Only when you figure it out yourself, can the problem be truly solved.
When you have a dependency mentality, you will feel that others have to help you, and if you don't help, it is the injustice of others and they don't love you.
This world is indeed cruel, because you can only rely on yourself, and no matter how good others are to you, they will not help you solve all the problems in life.
If you have a problem, you can find someone to talk to and ask for advice, but if you want the other party to help you solve it thoroughly, this kind of thinking is to harm yourself.
The greater the expectations of others, the greater the disappointment.
If you have a problem, let yourself calm down and think about how to deal with it, instead of being anxious, depressed, or emotionally broken.
Since the problem needs to be solved, we should change our thinking to think about everything in a good way, so that the whole person's state will be positive and optimistic, and the brain can be active in thinking.
If you can't escape the problem, you should face it positively, positively and optimistically, face it with a smile, analyze the problem with a smile, and energy will come out to surround you and give you strength.
Calm down and think about how to deal with this problem. You can take a pen and write down your confusion, analyze them one by one, and the method will eventually be found.
People still have to be patient, so that the brain has the opportunity to think logically.
When you are at a loss, first tell yourself: "Everything has to slow down, don't rush, be patient, be patient, be patient, be patient, say word by word, chew the words, pay attention to details, and patience will come".
Be a little demanding of yourself, deliberately develop habits, and cultivate patience.