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There is a saying among the people, called - cooking porridge is three points of rice, seven points of water; Health should be three points cold and seven points full; Reading should be three points to see, seven points to taste; When you drink, you should be three points drunk and seven points awake.
The law of Sanqi is a summary of the philosophy of the ancient Chinese sages and sages, which follows the law of "the extreme of things must be opposed".
In modern society, many times, we can understand a lot of wisdom and philosophy of being a person and doing things from the law of 37.
For men in their 50s, life has reached a very critical stage, this age is a critical period of life, following the "law of 37", can help us deal with many problems in reality.
When a man is over 50 years old, the smartest way to live is not to maintain health and exercise, but to follow the "Law of Thirty-seven"
01. In terms of career, three points of hard work and seven points of business.
After a man is over 50 years old, in terms of career, we are not thinking about how to work hard, and then how to expand our wealth, but to keep our own one-third of an acre, and stability is the most important thing at this time.
If you are a start-up and your own boss, then you don't have to think about how to expand at this time, and you want to make the company bigger and stronger.
If you are an office worker, then don't resign easily at this time, try not to make mistakes at work, and don't offend anyone, and you can make a stable transition to retirement, and you will win.
Don't think about what opportunities you can make a lot of money, people are too greedy, and in the end they won't get anything.
02. In terms of family, three points of communication and seven points of tolerance.
In terms of family, when we deal with the relationship with our family, we must follow the law of 37, that is, to achieve three points of communication and seven points of tolerance.
Get along with your wife, husband and wife should be more tolerant, even if the wife is sometimes unreasonable, after all, women's thinking is emotional, although she made mistakes, but in turn blame you, complain about you, you don't have to argue with her.
As a man, you should be bigger, try to communicate well, if you can't communicate, then learn to forbear, take a step back and open the sky, maybe after she reflects on herself, realizes her mistakes, and will come to apologize to you.
Family members usually get along day and night, and there will be some friction in life, which is very normal, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.
But as the backbone of a family, as a man who stands up to the sky, we must have a broad mind and be able to tolerate the shortcomings of our families.
03. In terms of finance, three points of expenditure and seven points of savings.
If you are an ordinary person who lives on your salary every month, then you must plan your finances, especially in your 50s, and plan for the future.
When you get your monthly salary, you must do a good job in distributing it, and try to achieve three points of expenditure and seven points of savings.
Be sure to save well, because there is a lot of uncertainty in the future.
If your pension is not high, and then you have no savings, then life will be relatively poor, but if you have a good savings, and then there is a pension, then your life will be relatively good, then you at least your life material security is no problem.
Only on the premise of satisfying the material foundation can you enjoy your life to the fullest and pursue a higher level of spiritual prosperity.
04. Looking at life, three points are rational and seven points are confused.
When men reach their 50s, in fact, their mentality is very complicated at this time, because they are about to retire in a few years, and their bodies are beginning to age gradually.
But at this time, I also have to face a lot of pressure, the old and the young, the burden is very large, and I dare not take it easy for a moment, so I can only support the whole family hard.
So at this time, we must adjust our mentality and look at life.
Don't put too much pressure on yourself, try to do some things well if we can do them well, and if it is beyond our ability, we should not force ourselves.
Life is very short, and it is only more than 30,000 days to be full. So we shouldn't have too many obsessions, sometimes be appropriately confused, don't think too much, but live more relaxed.
If you want too much, fight for everything, compare yourself with your relatives, and want to live better than others everywhere, then you will live a miserable life.
Look at the open a little, treat the gains and losses, and look down. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, drink tea, read books, exercise and write, and enjoy life appropriately.