The son gave birth to a son out of wedlock, and the daughter came out of the closet, and finally pulled the eldest child, how did it become like this 

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2024-05-09 18:00Posted in Beijing Parenting Creators

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It's difficult for us middle-aged people, Mi Li's mother has complained more than once.

The comment area is casually filled with a large resonance, and the feeling of exhaustion is about to overflow the screen.

Every time I was speechless by the god of rice grains, Mi Li's mother wanted to look up to the sky and ask, is it only us who is so difficult?

But after watching these dramas, I found that in the area of raising children, it is also a big problem to spread all over the world. The trivialities of middle-aged people turned out to be global unity.

is like a very classic line in the British drama "The Nurturer", "I am willing to die for them, but sometimes I want to kill them." ”

It's very realistic, there is no one!

Speaking of which, the fourth season of "The Nurturer" is out, let's first empathize with their lives.

This light-hearted and humorous family short drama has been steadily gaining nearly 9 points on Douban, with a small volume of 20 minutes per episode, which is full of noisy daily life of the family.

When it launched the second season, Mi Li's mother was Amway, poking "Don't dare to watch "Little Shede", you might as well chase this heart-piercing British drama, super healing! >> Review.

In the blink of an eye, the fourth season has arrived, and Paul and Ellie's children have grown up, but their lives don't seem to get easier as the children grow up.

One day, Luke brings back the bombshell news that he is going to be a dad!

Luke, who was nervous about the alarm system at home when he was a child, fought with Paul as an adolescent and forced his father out of the house, is now going to be a father.

As soon as the news came out, it was like a bomb, bringing new challenges to this originally peaceful home.

Luke was delighted, but he was clearly not ready to be a good father.

Children are the bond of a family, and they are toddlers and babbling like little angels. But they are also a lurking time bomb that can make the whole family jump without a little carelessness.

What Paul and Ellie have been through, now it's Luke and Maya's turn to continue the challenge.

Everyone has the appearance of their original family, so Luke also inherited a lot of Paul's bad temper at the beginning.

Luke couldn't help but yell at the baby's crying, just as Paul had done to him and his sister.

But his father's instinct made him still pour a lot of love into his children.

He left home to study in Manchester, leaving his girlfriend Maya and newborn baby in London.

Luke thought about them and wanted to be there for them all the time, but he couldn't afford a weekly round-trip ticket, let alone a car, so he had to travel three times a week and spend six hours on the road, just to see his children.

Maya advises him to focus on his studies and cherish this hard-won opportunity, but Luke explodes with fatherly love, saying that he will be able to balance his studies and family.

He remembers that when he was a child, although his father would occasionally be irritable and angry with them, he would always calm him and his sister in the end, and Luke remembered these little details of getting along with each other, and he also wanted to be a good father like Paul.

After becoming a father himself, Luke finally understood his father's dedication and good intentions, and he cried and hugged Paul, and sincerely said "Thank you." ”

What is the plot of the great reconciliation of the century!

Compared to the sudden arrival of grandparents, the news brought by his sister Ava is not a bolt from the blue for Paul and Ellie.

She just came out of the closet.

Since she was a child, she has been the one who is easy to be ignored, because there are too many moths made by her brother.

When Luke was a child, there were always various "accidents", Paul and Ellie had to take him to the hospital repeatedly, and even went to the hospital's "blacklist" to suspect that they were abusing children.

Growing up, he became extremely sensitive, suffered from anxiety and insomnia, was withdrawn without friends, and floated alone in the middle of the river every day after school.

This made Paul and Ellie very sad, and they did not dare to get too close or too far away, so they could only carefully keep an eye on their son's dynamics, for fear of stimulating his emotions again.

Even if Luke later impulsively moved on Paul, it was Paul who endured the humiliation and moved out to live just to reassure his son.

But in this process, the youngest daughter felt that she was ignored like an invisible person, all because she was more "well-behaved" and more worry-free.

As the saying goes, a crying child has milk to eat, and in a family with many children, it seems that the more obedient one is always ignored.

She begins to close herself off like a little snail, and Paul and Ellie realize the seriousness of the problem and begin to soothe their sister's sensitive and delicate heart.

This time Ava has a girlfriend and wants to bring her home as a guest to officially confess her orientation to her family.

As a result, the family banquet was supposed to be warm and private, but a large number of guests came by mistake, and the scene was out of control for a while.

This strong Amway, ridiculous and funny!

These ridiculous bloody plots are like breaking a window and going directly to other people's homes to collect materials, although there may be some exaggerated ingredients, but in the face of problems in the process of children's growth, this suffocating feeling is so real.

It is said that foreign countries pursue happy education and never roll in, but in fact, do you want to change the school district room? What kind of growth path do you plan for your child? Their anxiety is no different from ours: "If you can't get into the best primary school, you can't go to a good middle school, if you can't go to a good middle school, you can't get into a good university, and in the end you can't find a good job, you can't pay the rent, you can't afford to buy a house, you can't get married, you can't have a baby"...

In addition to the problems of parenting, the family, marital relationship, family, friendship and mid-life crisis and other topics in the play are also very real.

