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The journey of time burning with passion, we walked together into the moment of 1979, at this time, an outstanding actor named Tong Dawei was born in a harmonious ordinary family in Fushun City, Liaoning Province. Tong Dawei's father, as a firm and brave people's policeman, forged the heroic spirit and patriotic spirit deeply imprinted by Tong Dawei's childhood.
In Tong Dawei's fragrant childhood memories, his father was always so tall and powerful, kind and pleasant, patiently teaching Xiao Tong Dawei how to get along with others with ease in life, and would also take time to accompany him to play those childlike "police and thief" games. Although the family conditions are not superior, growing up in such a warm and cheerful environment is undoubtedly a valuable asset in life for Tong Dawei.
However, unexpected bad luck suddenly struck Tong Dawei when he was only six years old. That same year, his brave and fearless father was in a terrible car accident and fell to the cold ground covered in blood. When first responders arrived at the scene and witnessed such a shocking scene, they were all moved. The father fell into a deep coma and was rushed to the hospital for treatment, and the mother collapsed instantly when she learned the bad news.
After intense rescue by the medical staff, the doctor finally walked out of the operating room and declared with a solemn face: "Although the life has been saved temporarily, due to the severity of the injury, it is almost impossible to regain consciousness." For my mother, it was like a death sentence, and she sat on the ground weakly, tears falling like beads of broken thread.
The mother clung to the wall, on the verge of collapse, but she still gritted her teeth and persevered, knowing that there were still two more children to take care of her. Faced with this sudden disaster, the whole family fell into the abyss of financial hardship. The mother had to take on all the heavy responsibilities on her own, working hard day and night, and devoting all her energy to raising her two children.
Tong Dawei looked at his once majestic father who was now asleep, and his heart suffered an unprecedented heavy blow. The heroic image of his father completely collapsed in his heart, and was replaced by endless confusion and despair.
Time flies, time flies, and now Tong Dawei has become a high-profile film and television superstar, and his works and acting skills have won many awards. At the recording site of an in-depth talk show, his wife Guan Yue suddenly playfully revealed a little-known "secret" of Tong Dawei - he was keen to quietly flip through his mobile phone information.
This explosive news was like thunder on the ground, causing the audience to exclaim again and again! However, for Tong Dawei and his wife, a couple who have survived the storm and can still spend years together, this slightly witty revelation is just a spice in their daily lives.
In the early years, they had exchanged the unlock passwords of each other's mobile phones, and they were used to flipping through each other's phones at any time and sharing those small things in life. At this moment, Tong Dawei seemed to have returned to 15 years ago, which was the good time when they first met, met and knew each other. In order to realize his dream of being an actor, the young Tong Dawei resolutely chose to enter Liaoning Vocational College of Arts for further study.
Due to his family's poor financial situation, he had to actively participate in various film and television dramas in his spare time to earn living expenses and subsidize his family. In that chance encounter on campus, Tong Dawei was deeply attracted by the beautiful dancing of a youthful girl. A warm emotion surged in his heart, which made him miss this beautiful woman he had never met.
After the enthusiastic introduction of his classmates, Tong Dawei was finally fortunate to meet the girl who made his heart flutter - she was Guan Yue. Although Guan Yue gave people the impression of being cold and distant when they first met, Tong Dawei had already been conquered by her charm. In the days that followed, he patiently approached Guan Yue, trying to open her heart with sincere and kind words and actions.
As time passed, Guan Yue was gradually moved by Tong Dawei's simple and kind qualities, and the relationship between the two became deeper and deeper. Unconsciously, more than a year passed quietly. Tong Dawei devoted himself wholeheartedly to the journey of pursuing Guan Yue, and finally succeeded in winning the first love of his life.
That day, when he proposed to Guan Yue affectionately, the young girl nodded shyly and agreed, and the two held hands and walked towards a new future together. After Tong Dawei and Guan Yue met each other, they quickly fell into the sweet period of love. As a talented young couple, there are inevitably some disagreements and misunderstandings between them.
Guan Yue was born into a traditional family with deep ideological roots, and her parents upheld a strict and conservative view, believing that two people in love should marry according to their destiny. As a woman, Guan Yue is deeply baptized by this concept, and she is full of anticipation that she can quickly step into the palace of marriage and start a new and wonderful chapter of life with her dear partner.
However, Tong Dawei's family background is relatively poor. In addition to working hard to provide for the family's financial needs, it is more important to take care of his seriously ill father. Whenever Guan Yue revealed his wishes, he always flickered and avoided this sensitive topic in a tactful way.
Guan Yue gradually developed a deep sense of disappointment and anger at Tong Dawei's ambiguous attitude.
In this regard, Tong Dawei sincerely confessed his heart: although he is full of confidence in the future and cherishes the precious emotional bond with Guan Yue, there is still a bedridden father in the family who needs to be supported, so that they cannot make hasty decisions about marriage.
