[This content is an adaptation of a long fictional short story, please watch it rationally, do not sit in the opposite seat]
In fact, my family has not been very happy with my marriage with my daughter-in-law, and if I hadn't insisted on it, maybe I wouldn't have the happy life we have now.
My encounter with my daughter-in-law was a complete accident.
At that time, I was already an adult, but I couldn't find a suitable job, and my father only taught me verbally at first, but I didn't expect to start directly later.
At first, I just broke my hands, because I didn't think he dared to be ruthless, so I became a mess at home every day.
I didn't even have the heart to go out to find a job, and every time I came home, I said that there was no suitable one, or I went to work in a factory under the introduction of my father.
But every time I worked for a few days, I was directly dismissed, and then my father simply didn't introduce me to a job and just let me go.
I've had a comfortable life for a while, but I always feel that my father is holding back a fire, and it's not time to explode yet.
Sure enough, after dinner, my father brought up the matter of asking me to find a job again, but this time he was not angry, but calmly reasoned with me.
Although I am still young, I will definitely get married and have children in the future, and I will not be able to support a family without a job or income.
When I heard it, I blurted out, "It's a big deal, I'll live at home, and it won't cost much." ”
Unexpectedly, my words became a fuse, which directly made my father very angry, and picked up a broom in the yard to chase after me.
I thought it would be the same as before, but I didn't expect that this time my father was directly ruthless, and I ran out of the house when I saw that the situation was wrong.
I ran all the way to the entrance of the village, but my father was still chasing after me, and I didn't know if I was really angry, but my father chased after me.
Seeing that it was not possible, I took advantage of the turn to hide in the empty house at the entrance of the village, and after entering, I quickly closed the door, left a small crack and looked out, and found that my father had lost it with a broom, and thought that he had run out of the village.
Only then did I scold angrily, so I had to go home with a broom, my hanging heart could be regarded as letting go, I turned my head against the door and gasped, only then did I notice that there were other people in the house.
I saw a widow holding the baby and breastfeeding, and when she saw me, she hurriedly hid back, and I quickly turned my head to say that I was embarrassed, and I didn't notice anyone in the house just now.
Fortunately, the child in the widow's arms stopped crying, and after she had arranged her clothes, she put the child on the ground beside her, looked at me, and said, "You can turn your head around." ”
I scratched my head embarrassedly, and then I took a closer look at her and found that she was still quite good-looking.
I was also curious as to why she was living in such an empty house, and she just sighed and talked about her own experience.
It turned out that she was not from our village, but she had not been doing very well before, because she had never given birth to a child after getting married, which made her in-laws very dissatisfied.
finally got pregnant, and the in-laws waited for their grandson to be born, who knew that it would be a girl after birth, and it was at this time that her husband died in an accident because he went out to work.
She alone and her daughter had no status in her in-law's house, and even was kicked out directly in the end, In desperation, she had to go out with her children to survive.
Along the way, she relied on the help of well-wishers to survive, and she went to find several jobs, but no one wanted her.
She was also looking for a job near my village this time, but none of the factories were willing to ask for her, because she had a child to take care of, and she really had no choice, so she lived in this empty house temporarily.
After hearing it, I also felt that it was very difficult for her, looking at the child in the swaddling clothes, if she hadn't insisted on it, maybe the child would have died a long time ago.
After hearing what happened to her, I suddenly felt that I wanted to do something for her, so I asked her to wait for me here, and I opened the door and ran home.
Although my family was not wealthy at that time, it was not so much that I couldn't afford to eat, and when I got home, I rummaged through the kitchen for a while and found a steamed bun.
I took it and ran out, completely ignoring my father behind me and yelling, "If you dare to go out of this door, you will never come back!" ”
I took the steamed bun and handed it to the widow, and she was surprised when she saw it, but she went on because she didn't eat, and the child would be hungry.
At this time, I didn't know why, so I told her not to leave if I stayed here, and I would go out to work to support them.
When I said this, it was obvious that she was shocked at first, and then thought it was a joke.
But I didn't care at all, and I said to her, "Since I can say such a thing, it means that I mean it, believe me." ”
Perhaps it was my sincerity that touched her, and she had no choice but to nod and agree to me, and with her affirmative answer, I was finally more steady.
When I got home this time, my father saw that I just wanted to continue beating and scolding me, so I took the first step and said, "I'm going to go out to work." ”
When I heard this, my father was stunned, he was very curious why I suddenly got my senses, what happened?
But I don't want to say anything about today's experience, anyway, I said that I was going to go out to work, which made my father very happy, and he immediately said that he had a few suitable places for me to go.
I said that there was only one request, that is, the salary was high, no matter how tired and hard I was, I could persevere, and after screening, I still went to a factory near my home.
This is the production of TVs, which requires a little technology, and the salary is naturally not high during the learning stage when I first enter the factory, and I know this, so I have been patiently learning.
Fortunately, I learned very quickly, and I got started in a few days, and I also won the trust of the factory manager, and he also gave me a special salary increase.
Naturally, my behavior attracted the jealousy of other people, but they couldn't do anything about me.
After the first salary, I gave some to my father, and then bought some clothes and food for the rest and went to the widow.
I didn't expect her to be waiting for me anywhere, and she really didn't expect me to be serious about my arrival, after taking these things, she said that she would remember it, and then she would slowly return it to me when the child was older.
I didn't refute it, and looked at the child in the widow's arms again, it was really cute, how nice it would be if it were my daughter.
I've been secretly helping widows, and my father doesn't know about it, but as long as he's willing to work hard, he's already happy.
But once after work, when I went to visit the mother and daughter as usual, I was seen by a colleague in the factory, and when I went to work the next day, I saw that everyone else was looking at me with strange eyes.
