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Preface
Recently, Mr. Wei from Heze, Shandong Province reported his girlfriend's cold violence after getting engaged through his real name on the Internet.
was forced to withdraw from the marriage, and the woman refused to return the 340,000 dowry.
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In March 2023, Mr. Wei and Ms. Ma were engaged through a matchmaker and paid a bride price of 340,000 yuan to the woman.
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However, after giving the bride price, Mr. Wei said: "The other party's attitude towards me has changed a lot, and he has repeatedly been cold and violent and verbally abused to me, forcing me to withdraw from the marriage. ”
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Ms. Ma refuted this, admitting that she had misbehaved verbally,
However, he stressed that he had also been abused by Mr. Wei and called on the other party to stop the online violence.
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Mr. Wei posted a video on the Internet, claiming that he was pulling a banner downstairs at the woman's house and making negative comments online.
It is hoped that in this way pressure will be exerted to make the other party return the bride price.
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In response, Ms. Ma said that this practice caused her great mental pressure.
It was also pointed out that Mr. Wei had concealed personal and family circumstances during the engagement.
As soon as the topic was posted on the Internet, the comment area instantly exploded! Let's take a look
Netizen: My classmate is the same, he got divorced not long after he got married, and the bride price was not refunded, I said how much you should return! His family's hard-earned money. My classmate said that I feel sorry for his family, you can live with him
This kind of brigade has to take action and negotiate, otherwise it will be a lawsuit, and we will retreat here
Netizen: Girl, it's okay to cheat the man's feelings, but don't cheat the man's money, be careful and easy to get killed
Yes, some girls are not afraid of death.
Netizen: I'm afraid that the man's family will lose face, so I posted the bride price to my mother, saying that it was given by the man's family
I also posted it upside down, I didn't want people to say that I was material in the end
Netizen: Douyin let me see that not only Jiangxi is high in bride price, but also high in the whole country
If you don't return the money, you will sue her for fraud
Netizen: Resolutely crack down on marriage cheating bride price
When encountering this kind of person, the unmarried young man should be afraid of marriage
The issue of the return of the bride price
Regarding the return of the bride price, Ms. Ma said that she did not directly refuse to return it, but it needs to be resolved through the court and lawyers. She also mentioned that the bride price was usually brought back to the man's family after the marriage, and that she had lost some of her gold jewelry.
Social repercussions
The incident sparked widespread discussion on social media, with many netizens expressing concern about the bride price system and the problems it could raise. At the same time, the public has criticized and reflected on the behavior of both parties in the process of dealing with marital relations and disputes.
The bride price is often seen as a symbol of love and a bond between families during engagements and marriages, but this incident shows that without adequate communication and transparency, money transactions can easily turn into flashpoints of conflict. The case of Mr. Wei and Ms. Ma is a cautionary tale for all people who are about to enter marriage to understand and respect each other's values and expectations. At the same time, the incident also underscores the importance of a legal way to resolve financial issues in a marriage, especially if significant amounts of money are involved. Open and transparent communication and formal legal advice play a key role in preventing such disputes and helping to build healthier relationships.
conclusion
This incident not only highlights the legal and moral problems that may arise from the bride price culture in modern society, but also reflects the possible lack of communication and trust in the handling of marital relationships. As society becomes more aware of equality and individual rights, such incidents remind us to be more prudent in dealing with the financial and emotional issues associated with marriage.
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