However, for Guan Yue, this is just a pale excuse. Her anger was irrepressible, and she decisively announced the end of her relationship with Tong Dawei. Although Tong Dawei tried his best to redeem it, Guan Yue had no possibility of compromise.
As a result, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue became farther and farther away, and finally went their separate ways. As a young man, he never foresaw that a breakup would bring so much pain and suffering. Deep down, he always misses Guan Yue's every move and recalls the good times he spent with her.
After a long period of inner struggle and entanglement, Tong Dawei finally made up his mind and mustered up the courage to call Guan Yue again. Surprisingly, just a moment ago, Guan Yue was also trying to overcome the contradictions in her heart, eager to take the initiative to contact this former beloved.
When the two met again, they were both deeply touched by the surging love in their hearts. Tong Dawei unreservedly told Guan Yue about his family's predicament, especially his father's tragic fate of not being able to regain sobriety. Faced with this cruel reality, Guan Yue fully understood the reason why Tong Dawei had been unable to make a marriage commitment.
However, it is precisely this pure and sincere love and the simple and kind personality charm of Tong Dawei's family that makes Guan Yue's admiration for them deeper and deeper. She silently swore in her heart that she longed to be able to integrate into this warm and harmonious family, and work hand in hand with Tong Dawei to bear the responsibilities and pressures of life.
After countless reunions and separations, the two finally came together again. They are immersed in the details of planning their wedding and are brave enough to embrace the new stage of their lives.
Just as Tong Dawei and Guan Yue were about to enter the palace of marriage, an encouraging miracle quietly came!
It was an ordinary night, and Tong Dawei performed acupuncture treatment for his father as usual. This has become a habit for him for many years. Since his father suffered that serious car accident, Tong Dawei has often done acupuncture for him himself, hoping to bring even a glimmer of hope for life.
When the silver needle pierced his father's arm again, Tong Dawei suddenly noticed that his father's fingers seemed to tremble slightly! His eyes widened and he stared at his father's face in astonishment, lest it was just his own hallucination.
Immediately afterwards, an even more shocking scene happened - the father's eyes gradually opened, revealing a little confusion in his eyes.
Tong Dawei was so excited that his whole body trembled, tears slid down like a spring, and he called out loudly: "Mom, come and see!" Daddy woke up!"
The whole family was instantly surrounded by a joyful atmosphere. Tong Dawei's mother walked into the ward quickly, saw her husband regained consciousness, and was finally able to release the grief in her heart and cry to her heart's content. Her face was filled with joy after all the vicissitudes of life, and she was grateful that God had finally blessed her family and restored hope for their family.
In the face of this sudden surprise, Tong Dawei was full of emotion and burst into tears. In his heart, his father's miraculous recovery is undoubtedly so inspiring, it is simply a gift and generous gift from God to his filial piety.
With the testimony of his father, the wedding of Tong Dawei and Guan Yue became even more of special significance. Although his father's health was still quite weak, he was able to leave his hospital bed and attend his son's wedding.
When Tong Dawei held Guan Yue's hand and stepped on the red carpet, his father stared at this happy picture, tears of joy flashed in his eyes.
When the wedding night came, in the face of Tong Dawei, who was full of passion but could not be concealed, his mother expressed deep emotion: "If it weren't for your firm support and encouragement to me, I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to form a good relationship with Guan Yue today." In this warm and happy moment, he affectionately told his mother, "You have always been a solid support for my whole family. "
The mother replied with a smile: "My dear child, we are all lucky. You are able to marry such a virtuous and kind woman, and I have finally looked forward to your father's awakening. From then on, we can regain the joy and laughter of the past without any regrets. ”
Since then, Tong Dawei's care for Guan Yue has been more meticulous and considerate. The newlyweds often walk hand in hand through the streets and alleys, and the sweet smell permeates the surroundings, just like a boy and a girl in their first love. Whenever passers-by see this scene, they all send their most sincere wishes for their bright future.
During Guan Yue's pregnancy, Tong Dawei guarded her every step of the way, for fear that she would be the slightest tired. The medical staff in the delivery room also sighed and praised Tong Dawei as a "model husband" who is rare to see in a century.
With the development of married life, Tong Dawei's acting career is also thriving. He has shown unforgettable classic roles in two films, Zhang Yimou's epic masterpiece "The Thirteen Hairpins of Jinling" and Chen Kexin's heartfelt "Chinese Partner".
It is particularly worth mentioning that in the film "Chinese Partner", Tong Dawei successfully portrayed the role of an employee of a state-owned enterprise, and his delicate and emotionally rich performance won warm applause from the audience. He not only won the Hong Kong Film Awards and the Taiwan Golden Horse Film Awards for Best Supporting Actor, but also was selected as the Best Supporting Actor in the Asia-Pacific Region by the International Film Critics Association.
These brilliant achievements are undoubtedly the best reward for Tong Dawei's hard work over the years, and he uses his practical actions to interpret an actor's persistent pursuit of career and unremitting adherence to his dreams.