I didn't know what was going on, so I went to the man with whom I was on good terms and asked, who knew that he would say, "What have you done, go into the widow's house at night." ”
After I heard it, I understood that it was revealed that I had been hiding it for so long, and I didn't have to think about it to know that it was said by those people who were not used to me.
I wasn't angry, and I generously admitted that I would not only go at night, but also marry her home later.
When I said this, there was a burst of ridicule in the factory, and everyone laughed at me for being so stupid as to marry a widow and go home.
The farce didn't end until the factory manager came in, and he called me out alone, telling me that it was better to take care of the family affairs before I came back to work.
Although I wanted to refute, in order to keep my job, I had to nod my head and agree, and I was still thinking about what to do, and this is when my father also found me.
It turned out that the news had spread not only in the factory, but also in the village, and by the time I went back to the house at the entrance of the village, it was already full of people.
I finally squeezed in, and I saw my father standing next to me with a black face and didn't say a word, so I hurriedly stepped forward to block in front of them, and looking at my posture, my father also understood.
He went out and drove away the villagers who were watching the excitement, and then said to me, "If you have something to do, go home and tell me, you two will come back together." ”
I knew I couldn't hide, so I took them home, and when I entered the house, my father still didn't say a word, and he didn't speak, which made me very scared.
Because I didn't know what he thought, I was very flustered, so I said directly to myself: "I did it all voluntarily, I just looked at them pitiful and wanted to help them." ”
This sentence directly said to my father that he was annoyed: "You want to help them, have you considered the situation of your own family, do you think about your mother, she wants your life to be like this in the spirit of heaven?" ”
I also didn't expect my father to predate my mother, who had already passed away, and I heard that my mother died in childbirth when she was born, so I haven't had time to meet her yet.
In that case, I want to help this widow all the more, because she is also a mother, and I don't want to see her child born without a mother.
Obviously, my father and I still think differently, he thinks that although the widow is pitiful, the child is not his own after all, and if I am really willing to help, I will definitely be laughed at by the villagers afterwards.
I didn't listen to these at all, and even told my father that I would marry her when I had the ability.
When the father heard this, he couldn't stand it any longer, and thought that he couldn't make sense with me, so he stood up to the widow and said, "I beg you, can you stop pestering my son, I can give you some money, enough for you to live for a while." ”
I really didn't expect my father to say such a thing, so I directly refused, because even if they took some money, they wouldn't survive long outside.
Unless she can find a good job, or she won't be able to support her children, I have to tell him, "If you don't agree, I will never come back and take them to live elsewhere." ”
Sure enough, this sentence is still useful for my father, because there are only two of us left in the family, and if I leave, he will be left alone, and it will be uncomfortable to think about it alone.
In the end, the father compromised and said that he could let them live in an empty room at home first, but it was still not possible to marry her.
I thought that if I could compromise the first step, I would be able to do it later, but instead of proposing it immediately, I agreed first.
Because it was safer at home, in the house at the entrance of the village, something bad might happen one night.
After everything was settled, I remembered that I had never asked the widow's name, it turned out that her name was Xiao An, and I didn't expect that I would have such a restless life.
She smiled and asked me what my name was, I said my name was Dayong, and the people around me called me that, and after saying that, we both looked at each other and smiled, and she also thanked me very much for today's relief.
As we chatted, we talked about marriage again, and I didn't think about it at first, after all, I also knew that marrying a widow would definitely be pointed at by the villagers.
But after today's experience, I am sure that I must marry her back, even if it is for the sake of the children who have not yet grown up, so that she can have a complete home from memory.
After listening to this, Xiao An didn't refute, just looked at me, I went to work as usual the next morning, although I still faced the ridicule of my colleagues, but I didn't care at all, but worked hard.
Because I'm really going to start supporting a family now, and after a long time, they don't think it's boring, so they don't joke about it anymore.
Only occasionally when the people in the village saw my father, they would say, "Even if the son of his family wants to marry a widow who doesn't know where he came from, he can't persuade him." ”
At first, his father would be very angry and leave, but then he actually began to speak for Xiao An, because he also found Xiao An good.
Xiao An would always cook when his father didn't get up, and he would clean up the house very cleanly, so he also began to discover the advantages of Xiao An.
This is one time when I came home from work, I found that the two of them were chatting, and after seeing me, my father returned to his previous coldness, so I had to ask Xiao An.
She just thought that her father's attitude towards her seemed to have changed a little, as if she was not as indifferent as before, and I thought it was a good thing when I heard it, which means that the matter of marriage has been discussed.
So I struck while the iron was hot and proposed marriage to my father again, and sure enough, this time he didn't refute it again, but let me think about it myself.
I immediately agreed, and began to prepare, after all, the sooner the better, and before my father could repent, I had everything ready in a few days.
My wedding with Xiao An, the whole village came, of course, most of them came to see the excitement, but I feel very happy, because without Xiao An, I would not be where I am today.
After meeting her, I understood the meaning of my hard work, and after marriage, Xiao An was also very competitive, and added a boy to the family, which made my father very happy.
The people in the village are also very envious, I didn't expect my life to be so good, not only married a good daughter-in-law, but also had a boy, of course, I treated Xiao An's first child as my own daughter.
My family is a child and daughter, my father has something to do every day, holding the child and not letting go, after someone watched the child, Xiao An also went to find a job, the wages of the two of us added together, and the life of the family was quite rich.
I didn't expect that one day by accident, I would marry such a good daughter-in-law.
[This content is an adaptation of a long fictional short story, please watch it rationally, do not sit in the opposite seat]