Text/Mo Ran
In daily life, sometimes we often can't guess a person, and we don't know what the other person really thinks in their hearts.
Some people are able to resist not contacting, but there is actually no other reason.
From a psychological point of view, people who can resist not contacting you can only show that they have different attitudes towards their feelings.
In the relationship, many things don't need to be asked, silence is a response, and not taking the initiative is the answer.
Like someone you can't help but want to get closer, to get closer to each other.
And the person who can resist not contacting you shows that he doesn't care about you, and you are not important to him.
People are very realistic, they will contact the people they care about, and those who can endure not contacting are naturally dispensable in the hearts of the other party.
As long as people don't get in touch with each other, they will naturally drift apart.
People who are thinking about you will unconsciously want to contact you and shorten the distance between you.
After all, in this era of rapid information, as long as a person wants to connect, he will naturally find you through various methods.
There are no greetings that can't be sent, no messages that can't be replied to, only people who don't want to be contacted.
When a person resists not contacting you, it only means one thing: you are not that important.
Although, the result is cruel, but people are very realistic.
No one can do the people they care about, hot and cold, no contact, but everything that can endure is not so important.
Human behavior and emotions are complex, and there may be many reasons for not contacting a person, but after a long period of non-contact, the natural answer is obvious.
This constant disconnection is emotional avoidance.
I don't want to contact you, I don't want to debunk reality directly, I don't want to let myself be that sinner, so I respond to you through this silence and alienation.
There may be many people who will deceive themselves, are unwilling to admit the reality, and try to use various reasons to make excuses for each other.
But the human heart is very clear, what a person looks like to you, your own heart can feel.
The kind of feeling that is held back and affects the emotion, but does not get any response, is wrong.
A person who really loves you will not let you suffer from gains and losses, but will give you a sense of security and peace of mind.
When people are faced with the people they like and care about, they can't help but share, they keep in touch, and they care about their daily lives.
The kind of person who hasn't responded for a long time, hasn't taken the initiative to look for you, and hasn't been touched by your circle of friends has already explained the problem.
Being able to do it without a glass of glass to you, just showing up from time to time, such a person doesn't take you to heart at all.
But anyone who cares about you has already contacted you, and turning a blind eye is the answer.
People who have you in their hearts will be available 24 hours a day, and they will want to contact you whenever they have time.
If you don't contact him, it's because of your existence that you can't become his concern.
In the adult world, everyone should understand that estrangement is silent.
If you don't respond, you don't care, and if you don't take the initiative, you don't care; If you don't express your position, you are refusal.
There are many things that don't need to be said so clearly, otherwise it will hurt people.
Summary:
In this society, everyone is busy, and time is only given to those who care about it.
If a person doesn't contact you, maybe they're contacting someone else; If a person is not like you, he is thinking about others.
If a man doesn't care about you on the surface, then he really doesn't care about you, no exceptions.
No matter what time it is, you must recognize the reality, and for those who don't care about you, let go as soon as possible, and connect with people who really care about you.