People are old, and they have no worries about food and clothing, but they are often depressed.
It seems that it is easy for us to fall into the routine of "when the water is full, it overflows".
Because there is no lack of anything, there is a problem of relying on the old and selling the old, turning a happy life into a mess.
The Wise Lawyer once said, "Happiness cannot be attained, only happiness can be brought by living happily." ”
In the heart, everyone hopes that the older they are, the more blessed they are, so it is necessary to learn how to "recruit blessings".
01
Blessing people, family harmony.
With blessed people, you accept the other person's rendering, and soon you will become a blessed person.
Moreover, the people around you are blessed, so vicious people, unlucky people, can not get close to you, so as to achieve the goal of "pro-gentleman, far villain".
Where are the blessed people? We are confused.
Many people always go to "pray to God and worship Buddha", thinking that Bodhisattvas are blessed people, gods in the sky, and live freely.
In fact, the blessed are not far away, but in their own homes.
The first blessed person is his parents.
"Zengguang Xianwen" wrote: "The two elders in the hall are living Buddhas, why use Lingshan to worship the world." ”
Use the funds and energy for the pilgrimage to be filial to your parents. You will soon find out that parents are doing well because of this, and they are saying more blessings to their children and grandchildren.
Outsiders will also be impressed by you because of your filial piety to your parents and are willing to help you.
When you are old, you may not have parents, but you still have elders. Or, you can help someone who is older and weaker than you.
When you are in your sixties, it is still possible to take care of your parents who are eighty or ninety years old, and there will be no resentment, which is a blessing for the family.
The second blessed person is his own descendants.
When people are old, they help take care of the baby, which is very tiring, but also very happy.
Being able to help children is the embodiment of "raising children and preventing old age".
I usually take care of my children and grandchildren, and when I can't walk, someone will take care of me. This is the best way out for yourself.
Scattering your children and grandchildren will not give you much in return, but when you see that your children and grandchildren are mixed well, your heart will be at peace.
The third blessed person is his brothers and sisters.
To be honest, when you were very old, you and your brothers and sisters, seeing each other and seeing each other less.
See each other often, communicate well, and take care of each other. You just keep the blood love.
Especially women, when they are old, they can go to see their younger brothers, brothers and sisters, that is, they still have their mother's family, and they still have backing in life.
Home and everything is prosperous. Your extended family is thriving, and you can't do without your benefits. The family style is good, there is more money, and filial piety is much easier to do.
02
Seek well-being and help others.
For the well-being of the people, you may feel that such a big thing has little to do with you, and you can't do it as an old man.
In fact, seeking well-being is very simple, and it is also a matter of some details.
"Thousands of high-rise buildings rise from the ground", at the grassroots level of society, is the foundation of well-being.
On the "Shanghai Changning" media platform, there is a warm message.
In the Huayuan community of Huayang Road Street, Zhou Ronghua, a retired old man, has never been idle.
He became a member of the Huayuan branch of the Street Association for the Elderly, and teamed up to help the older people in the community.
Chen Yunqiu and his wife, who are in their old age, have been taken care of by Zhou Ronghua for ten consecutive years.
Usually help to get medicine, take it to the doctor, and explain the world's major events, Zhou Ronghua has done everything.
Wang Xiuying in the community fell at home, and Zhou Ronghua was busy contacting the ambulance and breaking down the door to save people.
Now, he has helped five elderly people and grasped the situation of the elderly.
He also kept the contact information of the old man's sons and daughters in case he needed them.
What's even more rare is that he knows that he has a haircut, shaved his head for the elderly in difficulty in the community, and he is busy, and good things have spread.
In contrast, it is much better for the elderly to do good deeds and care about the people around them than to dance square dances, wander around, and run wild.
Even if you don't want to help anyone, turn down the volume when you are square dancing; When you go on a rampage, don't go out on the street; Don't squeeze your time to work with young people when you go out...... It is also immeasurably meritorious.
If you take care of the people in the community today, the people in the community will help you in the future. People and people, why be so indifferent?
03
Read the blessing book and keep pace with the times.
I met such an old man.
When traveling by car, you need to scan the code to pay, and the old man threw out a sentence: "I won't." ”
When he went to the hospital, the nurse told him to learn to make an appointment online to avoid long queues. "I don't have a smartphone," he said. ”
There are elderly people who can't catch the car, so they want to contact their children. But after looking for a long time, I didn't find the contact information in the mobile phone.
The old man is going to spend money, and his children transfer money from WeChat. The old man scolded and said, "I didn't receive it." ”
Then the old man said, "Children are not filial. ”
It's really heart-wrenching.
The old man holds his mobile phone every day, and he knows that he has not learned anything by watching boring little videos.
Holding a mobile phone, not only to kill time, but also to read "blessing books". Understand the local government affairs information, learn the service mode pushed by the formal platform, and master the application of software.
Reading old books and very thick textbooks may not work, but it should be okay to read some life skills and small knowledge.
Learn more, life will not be confused, and many technological things can be done by yourself.
People are old, but life continues, the times are developing, how can you do it if you don't take advantage of the situation.
04
It is human nature that everyone wants to be blessed and to live in a blessed land.
The ancients said: "To be blessed for goodness is not blessed by gods and Buddhas." ”
No one is obligated to give you blessings, but you seek them yourself.
Even if someone brings a blessing, you have to reach out and catch it.
There is a mantra called "Ask for more blessings". It also shows that if you let yourself be vigorous, blessings will come continuously.
No matter how many achievements have passed, we must look forward to the future and change the present.
From now on, love your family, love your people, and love yourself.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The pictures in the article come from the Internet.