In Guangdong, when the man was engaged, his mother-in-law proposed a bride price of 800,000 yuan, and the man agreed to show his sincerity. Later, the mother-in-law asked to add her daughter's name to the marriage room, and the man agreed without saying a word. Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law's request was not over, and when the wedding was approaching, she actually made an even more excessive request, this time, the man did not compromise, threw down a few words and left without looking back.
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In a few days, Guo Pei's wedding will be held, and relatives with good relations have already come to Guo Pei's house to help decorate the boudoir and prepare the banquet.
Guo Pei had already tried on her wedding dress several times, looking forward to the arrival of the auspicious day, and her face was already full of happiness.
Just when she was looking forward to all this, her boyfriend Zhang Ming suddenly left, shattering her dreams and making her fall into the abyss from which she could never recover.
Looking at the background of her boyfriend's departure, Guo Pei looked out the window with empty eyes. Let the tears run dry, leaving endless sadness and despair, and endless embarrassment and regret in his eyes.
Recalling his acquaintance with Ah Ming, Guo Pei had mixed feelings in his heart.
Boyfriend Zhang Ming is a child from the countryside, with his own efforts and talents, he has worked hard in the city and also got a job with an annual salary of 600,000 yuan. The hardships and sweat behind this are known only to him.
Guo Pei admires Zhang Ming's tenacity and self-motivation, but also feels sorry for his difficulties. Since the two fell in love, they have been supporting each other, facing various challenges in life together, and immersed in the happiness of their feelings.
However, Guo Pei's mother doesn't think so.
Guo Pei's mother is only this only daughter, who grew up holding her in the palm of her hand since she was a child. Although she saw that Guo Pei and Zhang Ming were in love, she was still not at ease, afraid that her daughter would suffer a loss after marrying, after all, the family conditions of the two families were too far apart.
Therefore, she also made some demanding requests.
At the engagement ceremony, Guo Pei's mother knew that Zhang Ming's family conditions were not good, so she still proposed a bride price of 800,000 yuan and asked to buy a wedding house before marriage.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Ming agreed without saying a word, without the slightest hesitation.
Guo Pei's mother also knew that it was a bit excessive, but with this bride price, she felt that her daughter's economic conditions could be guaranteed to a certain extent.
Not long after the engagement ended, Guo Pei's mother was worried again, the marriage house was purchased before marriage, and if there was a dispute between the husband and wife in the future, it would be unfavorable to Guo Pei, so she proposed that the marriage room should be named Guo Pei.
This time, Zhang Ming did not hesitate at all, and immediately took Guo Pei to the real estate center to handle it and register it in the names of the two of them.
But who knows, when the wedding was about to be held, Guo Pei's mother found Zhang Ming again and made a more excessive request.
The house where Zhang Ming's family lives now is the result of Zhang Ming's parents' lifelong struggle and is registered in the name of Zhang Ming's parents. Guo Pei's mother was worried that this house would become Zhang Ming's personal property in the future, and she was afraid that Guo Pei would be wronged, so she proposed to let Zhang Ming's family transfer the house to Guo Pei.
Guo Pei's mother thought that Zhang Ming would be the same as the previous two times, so she agreed without hesitation.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Ming was unusually this time, directly scolded his mother-in-law a few words, and then lost his temper with Guo Pei, and left without looking back.
This request made Zhang Ming completely angry, and he felt that Guo Pei's mother was trampling on his dignity. Isn't the relationship between him and Guo Pei enough to prove his love for Guo Pei? Why put him to the test in this way?
Seeing Zhang Ming lose his temper for the first time in so many years, Guo Pei knew in his heart that this feeling was over, and looking at the wedding dress in his hand, Guo Pei's hopes were all shattered.
Silently shedding tears, Guo Pei cried about her grievances, and even more cried about her mother's excesses, she wanted to explain, wanted to redeem, but she didn't know where to start.
How should we look at this from a legal point of view?
1, the mother-in-law kept challenging Zhang Ming's bottom line, and Zhang Ming finally gave up this relationship.
Article 1046 of the Civil Code stipulates that marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party or to interfere with it by any organization or individual.
Guo Pei's mother knew that Zhang Ming's family conditions were not good, so she first asked for a bride price of 800,000 yuan, and then asked for the marriage room to be named, and finally even asked Zhang Ming's parents to let Guo Pei go, such a request, no one can accept.
Faced with the choice of having no way out, Zhang Ming proposed to give up, which was a response to his mother-in-law and his right to freedom of marriage.
Forced and interfering marriages are destined not to be happy, and Zhang Ming's choice is destined to be wise.
2, Guo Pei's mother didn't know that Zhang Ming's parents would also be their joint property in the future, and her final request was completely redundant.
Article 1062 of the Civil Code stipulates that the inherited or donated property acquired by the husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship shall be the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife.
Zhang Ming's parents gave the house to Zhang Ming in the future, but this belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, and Guo Pei also enjoys half of the share.
But Guo Pei's mother insisted on hollowing out Zhang Ming's family, such a request could only make Zhang Ming's family feel unreasonable.
3. Families need to go both ways, and unilateral requests will only lead to parting ways.
Article 1043 of the Civil Code stipulates that families shall establish a good family style, promote family virtues, and attach importance to the construction of family civilization.
Husbands and wives should be faithful, respectful and caring for each other; Family members shall respect the elderly, love the young, help each other, and maintain equal, harmonious, and civilized marriage and family relations.
It is understandable that Guo Pei's mother thinks about her daughter, but Zhang Ming is also the child of his parents. In order to take care of Guo Pei's feelings, blindly asking for Zhang Ming's family has no bottom line, which will inevitably lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
Zhang Ming agreed to a bride price of 800,000 yuan and added a name to Guo Pei's house, which was already benevolent and righteous, and it could be seen that their sincerity and sincerity were not satisfied.
The content of the article describes the process, aims to advocate positive social energy, and has no vulgarity or negative guidance.
What do you think of Zhang Ming's decisive abandonment?
