防火、防盗、防闺蜜，好好地婚礼被闺蜜搅黄，一对新人一拍两散！
On May 3, 2023, in Shangqiu, Henan Province, an ordinary wedding scene unexpectedly turned into the focus of a social topic.
The story takes place at the moment when the groom's limousine slowly drives downstairs into the bride's house, and all the festive atmosphere is suddenly broken by the amazing act of a "witty" girlfriend.
This extraordinary best friend, like a wise general on the battlefield, jumped out desperately and intervened strongly, demanding that the groom pay 28,800 yuan for the "drop-off fee" before pulling the bride. This can't help but make people ask: None of the bride and groom's family said anything, what did a girlfriend do?
With the best friend's order, the originally soft atmosphere of the scene instantly became tense. The groom, in an attitude of harmony and persuasion, proposed that he must make up for it after the wedding.
The bride agreed, and the bride's family also agreed, who would have thought that this best friend would not give up, insisted on solving the problem before getting married, and said: "Money, even if it is borrowed, it must be given now!" ”
Under the continuous arching fire of this best friend, the scene was deadlocked for a while, and the parents of both sides were also involved in this "negotiation of the century" without gunsmoke.
Finally, one of the man's elders couldn't help but come forward and gave a harsh verbal criticism to the girlfriend. But she is not a fuel-efficient lamp, and immediately retorted fiercely, and the atmosphere of the scene was about to erupt, and the two sides even moved their hands.
The bride seems to have completely fallen into the "bewitchment" of her best friend, and when she saw her best friend being humiliated, she joined the battle with righteous indignation. As a result, this wedding that was supposed to be jubilant ended with the bride and her best friend leaving the scene angrily.
Netizens said: "Fortunately, I saw the bride's unassertiveness and the heart of the bride's best friend before getting married, so it will be difficult to live in the future, and it can be regarded as a blessing in disguise." ”
Some netizens also said: "The bride can be moved so easily by her girlfriend, not only because the bride has no opinion, but also because the bride has the idea of getting off the car, and the girlfriend is just a substitute." ”
But it doesn't end there. When the incident caused an uproar online, a netizen claiming to be the bride's best friend took to social media, and her remarks made people wonder: Was it a cultural difference or a communication failure that caused the turmoil?
Her homepage reads: Don't scold, she knows it's wrong
She responded in the post: "The drop-off ceremony about 28,800 is a local custom. I may have misunderstood the cultural differences in different regions when I expressed them. ”
At the same time, she also said: "She always hopes that her best friend's wedding can go smoothly and happily, and she also hopes to get everyone's blessings." ”
Such a statement has made netizens happy.
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The role of best friends was supposed to be support and love, but this obvious transgression directly turned the happy event into a farce, and the wedding scene staged a wedding negotiation of the century.
In the face of her friend's "well-intentioned" advice, the bride lost her position at a critical moment, causing the tragedy of this marriage to fall through. 小凡觉得，婚姻的核心是双方的真诚沟通和相互理解，无论多亲密的闺蜜关系，都应尊重新人自身的选择，而非一味插手他人生活。