented on the spot, and insisted on leaving.
The groom and a group of relatives hurriedly chased after the bride, but the bride was emotional and resolutely shook off the groom and continued to leave. The groom's family was embarrassed and confused, unable to believe that the wedding, which was supposed to be festive, could take such a dramatic turn out at this moment.
This sudden conflict not only made it impossible for the bride and groom to continue the wedding ceremony, but also caused tension in the relationship between the two families. And all of this, because of a sudden request to get off the bus, turned the originally happy day into an irreparable mistake.
Wedding changes
The bride broke down emotionally, repented on the spot, and insisted on leaving. The groom and a group of relatives hurriedly chased after the bride, but the bride was emotional and resolutely shook off the groom and continued to leave. The groom's family was embarrassed and confused, unable to believe that the wedding, which was supposed to be festive, could take such a dramatic turn out at this moment.
This sudden conflict not only made it impossible for the bride and groom to continue the wedding ceremony, but also caused tension in the relationship between the two families. And all of this, because of a sudden request to get off the bus, turned the originally happy day into an irreparable mistake.
After the bride got out of the car, she hit the groom, but what she didn't expect was that the groom also fought back, and the bride couldn't sit still, so she shook off the groom's hand and wanted to leave and escape from the marriage.
The groom and a group of relatives hurriedly chased after the bride, but the bride was obviously angry, and while crying, she threw off the groom and continued to leave! We know that the newlyweds have already obtained the certificate before the wedding, and the two are already legally husband and wife, and this wedding farce will affect the relationship between the two and even the relationship between the two families.
The bride's best friend posted an apology
This incident quickly sparked heated discussions after it was put on the Internet, and the bride's best friend was accused by netizens, and it was at this time that a netizen who claimed to be the bride's best friend issued an apology.
Netizens who claimed to be the bride's best friend said that this incident troubled her very much and was blamed by public opinion, she explained that it was a custom for their bride to give a certain off-the-bus ceremony when she got off the bus, representing the groom's respect and blessing to the bride.
In general, she is not wrong, but she does not take into account the cultural backgrounds and customs of different regions and individuals, and hopes to be understood by netizens.
For this apology, netizens obviously don't agree, if it's just a misunderstanding, the two sides have communicated for half an hour, can't they communicate clearly? Since it's just a custom, why does it have to be 28,800?
The bride's family brought the bride to the door to apologize
After seeing the video, one of the points that netizens were curious about was whether the wedding went smoothly at that time.
In addition to accusing the bride's best friend of being unreliable, many people think that the bride has no opinion, why should she listen to her best friend for this kind of thing, doesn't she know that it will make the groom's family ugly?
The bride is in charge of this matter, and if she agrees to get out of the car, there will be nothing to do behind, and there is an obvious mistake.
According to insiders, the two parties failed to complete the wedding that day, and the bride's family took the bride to apologize, and said that it depends on the attitude of the groom's family.
This incident was a big blow to both parties, especially the groom's family, and there was such a farce on the wedding day, which became a topic of conversation.
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Find a solution
As the incident unfolded, the groom's family realized that they needed to take action to resolve the issue. They understand that if not handled properly, the events of the wedding could leave permanent scars on them and even affect the future relationship between the two families.
The groom's family and some friends got together to discuss how to calm the turmoil. They decided to communicate with the bride first, hoping to understand her feelings and find a mutually acceptable solution. They knew that the bride had played an important role in the incident, and her attitude was crucial in resolving the issue.
At the same time, the bride's family also realized their mistake, and they admitted to being too impulsive in this incident and did not take into account the feelings of the groom's family. They decided to bring the bride to the door to apologize in person, hoping to get the groom's family's understanding.
While waiting for the arrival of the bride's family, the groom's family began to reflect on the cause of the incident. They realize that although the bride's best friend makes unreasonable demands, they also have a certain responsibility. If they could better communicate and understand each other's customs before the wedding, they might be able to avoid such conflicts.
When the bride's family arrives at the groom's house, a frank conversation ensues. The groom's family expressed their understanding and concern for the bride, but also expressed their own difficulties. The bride's family sincerely apologized and expressed their willingness to take all necessary measures to repair the damage caused by the incident.
With the joint efforts of both parties, they began to discuss possible solutions. They decided to postpone the wedding so that there would be enough time to deal with the issue and ensure that the wedding could take place in a harmonious atmosphere. At the same time, they also agreed to set up a mutual fund to cover the economic losses caused by the incident.
Through this conversation, both the groom's family and the bride's family realized that they needed more communication and understanding to maintain the marriage. They promise to work together, not only for the smooth wedding, but also for their future happiness.
Over time, the negative impact of this incident gradually diminished. The bride and groom rearranged the wedding and began their new life with the blessings of family and friends. While the incident caused them pain, they learned an important lesson: in marriage, communication and understanding are key.
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