1. Looking back at the status quo: she no longer is a decadent and sad resentful woman, but chooses to love bravely; Although he has been repeatedly married, he still retains the tears of his life
Now, Ms. Ma Yanli has successfully escaped the difficulties of her past life and has ushered in a new stage. She was once a well-known model in the international arena, however, after entering the marriage hall with Langkun, a famous director in the film and television industry, this relationship failed to come to the end, which made her fall into a period of low period.
However, after fifteen years of baptism and self-improvement, she has learned to be independent, get rid of the shadow of the past, and regain the light of self-confidence.
Today, Ms. Ma Yanli has a thriving career and has founded a unique fashion brand, MarymaDesign, and has made a name for herself in the field of fashion design. She faces life with a positive attitude, and she has no complaints about the past, only glad that she can get out of the haze and welcome the sunshine again.
On the other hand, Mr. Langkun's situation is not as bright as Ma Yanli's. The former film and television superstar, who has experienced three marriage failures, is now alone in the capital renting an apartment.
Although his career has improved slightly, he has always been concerned about his ex-wife and children. Whenever he recalls the good times he spent with Ma Yanli, he is always sad and full of emotion.
They have very different understandings and perceptions of their past marriages. Ms. Ma Yanli believes that the original breakdown of the marriage was mainly due to the fact that both parties were still young and lacked effective communication, understanding and tolerance, which led to the accumulation of conflicts and the disintegration of the marriage.
Mr. Lang Kun felt deeply guilty, he believed that it was his stubbornness and lack of consideration that hurt Ma Yanli and made the warmth of the family drift away. Now, even though his face is still the same, he can no longer regain the joy of his former family.
Often, after drinking to kill his sorrows, he would weep bitterly and regret it.
Second, the beginning of youth
In 1993, Ms. Ma Yanli participated in the Anhui Provincial Model Competition, and with her outstanding performance, she became a new star in the modeling industry from an unknown ordinary girl, and opened a brilliant chapter in her life.
In that era full of passion and dreams, Ms. Ma Yanli met Mr. Lang Kun, a film and television actor from the capital Beijing, at a grand awards ceremony. At that time, Mr. Lang Kun was already a well-known actor, and the two young people fell in love at first sight, quickly fell in love, and indulged in sweet love.
Although the two come from very different backgrounds, they are both passionate young children who persistently pursue their dreams, and they also share common values and ideals in life. At that moment in 2001, after years of infatuation and protection, I finally joined hands in the Civil Affairs Bureau, tied the knot, and ushered in a new chapter of life.
On the occasion of their wedding, the two are full of longing and eagerness, hoping to realize their children and live a prosperous and happy family life as soon as possible. Ma Yanli smiled shyly, Lang Kun was heroic and mighty, dazzling like two stars, and became a happy model couple who were envied by everyone.
Soon after marriage, Ma Yanli became pregnant and gave birth to Lin'er. The young couple is busy with work and childcare, and despite the hardships of life, they still enjoy it.
After Ma Yanli left the modeling industry, she founded her own clothing brand; Lang Kun holds a key position in a film and television company, and their small family is harmonious and peaceful, everything seems so natural, but who could have predicted that the crisis is quietly coming.
At that time, Ma Yanli was affectionate to Lang Kun and full of endless yearning for the future. With a beautiful vision for a new life, she is going all out to work hard for her career and family. However, after only a few years, the dream began to fall apart, and married life gradually declined.
Under Lang Kun's seemingly personable appearance, there is a deep bump and loneliness in his heart.
3. Potential crisis
In the years after marriage, the contradictions between Ma Yanli and Lang Kun gradually surfaced, and married life gradually fell into indifference and alienation. This is mainly due to the huge differences between the two sides in terms of lifestyle and values.
Ma Yanli was born with a strong independent personality and career ambitions. As a well-known model in the past, she pursues a fashion-forward and distinctive lifestyle, and is willing to socialize with friends in the literary and artistic circles.
She is often ecstatic to participate in various fashion parties and new product launches, drink to her heart's content, and have unbridled fun.
In contrast, Lang Kun is more conservative and introverted, and he pays more attention to the education of his family and children. As a film and television actor, he expects his wife to remain dignified and stable and live a rigorous life, instead of indulging in the lights all day long.
With the passage of time, there are huge differences between the two in terms of educational philosophy, social sphere, and consumption concept, and even cause frequent disputes and cold violence in daily life.
Home, which was supposed to be a haven for people's hearts, has now become a battlefield of brutal war, alternating between roar and silence.
At some point, Ms. Ma often needs to entrust the care of her young children to others in order to attend a friend's party or participate in a fashion event. This undoubtedly angered Mr. Lang Kun, and the relationship between the husband and wife became strained, which ended in an unhappy ending.
What's even more distressing is that in order to cover up their wrong behavior, the two made up lies in front of outsiders and accused each other. Ms. Ma Yanli maliciously slandered Mr. Lang Kun's loyalty in front of her friends, saying that he had cheating, alcoholism and other bad behaviors; Mr. Lang Kun ridiculed her, accusing Ms. Ma Yanli of spending money and neglecting to take care of her children.