However, despite the great success of his career, Tong Dawei has never forgotten the cherishing of his family. Growing up in an unhappy family environment where his mother worked hard and his father was unconscious, he knew how precious and indispensable family and love were for a person.
Now, he has established his own warm love nest, and Guan Yue, a virtuous helper who has experienced ups and downs with him, has become his solid spiritual pillar. Tong Dawei is considerate and cherished this beloved partner, and his deep friendship has been praised by the audience as a "spoiled wife madman". However, in the face of this praise, he himself took it lightly, because he knew that this deep emotion was completely sincere.
In a certain talk show, the host curiously asked Tong Dawei why he doted on his wife so much, and he replied frankly: "Guan Yue is the greatest blessing in my life, we have gone through countless hardships and obstacles hand in hand, and now we can spend the rest of our lives together and share happiness, I am deeply grateful to God for his favor." "
Speaking of this, Tong Dawei's eyes flashed with deep memories, and then he said: "When I was a child, my family was poor, and my mother took on the heavy responsibility of the family alone, with hard work. My father was even more because of the sudden car accident, which left an unhealable psychological wound. "
Therefore, he deeply realized the importance of family affection and love to people, they are like warm sunshine, sprinkled in every corner of our lives. Only with light and warmth can we not lose our way in the darkness.
Tong Dawei affectionately said that Guan Yue is the warm sunshine in his life. She gave him endless strength, illuminated his path to success, and warmed his persistent pursuit of his dreams.
It is because of her selfless support and understanding that he can devote himself wholeheartedly to his career and achieve such brilliant achievements.
Therefore, no matter how the media commented on him as a "spoiled wife maniac", Tong Dawei didn't care. His love for his wife comes from the depths of his heart, and it is by no means the result of vanity.
This is precisely the best example of his interpretation of true love with practical actions.
"I just hope that this love will be like a candle forever, so that we can support each other and snuggle up to each other forever." Tong Dawei's words were firm and powerful, and his words were filled with deep love for Guan Yue.
The story of Tong Dawei and Guan Yue vividly depicts a touching love affair that has gone through twists and turns, sought but not found, and lost and regained. Their marriage has come to fruition after hardships, and it is admirable that they have been together for 15 years and have always been in love.
In the long journey of life, people will always encounter difficulties, mistakes, and misunderstandings, and the core of the problem is whether both parties can accept each other generously and heal each other's flaws with noble love. As long as the sincere emotions in the heart remain, this beautiful afterglow will surely last for a long time.
The true connotation of marriage lies in the fact that two people support each other and encourage each other on the road of life, bear the burden and pressure of life together, and use patience and understanding to soothe the deep pain of each other's souls.
Just like Tong Dawei and Guan Yue, a loving couple, they have gone through countless hardships and hardships along the way, but they have always adhered to their original intentions.
Whenever he recalls that youthful study career, Tong Dawei will always be secretly happy for Guan Yue's deep friendship. At that time, they were in the prime of their youth, and their relationship was blazing, Guan Yue was looking forward to entering the palace of marriage, but Tong Dawei was unable to bravely give a promise, so they were separated for a while.
However, the power of love is so powerful and passionate that it is enough to melt away all barriers and barriers. Tong Dawei finally mustered up the courage to sincerely confess his predicament to Guan Yue - taking care of his father is his primary responsibility in this life.
Surprisingly, instead of blaming, Guan Yue was deeply moved by the simplicity and kindness of Tong Dawei and his family, and since then he has been walking side by side with him through thick and thin.
After his father miraculously woke up, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue's wedding took on a more far-reaching significance, witnessing that a deep love was finally perfectly realized. They entered the palace of marriage and opened a new chapter in their lives.
Of course, there will inevitably be some twists and turns and misunderstandings in married life. For example, Tong Dawei was keen to check Guan Yue's mobile phone, and as a result, she exposed it in public.
However, this is not because of a lack of trust, but because they have become accustomed to "little gestures" with each other and see them as little games of love.
In short, the most precious thing about marriage is that both parties can support each other, rely on each other, nourish each other's lives with tolerance and understanding, and gradually grow up in the long river of time, becoming more wise and open-minded.
Tong Dawei said with emotion: "Today, we are no longer the young and vigorous young people we were back then, and the responsibilities on our shoulders are getting heavier and heavier. However, the only eternal thing between us is the deep love and the harmony of our hearts.
Looking back on the past, the emotional journey of the two of them is like eighteen bends in the mountains, with many twists and turns, however, it is precisely because of each other's firm support and unremitting efforts that their love has been able to walk lightly towards the present and walk through the wind and dust all the way. In this process, Tong Dawei is deeply grateful to Guan Yue, the love of his life, who has always been by her side, so that he is fortunate to be able to reap the joy of the rest of his life.
He is looking forward to the years to come, hoping that in the years to come, they will still be as sweet and affectionate as when they first fell in love, and continue this beautiful marriage to eternity.