During the Chinese New Year, I had nothing to do, but after watching "Women and Heroes: The Pride of the Righteous Sea" again, I became full of fighting spirit and deeply moved.
In the play, the self-sacrifice spirit displayed by Liu Xing and Zheng Jiumei makes us feel the dedication shown by people when their family and country are at stake. This inspires our admiration and admiration for this spirit.
When she hands over these three things, you gain an irreplaceable place in her heart. This represents a deep emotional connection between you.
NO.1 Tacit trust
As a drama dominated by strong female characters, Zheng Jiumei's success and perseverance are not only due to the companionship and protection of the male character Liu Xing behind her, but also the result of her own firm beliefs and unremitting efforts.
Jiumei was the eldest daughter of Zheng Langjun, the largest underworld force in Guangzhou at that time. Her way of life is not inferior to men, showing the courage of women who do not let their eyebrows go.
She used to struggle alone, but after meeting Liu Xing, the local criminal investigation captain, she changed. Liu Xing is not only morally noble, but also skillful in marksmanship, which makes her life more relaxed and formal, which makes her feel very cordial and warm.
At first, the two men were wary and disgusted with each other, because they occupied different realms, and they both knew each other's courage and abilities. When they first met, this defensiveness and disgust was evident.
In the end, the ninth sister unfortunately became addicted to smoking, and she wanted to take opium into her own hands. In order to help Jiu Mei, Liu Xing persuaded her to quit smoking and hoped that she could regain her strength.
At this moment, a subtle and pleasant affection arises between the pair.
Because of this incident, Jiu Mei is full of trust in this man who shines in justice and cares about her at all times.
Let her realize that there is a man next to her who really cares and cares about her.
For this reason, although Jiu Mei later experienced numerous setbacks and was also lured by the enemy to smoke opium, as long as she remembered Liu Xing's teachings, she could immediately discard drugs.
Slowly, Liu Xing became the only man that Jiu Mei could rely on at a critical moment.
Since then, Liu Xing has become the most trustworthy person for the rest of Ninth Sister's life.
NO2. Private Territory
Liu Xing also became the only confidant friend of the ninth sister. She will share with Liu Xing things that she has never mentioned to others, and often ask Liu Xing's opinions and suggestions.
Whether she was fighting for the right to sell opium, or in order to gain her father's trust and hope that one day she would be able to defeat the opium invaded by the enemy, her actions are worth pondering.
She endured the calculations and insults of her family, just to protect her father's hard work for the rest of her life. She will confide in Liu Xing about all this.
For a middle-aged woman who is used to working alone, marriage is no longer so important. It is important to have someone who understands and supports you.
There is no doubt that Liu Xing is the important man in Jiumei's life.
Since recognizing Liu Xing, she has invisibly introduced him into her private sphere.
Whenever she felt helpless and confused, and even was confused about the road ahead, she immediately remembered to go to Liu Xing.
Liu Xing has always lived up to the trust of the ninth sister, and will go all out to meet her needs at any time. He even did not hesitate to criticize the ninth sister's father in order to meet her demands. This selfless dedication is admirable.
Since this man was able to understand Jiu Mei instantly, even if it was a glimpse, Jiu Mei identified with him even more. She knew that only this man could truly understand herself.
For outsiders, the ninth sister, who has always been known for her prudence, decisiveness and determination, can open her heart unreservedly and hide it when she is with Liu Xing.
As the saying goes, you don't have to hide your feelings in front of your lover. When a middle-aged woman develops feelings for you, she will not hesitate to share all her experiences and thoughts with you. It's a genuine way to show yourself, trust you, and open up to you.
NO3. benefit
True, when confronted with the man of their love, middle-aged women tend to lower their presence and take the initiative to surrender their interests. This behavior is universal and reflects the adoration and submissiveness of women in love.
When Jiu Mei realized that there was a significant gap in wealth and interests between her and Liu Xing, she often deliberately lowered her own interests in order to gain Liu Xing's approval and reduce the distance between them.
Some people may wonder if such an act is too humble to portray the emotions of middle-aged women.
In fact, this is not the case, for middle-aged women, they can be so compromised and understanding because they have experienced more and are more able to consider problems from the perspective of their lovers. It's a more mature and considerate attitude.
A middle-aged woman's view of love is very direct, and if she is really in love with you, she will not act hesitant. She will express herself unabashedly and show you her heart so that you can understand her determination to choose you.
You don't need to worry about her power and reality, although a middle-aged woman has more experiences than a younger girl, her sincerity and enthusiasm can withstand any difficulties.
Conclusion:
Obviously, a middle-aged woman with whom you have a genuine relationship will give you complete trust, share her life with you, and prioritize your feelings even before benefits.
Perhaps, when middle-aged women face the person they like, they can't be as coquettish as young girls. This manifestation may be the result of a sense of responsibility and increased self-awareness in adults.
They have a deep understanding of what they can give for love, and understand what kind of sacrifice can recognize their lover to the greatest extent.
She will trust you unreservedly and is willing to share everything about her with you. When the relationship is deep, she will even take the initiative to give you her benefits.
Some people may feel that such an infatuated woman is too silly and vulnerable. But in fact, this is the serious and persistent side of middle-aged women.
If you meet a middle-aged woman who is willing to give you time, money, and energy, please cherish and treat it well.