What is love? Hormonal attraction between the opposite sex? Or is it the link between the interests of men and women?
In Macron and Brigitte, we see another answer, that is, two lives are mutually fulfilling.
When confronted with journalist Caroline Derian, Macron once said naturally and frankly:
"Brigitte has done much more than just being there for me all the time, and without her, I wouldn't be where I am today. ”
It's a bit too sweet to say this, too deep in love with a sense of fate, but it's easy for us to see a different kind of love, there is something more important between them than skin to skin and interests, and that should be the collision of two souls.
In 1993, Macron was just a young child, but he had a unique vision and was attracted to his teacher, Brigitte. At that time, she had her own marriage, her own family, known as Madame Oziere.
The age difference is 24 years, no matter how you look at it, it looks like a mother-son relationship, but they break the world and let their souls be sublimated in contradictions.
As a result, a love that is destined to be extraordinary and is not favored by the world has quietly grown.
Macron did not hesitate, but Brigitte did not have a little self-confidence, even after getting married, she still said: "I am not the heroine of the novel." ”
Indeed, a 39-year-old housewife, with 3 children, who is middle-aged, in addition to teaching French and Latin, can only tutor everyone in drama, what conditions does she have to become loved by a 15-year-old boy?
But Macron seems to have been born to be that unusual person, he has been able to read since he was a child, he is good at thinking, and he understands what and who he wants in his heart early on.
Brigitte, a female teacher who is 24 years older than herself, has the same family conditions as herself, but her age is similar to her mother, her appearance is not high-end enough, and her dress is not fashionable, and she can't see the excitement and dreams of pink bubbles in her eyes.
is such a woman, Macron is deeply obsessed with it.
When Macron realized this, he was not in the least deterred by his boldness, on the contrary, he continued to take the initiative to attack, and at one time Brigitte had nowhere to escape.
He has built many models for his future with Brigitte, but the common outcome is "we are all in this together".
Some people say that good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a thousand.
Probably when Brigitte instructed Macron on how to play the role of "Julien Soler" in depth, he already saw the image of the "girl" he wanted in him.
Brigitte was apprehensive, helpless, but willing, and there were many speculations between them about the possibility of being together, but it seemed that they didn't think that they were really just attracted to each other's souls.
"In order to preserve our love, we have to deal with all kinds of malicious remarks, ridicule and gossip with difficulty"
When Brigitte said this, her blue eyes were extraordinarily deep, and they were full of melancholy.
Before the positive result, Macron was not happy, and Brigitte was also hit by the world.
When they walked on the street, spit on by strangers, when they held hands, and were suppressed by their respective families, both of them felt pain in their hearts at that moment.
It's just that because there is love, there is no retreat. On the contrary, Macron studied in Paris for many years, and Brigitte stood by his side for many years.
The marriage between the two places existed in name only, and her ex-husband thought that one day she would hit her head and bleed and would come back again. But Brigitte walked resolutely, Macron guarded firmly, the two of them opened their bows without looking back, and they never let go of each other since holding hands.
In 2006, Brigitte finally divorced, and Macron was already a 29-year-old mature young man, and they still insisted on facing their choices, so the love between the two was made public.
Macron took his prospective girlfriend Brigitte to all his activities, but at the wedding of her classmates, she was subjected to the greatest malice:
"I still wear short skirts at a young age, which is not elegant and temperamental, it is simply out of line. ”
Brigitte has long been accustomed to the fact that the two of them have been together for 13 years, and she has never heard any ugly words? And Macron is the same, except that he prefers to take the initiative rather than passively accept: "I'm going to shut up those who gossip." ”
In 2007, Brigitte, 54, and Macron, 30, got married, and their wedding was simple but grand, and Macron invited his boss and politicians to witness the marriage.
After that, most netizens have understood that in the process of Macron's entry into politics, Brigitte is the one who works hard to protect, but she is the one who must hide behind the spotlight.
Some people say that Brigitte's presence will affect Macron's campaign, so she is willing to be an unknown green leaf. But she didn't care, using Macron's office to organize his campaign materials and help him figure out his strengths and talents.
"People keep telling me that anything can happen in politics and that they will attack us, so I'll wait and see......"
This is Brigitte, who has given Macron a firm and solid foundation to keep him right and left in the campaign.
When Caroline Derian interviewed the couple, she used this sentence to describe Brigitte, who is in her sixties:
"She's free, honest and funny, and every now and then she pops up the same English word, and in a world so measured that some economic statisticians may have relegated her to the category of the elderly. ”
However, such Brigitte doesn't care about the eyes of the world at all, she lives transparently and introspectively, and always tries her best to make the two people happy when she is in love with Macron, and always tries her best to make the other party gain something when the other party needs it.
This kind of love, such a husband and wife, it seems that in addition to the attraction of each other's souls, it is the fulfillment of life's insufficiency.
When Macron met Brigitte, he took at least 30 years less of a detour in his life, and the mature part of his thinking that lacked was already made up for by Brigitte's experience.
And Brigitte, who was fortunate enough to live with a man known as Little Fresh Meat, was inexplicably compensated for by the boring youth of the first half of her life, so she saw a more interesting side of life.
There are no secrets between them, two people are always on line for each other, Macron calls Brigitte every hour and a half, they can't be separated for too long, and they are always communicating with each other.
Such a life also made Brigitte "complain" that we have no secrets from each other. But this kind of life did not eliminate their yearning for love, but lived more and more in tune.
From falling in love to now, 31 years have passed, two people have always held hands to face all, some people say that their love is a rebellion, but only they know that they are husband and wife and confidants, on the road ahead, they must hold each other's hands to feel at ease.
According to the French newspaper Le Figaro, the romantic life of Macron and Brigitte will be put on the screen, and the title of the play has been chosen, which is called "Brigitte, Free Woman".