This drama is over in the fourth season, and I really feel a lot of emotion when I chase it all the way, from the croaking baby to the adult, and then to the children have their own children, this is a new cycle of life.

Calculate that the days we can spend time with our children are numbered, so in the limited time, try to cherish it patiently.

In addition to the good drama "The Nurturer", Mi Li's mother also found some interesting family dramas for everyone, grinding your ears and watching the plot.

The road to parenting is hard, but fortunately, we will not be lonely with each other's company, watch some comedy dramas together, change our mood, and slowly continue on the road.

The Dreyers

Their family of five is all a master of lying flat, and they have actually laid down a good life.

In Bournemouth, a small city in England, Luisa, a single mother, raises five children, each of whom is very lying.

Like us, she dragged five puwa and had to face a lot of chicken feathers every day.

The boss who works as a real estate agent feels that there is less money and more work and wants to quit; The second child also wanted to drop out when he saw the fourth child drop out of school; The third daughter is a love brain, bent on getting married, and has changed from gnawing on the old to gnawing on her husband; The mother is middle-aged and widowed and destitute.

Faced with thick bills and bills for coal, water and electricity, the family decided to move to a beautiful island at home, get rid of urban civilization, and lie down completely.

The island is far from the urban civilization, but they have to face a large number of snakes, insects, rats and ants, and there are no beds, so the family can only sleep in suitcases.

In order to find food, the family has to go to picking, hunting, selling, and working.

They found that the cost and food and clothing of the city did not disappear because of the escape from urban civilization. Everyone should work harder to face life.

Unexpectedly, the family, who were originally out of place in the city, found what they were good at on the island and regained the meaning of life.

Mothers use their wisdom to lead every child on the path that is most suitable for them.

The eldest son became a best-selling novelist, and his mother was a loyal reader of every novel he finished seriously;

The second son's girlfriend is pregnant, and Luisa tells him to distinguish between love and responsibility, and not to get involved in marriage easily if there is no foundation, but to be brave and take responsibility.

The third daughter is attracted to the handsome boy, but when she wants to try the forbidden fruit, her mother will tell her that she can't do it yet.

The youngest son, Jerry, loves animals, and is really as his mother said to the principal: "Let the monkey teach him knowledge". He records changes in flamingo's feathers, brings seals home to breed, and holds a funeral for the bats as a family.

In fact, everyone who seems to be not good enough has a passion in their bones, but they have to find the right soil to enjoy it.

Luisa used her attitude to life to lead the whole family to lie down together, and on a pristine island, everyone found their own wonderful life.

Little Sheldon

In this drama, Mi Li's mother has also been crazy Amway, poking "This poisonous tongue child who scares the sky and the air teaches a lesson to all parents!" 》

Grandma Connie is my favorite character in this show!

Although Connie loves her grandchildren and helps with the children, she doesn't spend all of her time taking care of them.

Her little life is still prosperous, shopping, clubbing, and falling in love without delay at all.

But once someone dares to be unfair to their children, she is the first to rush forward.

George, the eldest of the three children, is fired from the store where he works for no reason, and Connie smashes the door with rotten eggs.

Mixi, the sister of the dragon and phoenix fetus, was bullied by the boy on the field and was so angry that she started to beat people, and her mother was so worried that she couldn't do it, but she shouted and cheered outside the court: beat him flat! Squash him!

Because Sheldon was said to be a freak, she personally went into battle with the other party, and she was beaten to the blue eyes but happily announced the battle situation: The other party was cut off a large piece of hair by me!

Connie is simply a living treasure, and she has contributed a lot of laughs to this drama by herself.

The interactions of this family are so strange and cute, so interesting!

They never say big truths, they don't dogma, they only help children establish three views in all kinds of trivial things in life, guide but do not control, care but do not cross the line.

The mother's dedication, the father's occasionally serious but philosophical guidance, and the grandmother's sense of humor and relaxation may be the best nourishment for the children.

"Our Day"

"Life gives me sour lemons, and I squeeze them into juice."

I think this sentence is the best interpretation of this drama.

This drama looks like "chicken soup" at first glance, but in fact, it is just telling children what kind of problems they will encounter on the way to grow up, and how to face family, love, friendship, work, dreams, failures, and even death.

When I was young, I always imagined in my heart what kind of person we would become, where we would live, and what kind of life we would live.

This drama will gently tell you that life has infinite possibilities, and no matter which path you choose, it is the right one.

You can be the investment banking elite of Wall Street, but you can drop everything and speak for different groups, even if it is from an ordinary congressman;

You can be a sparkling TV drama god, but you can put down fame and fortune and find your sudden self;

You can be a travel nurse, a housewife, an architect, a music teacher in a school for the blind, a dancer, a biologist......

We have accompanied the characters through the seasons and birthdays after birthday, and they will accompany us on the screen for the rest of our lives.

We think together, move together, and become a better version of ourselves together in front of and behind the screen.

Personal Profile: @米粒妈爱分享 Mi Li's mother, American returnee, Haidian parent. Focus on learning, educational experience and further education.

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