In this life, why should people get out of the low-level environment as soon as possible? My answer may be a bit dark, but it's true.
You must know that Hao Ze and I used to be poor, and I also lived in a very low social environment because of my family's middle ground.
But it is precisely because of this that I have a more unforgettable understanding:
Whenever you have the opportunity, don't stay in the low-level for too long, because long-term low-level life will really pollute and distort a person's character and quality.
Note that I don't mean to despise the general public here, and when I was down, I also came into contact with many, many warm, kind, and sincere ordinary people.
And I want you to understand that it's not the people in the low-level environment who are really toxic, it's the low-level environment itself.
I also have to confess to you that if I lived in a low-level environment for more than ten years in a row when I was young, I would have been distorted and deformed by the environment.
Because, just like the ecosphere, the lower the environment, the more scarce resources and money there are, the easier it is to breed all kinds of miscellaneous things that you can't imagine.
Why?
There are too few opportunities in the low-level circles, and there are too many people.
So the result is that whenever there is a chance for a sum of money, there will be a large number of people competing for it in an instant.
But as long as they compete for it, what kind of family affection, friendship, trust and honesty, go to him, and the benefits in their own mouths are the most real.
And if they can't take advantage of you, then crazy jealousy and resentment will turn into countless sharp gossip, crazy slander and rumors behind your back.
Why?
Because they can't win you, and then you get ahead again, then they can only curse you for overturning the car and boat, and in case of a catastrophe, a catastrophe, as long as you are unlucky, they will be happy in their hearts.
Of course, if you haven't gotten up to get up, you won't be able to have a deep understanding.
But many readers from rural areas, townships, and county-level cities will definitely be able to empathize with these words.
Especially if you have managed to get ahead through your own hard work, then there are often as many people who fear you and those who hate you, and even many people who fear you on the surface are also people who hate you.
That's why, over the years, I have been encouraging each of my brothers and sisters to work hard to develop, to work hard to make money, and to work hard to have a better life.
Because, only when you have a deep understanding of it, will you understand that the higher the level of this world, the better the environment, and the more beneficial the ecology is.
It turns out that Meng's mother's three migrations are really the truth of the ages.
It turns out that people really should relentlessly go to higher places.
Why? Because the higher the level, the increment and the opportunity, the more resources and wealth.
It's not that people here don't have bad intentions, but the higher you go, the higher the cost of betrayal, and the greater the cost of reputation collapse.
So, instead of peeking at the 20 million in your pocket, it is better to join forces with their respective resources and channels to earn 80 million or even 100 million together.
What's more, a middle-class person worth 50 million is difficult to have that kind of vicious desire to turn over.
Everything can be done, that is the best, if it can't be done, you can wait for the opportunity slowly.
This is also why, I have never recognized that some parents instill White Lotus thinking in their children from childhood to adulthood when educating their children.
This is an educational idea that will definitely cause problems, and 99% of them will suffer a big loss.
My personal profound experience is that when people are in a low-level environment, they should not be evil, do not be jealous, do not resent, do not give up, and do not pollute their three views by other people who have achieved nothing.
Instead, he kept a good distance from them, and did big things secretly and quietly on his own, and built a ladder up section by section.
Then, climb up and don't make a noise, just silently succeed and consolidate everything you've accumulated.
Only take care of your closest parents, husband and wife, children, and close friends, and everyone else will slowly cool down the relationship and distance yourself.
Because, with a new level and a new environment, you will naturally get to know new people.
I once shared a truth in my community with my closest brothers and sisters:
With an annual income of 100,000, you will encounter all kinds of torturous troubles all day long
With an annual income of 200,000 yuan, there will be a lot less worries because there are normal people around you
With an annual income of 500,000 yuan, you will still work hard for work, but it's all serious
With an annual income of more than one million, you will find that this stage is the starting point for your life to really move forward with all your heart
Really, the higher you climb, the easier it becomes.
When one day, you also become a big middle class worth 30 or 40 million, you will find that in fact, life is a lot less troubles, you just need to concentrate on your career.
All other problems will be solved by themselves with this main line.
I remember many years ago, a young reader asked me in the comments section:
Sir, why do people climb up? Isn't it good that I'm just a low-level ordinary person?
My answer was rough at the time:
Because of the low level of life, the gravitational pull is too heavy, and your life will become more and more tired with time.
You feel that the low-level life is good now because you are too young to really encounter all kinds of practical problems and objective pressures.
And today's article is finally a real perfect answer.
At the end of the article, I would like to add another piece of experience:
I've always wanted you to understand that when you stay in a low-level environment for a long time, you're bound to be affected by your mind.
Your original ambition and upward effort will soon be consumed by all kinds of parents' shortcomings, broken mouths, and meaningless tosses.
You will gradually feel that life should be foolish, there is nothing wrong with eating and sleeping and waking up to play with your mobile phone, and then you should deal with problems in a rough and stupid way and make life decisions.
As a result, life is naturally getting worse and worse, and the opportunities and nobles that I could have won with my fate are gradually drifting away until I finally say goodbye completely.
At the end of the day, a bad environment pollutes you, and a good environment purifies you.
That's why so many brothers and sisters have joined my community over the years, because a good environment is so important.
When you are in an environment, everyone is more serious than you in life, focused on growth, and strives to improve.
At the same time, many people have achieved great good transformations, achieved good results, opened up their own rich careers, and have good fate.
You say, you're in such an environment after a long time.
Your own mind, state, three views, and luck How can there be any reason not to improve and get better?
So, get into the big family.
After all, it's never a mistake to invest in your future.