Hello, Lee Huan Ying! Even if it is sad, the most important thing is that time cannot be retained

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Overall perception: both joyful and sad, the most important thing is that time cannot be retained.

The end of the film is the most wonderful reverse design, without this ending, this film will lose a few points of color.

By patching up the difference in the degree of proficiency in sewing pants, Jia Xiaoling finally realized that Li Huanying, a young girl who gets along these days, is actually the soul of a middle-aged woman's mother.

Otherwise, where does this ingenious stitching skill come from? I thought that I made my mother happy, but in the end, my mother tolerated herself.

Like waking up from a dream, this indisputable fact and reality means unexpected doom and sad farewell, so how can Jia Xiaoling not collapse?

The audience in front of the big screen also realized this, and their heartstrings fluttered and burst into tears.

It turned out that even in dreams, the loving mother was never absent. But the reality makes this love impossible to return, only Jia Xiaoling's reluctance and regret.

After tears, I always want to realize something, and I don't want to waste the sincerity of this film. For the time being, I will think of the following two points and encourage my future self:

One: If you want to be happy, the smartest strategy is to accept life and move forward.

Second: there is always a sad and regretful farewell, the most regretless strategy is to cherish the present, the work is in daily life.

01 How to be happy?

I don't remember which point is the funniest, because it is all a flash or a moment of life in the small things of life:

It is a heavyweight baby, a stable bottom of the grades, a silly appearance of a child, a moment when the little trick is dramatically debunked, and a middle-aged aunt and uncle who get together to remember the Versailles of that year.

The mother did not scold the daughter who forged the admission letter for the sake of face, but laughed at herself for the vanity of always wanting to show off her children's achievements, and the mother looked back and smiled, which was extremely beautiful.

There are no children who don't want their parents to be happy and proud, but not all of them can get the first place.

Like, there are no stars who don't want to be popular, and there are no employees who don't want to be promoted and raised, but the normal distribution law determines that this is the scenery of a few people.

If happiness is bound to these small probabilities, then doomed happiness will only be a small probability event.

I remember a dialogue from Jia Xiaoling's parents very clearly:

Father: It is good to have a daughter in the future, to be as beautiful as my mother, even if I am not like my mother, at least my body is slim and slender

Jia Ling: What if it's like me?

Mother: It's good to be like you, happy, healthy, and likable.

We have a lot of expectations for the unknown life, but life has its own temper and appearance.

You can not follow it, work against it, complain that life is unfair, blind, wake up every day and scold life as a fool, even if you scold for fifty years, life will not get better in your scolding, but add to the blockage;

You can also follow it, accept the creativity of life, interpret the joy of life, and start to transform your life to the way you want, maybe you can't change eighteen, but you may be able to change into a more satisfactory dress.

Happiness is a seed, to fertilize, to weed, but also to water with heart, in order to thrive, and in the sun and rain of life, to bring coolness and comfort.

Jia Ling's mother Li Huanying died unexpectedly, as a daughter is both sad and regretful, sad that her mother suffered this misfortune, regretting that she could not bring happiness and pride to her mother.

As everyone knows, the mother looks back on the important moments of her life, still does not regret the choice of the past, even if the end of this road is a parent-teacher meeting without applause, it is an embarrassing and humiliating celebration feast, it is a sad and regrettable accident, because those old times in the past are full of joy and happiness, that is the past that can not be changed, how can it be regretted?

02 How to face the inevitable farewell?

There is not a single leaf that does not leave the tree, nor a single cloud that does not dissipate in the sky. No matter what the way it is, no one can stop it when the fate is over.

Those who are deep in the relationship are like parents, husband and wife, and those who are shallow are like friends, colleagues and neighbors. When the fate comes, the joy gathers, and when the fate is over, the sadness is separated.

Life is a feast of flowing water, everyone can only go to a long or short banquet with you, but the time to leave the table is not the same, and there is always sadness and regret when you are separated, unless you have never been happy because of each other.

Jia Ling especially regretted that she had never made her mother happy, so after she crossed back, in addition to wanting her mother to change her "unfortunate" fate, she also tried her best to change the method to make her mother happy.

This loving thought, although Jia Ling did a lot of ridiculous things, but the mother's heart is full of relief and touch, nothing is more gratifying than the love is responded to, their own care for so many years of the baby, finally grew up to know how to love others, and they just happen to be loved by her. How dare you say you are not satisfied?

Time is relentless, even after the crossing.

I always feel that how to get along is not enough, how to be good to each other is not satisfied, or unwilling, sad.

But the good villain made the beloved laugh a few times, and he was relieved a few times, and seemed to have some comfort. This is also the biggest advice to people watching the movie: cherish the present, the work is in the daily life.

Time travel is the ideal depicted in the movie, reality is always crueler than the ideal, if you don't want to regret it, you should cherish your beloved in your daily life, create more good memories, then when the fate is scattered, you can also have less regrets and more comfort.

February 14, 2021

Time is traceless and hard to hold