The Jiangxi bride price turmoil is really jaw-dropping, 388,000 bride price, this is simply doubtful of life! Do you think this marriage has really become a litmus test for money? It's heart-stopping to think about.
Recently, I heard that there was a wedding in Shangqiu, Henan, because of the sky-high price of the car ceremony. I wondered, why is this bride price so high? 388,000, for us ordinary people, this is not a small amount. It's really distressing to think about the couples who stopped because of the bride price issue.
To be honest, I think the amount of this bride price is really rising, which is staggering. This is the case all over the country, and it seems to have become a trend. It reminds me of the story my grandmother told me when I was a child, that poor boy who had gone through a lot of hardships to marry the girl he loved. But now? Such stories seem to only exist in fairy tales.
Netizens also have different opinions on this matter, some say that this is a traditional custom that should be respected, and some people say that this custom should have been eliminated a long time ago. I think that this high bride price not only burdens young people with a heavy financial burden, but also makes marriage a transaction with a clear price. Is there really any true love in such a marriage?
Experts have said that behind this high bride price is a reflection of society's excessive materialization of marriage. In this materialistic society, we seem to have forgotten the most essential thing of marriage - that is, love! When money becomes the stepping stone to marriage, can we still find that innocent love? It's really emotional.
In addition to the bride price, there are also unreasonable wedding customs such as sky-high drop-off gifts. I really can't figure out how these customs put such a heavy financial burden on the couple and the two families. Shouldn't the essence of marriage be that two people love each other? Are these traditional practices really in line with the values of our modern society?
To be honest, there are friends around me who are hesitant because of the high bride price and the drop-off ceremony. They all hope that society can change this atmosphere and return marriage to its most essential state. I also think that we should really do something about it.
The high bride price and the sky-high price of getting off the bus have brought a lot of negative effects on individuals, families and even society. They have placed a heavy financial burden on some families and discouraged some young people from getting married. These unreasonable customs should really be reflected on and changed.
It is generally agreed that this unreasonable wedding custom should be curbed through legal and educational means. The government and all sectors of society should also work together to promote the reform of wedding customs and reduce the financial burden and psychological pressure on young people. Only in this way can our society develop more healthily and harmoniously.
Just when everyone was still talking about the bride price turmoil in Jiangxi, a wedding in Shangqiu, Henan Province was a big surprise. You said that the bride's best friend asked for a sky-high price at the wedding scene, which caused chaos at the wedding scene. I watched that video and was dumbfounded! What do you think? Does she think that the bride's happiness is measured by this disembarkation ceremony? It's incomprehensible.
I heard that the groom's family did not prepare so much money at that time, so I patiently persuaded for half an hour, hoping to replenish it afterwards, but the bride insisted that she must give it now, otherwise she would not get out of the car. As a result, a good wedding was messed up by this farce, and the man's family found someone to scold his girlfriend in a fit of anger, and the bride even started to fight directly, and said that the marriage would not be concluded. What's going on here?
Looking at the video, the man's family did move first, which may be the reason why the bride did it. But then again, on the day of the wedding, there is a time node in every link, the banquet has begun, but the newlyweds have not arrived, which inevitably makes people angry. The man also did not prepare emergency funds in the car, nor did he get to know the bride's best friend. And what about the bride, just because of her best friend's words, she "repaid" the person she was going to marry with a sky-high price of getting off the bus, is it really worth it?
The farce of the wedding quickly caused an uproar online, with netizens expressing their disgust at this unreasonable wedding custom. These customs not only affect the harmony and happiness of marriage, but also make people begin to question the nature and meaning of marriage, which is really embarrassing.
In general, unreasonable wedding customs such as sky-high bride prices and sky-high drop-off gifts have become a social problem, and we need to face up to these problems and actively seek solutions. The government, society and individuals should all work together to promote the reform and innovation of wedding customs, only in this way can we return marriage to its most essential state, and let love become the cornerstone of marriage rather than money and material. At the same time, we must also learn to think rationally and make independent judgments, and keep a clear head when facing traditional customs, and not be bound by bad habits.
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