Friends and family watched as the conflict between the former loving couple became more and more acute, but they were helpless. Their marriage is like a train that is gradually derailing, struggling to move forward on the road of falling apart, and it is embarrassing.
Although occasionally a warm spark is ignited again, it will soon fall into the abyss of the Cold War, which will never end.
Part 4: The Long Road Out
After years of hard work and struggle, Ms. Ma Yanli finally made up her mind to divorce Mr. Lang Kun in June 2008 and draw a clear line. The decision was so painful that she pleaded with a friend to mediate, but it failed to save the broken relationship.
The news of the divorce was like a bolt from the blue, hitting Mr. Lang Kun's heart hard. He had tried to keep her, made promises and made compromises, but Ms. Ma's determination was unwavering.
After the court's ruling, the two officially divorced, and they have been strangers ever since.
After the divorce, Ms. Ma Yanli completely relieved herself of the burden in her heart and devoted herself wholeheartedly to her career. She founded her own fashion label, MarymaDesign, and with exceptional perseverance and a unique aesthetic vision, she quickly established the brand as an emerging force to be reckoned with.
In addition, Ms. Ma Yanli has also been a judge of the China International Fashion Week and Fashion Design Competition, and is known as the "Jewel of China's Fashion Industry". She rediscovered her self-worth and lived a new life of freedom.
In contrast, Mr. Lang Kun's situation is rather bleak. The former film and television superstar has experienced three failed marriages, and his children are reluctant to have too much contact with him.
Although he has achieved good results in the field of acting, the regret and trauma in Lang Kun's heart are pain that can never be erased. Every time I look back at the past years, those moments of the past now seem like an unattainable dream.
He deeply regretted his arrogance and paranoia at that time, dismantled the partner he once loved with his own hands, and also lost that warm family life.
Once upon a time, Lang Kun, who was slightly drunk, dialed Ma Yanli's phone, tearfully confiding in his past mistakes, begging for the other party's forgiveness. However, it was already too late, and Ma Yanli had already buried that painful memory in her heart and bravely embarked on a new journey in life.
Fifth, reinvigorate
After the divorce, Ma Yanli emerged in the fashion industry with perseverance and a unique aesthetic perspective, and made great progress all the way. She has the courage to break with tradition and keep up with the times, quickly building her brand MarymaDesign into an emerging force to be reckoned with.
Since the beginning of the brand, Ma Yanli has positioned it as a young, avant-garde and distinctive style. She never sticks to the rules, but boldly tries new and unique dressing and accessories, and subverts tradition with innovative thinking.
Ma Yanli herself is personally dressed in battle, incarnated as the best spokesperson of the brand, and frequently appears in major fashion weeks and various events.
With excellent aesthetic taste and keen insight into trends, MarymaDesign has gradually established a good reputation in the fashion industry. Ma Yanli has won the judging qualification of authoritative competitions such as China International Fashion Week and Fashion Design Competition, and is known as "the treasure of China's fashion industry".
At the same time, Lang Kun's career is gradually back on track. After the divorce, he began to reflect deeply on himself and did his best to change his public image. He tries to get involved in various types of film and television works, whether it is a traditional drama role, or a popular spy war drama and a modern urban drama.
With his superb acting skills and professional performance strength, Lang Kun quickly won the love and praise of the audience. In 2005, he won the Best Actor Award at the 22nd Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers TV Film Festival for starring in the spy war drama "Urgent Need".
Since then, he has won many heavyweight awards such as the Magnolia Award and the Chinese TV Drama Directors Association Award.
However, no matter how the situation changes, the unforgettable psychological wound can never be healed. Whenever he was immersed in alcohol anesthesia and cried bitterly, those good times he had spent with Ma Yanli came to his heart like a tide.
Sometimes, he couldn't help but dial Ma Yanli's number, and poured out all kinds of mistakes back then, eager to get a trace of tolerance and understanding, however, at this moment, Ma Yanli had already hidden the unbearable past in her heart and devoted herself to a new life journey.
They have climbed the ladder in their respective careers and seem to have managed to shake off the shadows of the past and rediscover their former glory. However, under all these seemingly beautiful appearances, a sudden change pushed them into the lowest point of their lives.
Time freezes in an ordinary day in 2011, Lang Kun suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage at home without warning and collapsed to the ground in an instant. With the full rescue of the 120 ambulance, he was able to barely save his life, but he was physically and mentally exhausted and suffered a heavy blow.
Since then, Lang Kun can only rely on the oxygen machine at home to maintain his life, and his body gradually weakens.
Ma Yanli, who learned the bad news, did not hesitate to visit this former best friend. Although the contradiction between them is difficult to resolve, she still hopes to bring him spiritual comfort in this most difficult moment.
However, when she saw Lang Kun with a haggard face and impaired mobility, the grief in her heart was still irrepressible.