The moment when IQ is "suppressed".
I remember it was an ordinary Friday night, I came home from work, and as soon as I opened the door, I smelled the aroma of food, and my heart warmed. His wife, Wang Juan, was busy in the kitchen, preparing dinner. I changed my shoes, walked into the living room, habitually picked up the remote control, and turned on the TV.
After a while, Wang Juan walked out with a plate of steaming braised pork, and when she saw me leisurely watching TV, she had a displeased look on her face.
"Husband, didn't anything happen to you at work today?" She asked as she put the food on the table.
I put down the remote control, walked over to help her with the meal, and casually replied, "No, everything is normal." ”
Wang Juan glanced at me, as if she was not satisfied with my answer, she was silent for a while, and suddenly said: "I heard you talk about the boss today, did you misunderstand what he meant?" ”
I was stunned for a moment, thought back to the work scene during the day, and felt that there was nothing wrong, so I smiled and said, "No, I think the boss's meaning is quite clear." ”
Wang Juan sighed, put down the dishes and chopsticks in her hand, looked at me seriously and said, "I think you may not understand what the boss meant." He asked you to work on that project, did he want you to make more trips and communicate more with clients, instead of leaving you in the office waiting for news? ”
I listened to her words, and I was a little unimpressed. I think the boss meant to put me in charge of the project, and I knew exactly how to do it. So I smiled and said, "Don't worry, I know what to do." ”
Wang Juan looked at me indifferently, and suddenly said a little angrily, "Do you think I said something wrong?" I'm telling you, if you continue to be so self-righteous, you'll suffer sooner or later! The boss doesn't mean how far you can die, he wants you to be more active in your work! ”
I was speechless for a moment, I didn't expect her to say such a sentence. I thought carefully about her words, and suddenly realized that she might have wanted to express the meaning of "how far you can run", but because of the accent or emotion, it was said "how far you can die". Although this sentence sounded exaggerated and extreme, it suddenly made me realize that I might really misunderstand what my boss meant.
I put down the dishes and chopsticks and said to Wang Juan seriously: "Thank you for reminding me, I may really be a little self-righteous." I would reconsider what my boss meant and be more active in my work. ”
Wang Juan saw that my attitude had changed, and she also slowed down her tone and said, "I don't want to say anything about you, I just hope that you can better understand what the boss means and do your job better." ”
In the following days, I seriously reflected on my work attitude and approach. I started to be more proactive in communicating with my colleagues and more actively communicating with customers. I also took the initiative to ask my boss about the problems and difficulties in the project, and tried to improve my work ability and level.
After a period of hard work, I gradually felt the change and progress in my work. I've been able to work a lot more efficiently and the project has gone much more smoothly. My boss also started to look at me and often praised me for my performance.
One night, when I got home from work, I made a point to express my gratitude to Wang Juan. I said, "Thank you for coming to my senses that day." If it weren't for your reminder and encouragement, I might still be immersed in a state of self-righteousness. ”
Wang Juan also smiled when she heard my words, and said, "Actually, I didn't do anything, I just hope you can better understand and implement what the boss meant." ”
This experience taught me the importance of communication and the value of listening to others. I also cherish the relationship and trust with Wang Juan even more, because she was always able to give me guidance and support when I was lost and confused.
The moment when IQ was "suppressed": from misunderstanding to understanding in the workplace
First paragraph: Awkwardness in misunderstandings
It was an ordinary Friday evening, and I stepped into the house as usual, and I was greeted by the aroma of dinner carefully prepared by my wife, Wang Juan. However, the atmosphere of this dinner was different from what I was used to feeling. Wang Juan's face was less of the smile of the past and a little more serious.
"Husband, how are you doing at work today?" She asked casually as she served her meal.
I put down my briefcase and replied lightly, "Everything is fine, the project is going well." ”
Wang Juan nodded, as if she was not satisfied with my answer, she was silent for a while, and suddenly said: "I heard you talk about the boss today, did you misunderstand what he meant?" ”
I was speechless for a moment, thinking back to the conversation I had with my boss during the day, and I didn't think there was anything wrong with it. So, I smiled and shook my head: "No, I think the boss's meaning is quite clear." ”
Wang Juan looked at me, a trace of worry flashed in her eyes: "Do you really think you understand correctly?" The boss asked you to follow up with that big customer in the hope that you would make a few more trips and understand the customer's needs in depth, rather than making you wait for news in the office. ”
As I listened to her, I couldn't help but wonder a little in my heart. In my opinion, I have already done what my boss instructed, why would Wang Juan still say that? I retorted a little unconvinced: "I think I've done a good job, and the boss didn't say anything." ”
Wang Juan sighed and put down the dishes and chopsticks in her hand: "You may not realize it yet, but your work attitude is a little different from what the boss expected." He wants you to be more proactive and more engaged in your work. ”
Her words made me ponder. I started to think back to how I was doing at work, was it really as she said, a lack of initiative and motivation?
The second paragraph: understanding and change
That night, I tossed and turned, and I couldn't sleep. Wang Juan's words weighed on my heart like a boulder, and I couldn't let go. I began to reflect on my attitude and performance at work, and whether it was really as wrong as she said.
The next morning, I decided to change. I began to take the initiative to communicate and cooperate with my colleagues, actively participate in team discussions, and strive to improve my work ability and level. I've also started to be more proactive in connecting with my customers and gaining a deeper understanding of their needs and expectations. I try to put myself in the shoes of my boss and understand his expectations and requirements.
In the process, I encountered many difficulties and challenges. Sometimes I get stuck because I don't understand the needs of my customers well enough; Sometimes I have a disagreement with my colleagues. However, I didn't give up, but kept trying.
Gradually, I noticed a noticeable change in my work attitude and performance. I started to take more initiative to take on responsibilities and tasks; I began to be more active in seeking ways and means to solve problems; I started to focus more on the overall interests and development of the team. These changes have also been recognized and supported by my colleagues and bosses.
In this process, I gradually understood the deep meaning of Wang Juan's words. She wasn't blaming me or belittling me, but she was reminding me and helping me better understand and implement what my boss meant and demanded. Her words made me realize my shortcomings and what I needed to improve, and also made me cherish the relationship and trust between me and Wang Juan even more.
The third paragraph: harvest and growth
After a period of hard work and perseverance, I gradually achieved significant progress and results. My work efficiency and quality have improved significantly, and the project is progressing more smoothly. My relationship with clients has also become closer and more harmonious, and they have given me high praise and recognition for my work performance.
At the same time, I also felt my own growth and change. I have learned to be more proactive and proactive in facing challenges and difficulties at work; I learned to think more deeply and holistically; I learned to focus more on the overall interests and development of the team. These growth and changes have made me more confident and determined to embark on the path of career development.
In this process, I am also more grateful to Wang Juan for her reminder and help. It was her words that made me wake up from my misunderstandings and find the right direction and goal. It was her support and encouragement that made me persevere and work hard to achieve today's results and gains.
Looking back on that experience now, I still remember it vividly. It made me appreciate the importance of communication and the value of listening to others. It also makes me cherish the relationship and trust with my family even more. In the days to come, I will continue to maintain a humble and enterprising mentality, and constantly improve my work ability and level; At the same time, we will also pay more attention to communication and exchanges with colleagues and family members to create a better future.
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