Preamble:
Tutoring homework has always been the focus of contradictions between parents and children, especially under the current pressure of social competition, many parents attach great importance to their children's academic performance, some parents in order to let their children achieve better results, even at the expense of spending a lot of time and energy, the whole process of participating in the child's learning process, especially when tutoring children's homework, parents' mood swings are easily affected, once they encounter children's learning problems, they will lose control of their emotions, and even use excessive education methods, such behavior can not only solve the problem, it can also cause great harm to the child's physical and mental health.
1. Tutoring homework has become the fuse of family conflicts
Tutoring children's homework has always been the fuse of many family conflicts, especially in the context of the current pluralism of social education concepts, many parents attach great importance to their children's academic performance, and once they find that their children's learning problems occur, they will choose to participate in the child's learning process throughout the process, including tutoring their children's homework.
However, due to the differences between parents' education methods and children's learning styles, many parents often find it difficult to maintain patience when tutoring their children's homework, and once they encounter children's learning problems, they will lose control of their emotions, and even use words or physical ways to educate their children, which not only cannot solve the problem, but also cause great psychological pressure on children, and in the long run, it is easy to lead to children to have rebellious psychology and aggravate the occurrence of family conflicts.
2. Parents should pay attention to emotional control when tutoring homework
For the current phenomenon of tutoring homework becoming a family conflict, we should not blindly blame parents or children, but should think about how to change this status quo.
First of all, parents should pay attention to the management and regulation of emotions when tutoring their children's homework, especially in the face of children's learning problems, parents' emotions are easily affected, once there are mood swings, it will affect the effect of education, and even harm the child's physical and mental health, therefore, parents in the process of tutoring homework, can appropriately adjust their emotional state, maintain a good attitude, communicate with children, find out the root cause of the problem, and jointly find a way to solve the problem. This can not only enhance the relationship between parents and children, but also effectively resolve family conflicts.
3. The child's physical development stage is fragile, and parents should be more gentle
In addition, parents should also understand the child's physiological and psychological characteristics when tutoring their children's homework, especially the child's physical development stage is very important, each organ is in the stage of growth and development, very fragile, once it is hurt by the outside world, it will have a permanent impact on the child's health, such as a recent incident, that is, because parents in tutoring their children's homework, too hard, resulting in the child's spleen rupture, had to undergo surgery, and the spleen as a very important organ, Once there is a problem, it will affect the child's physical health, and even need to be removed, such a thing is a wake-up call for us, parents must maintain a gentle education method in the process of raising children, to avoid physical harm to children.
4. Parents should be trained in psychological adjustment and emotional management
In view of the current problems that parents are prone to in tutoring homework, we should pay enough attention, not only to provide relevant education and guidance to parents, but also to give parents the necessary help and support, especially in mental health, we can organize some psychological adjustment and emotional management training, so that parents can understand the importance of emotional management, learn to effectively regulate their emotions, so that they can better face the problems of children's education, and avoid hurting children because of emotional out-of-control.
At the same time, schools and all walks of life should also strengthen the education and guidance of parents, so that parents understand that education is not only about academic performance, but also about cultivating children's physical and mental health, and only when parents, schools and society work together can they create a good environment for their children to grow up.