Uncle Li is a typical middle-aged man with a successful career, a happy family, and a prosperous life. However, he always felt that something was missing, until the decision about his nephew Xiao Ming changed the trajectory of his life.
Xiao Ming has been very obedient since he was a child, but he has never had a partner when he grows up. As an uncle, Uncle Li naturally wanted to introduce him to a good girl so that he could also live a happy life.
That day, at a family gathering, Uncle Li saw Xiao Ming alone and seemed very lonely. He made up his mind at that time that he must introduce his nephew to an ideal girlfriend.
In order to introduce Xiao Ming to his partner, Uncle Li asked around and finally met Xiao Li, a beautiful, gentle, and virtuous girl, at a blind date. He felt that she was Xiao Ming's ideal object, so he did not hesitate to introduce their contact information to each other.
"Xiao Ming, this is Xiao Li, she is beautiful, has a good personality, and is a very good girl! You two are the same age, and you are both single with each other, why don't you try to get to know each other?" Uncle Li said with a smile.
Xiao Ming was a little reserved, but he still mustered up the courage to ask, "Hello, it's nice to meet you." Can we change the contact details and make an appointment in the future?"
"Okay, no problem. Xiao Li smiled shyly, and the two exchanged WeChat numbers like this.
After some twists and turns, Xiao Ming finally made an appointment with Xiao Li. On the day of the date, Uncle Li secretly observed their every move. Xiao Li is polite, dignified and generous; Although Xiao Ming was a little nervous, he also tried his best to behave as a gentleman.
Seeing this scene, Uncle Li was sincerely happy for them. He said to himself: "As an uncle, what a gratifying thing to be able to witness the love history of my nephew! "
After that, the relationship between Xiao Ming and Xiao Li gradually warmed up. They often go on dates, travel, and eat. Sometimes Uncle Li will also join in and share some love experiences and life insights.
One day, Xiao Li told Xiao Ming about her beautiful vision for the future: "I hope to be able to form a happy little family in the future, and you are the person I idealize." "
Xiao Ming was moved by her sincerity, and nodded again and again and said: "I feel the same way, as long as you are by our side, we will definitely be able to live happily." "
Uncle Li was extremely relieved to see that they were in love. He felt that he was an amazing man, not only did he have a successful career, but he was also able to introduce his nephew to such a perfect person.
Sometimes he gets carried away and boasts to those around him about how wise and prescient he is.
"You see, if it weren't for me, how could Xiao Ming and Xiao Li meet and fall in love? Uncle Lee often boasted like this.
This boasting naturally caused dissatisfaction among those around him. Some bluntly said that he was too conceited; Some people secretly joked that he was making himself amorous. However, Uncle Li never took these teachings to heart and remained immersed in self-absorption.
Everything seemed to be smooth sailing, until one day, Uncle Li accidentally discovered some of Xiao Li's secrets. It turned out that she not only had other men outside, but also often went to nightclubs to socialize. Uncle Li couldn't believe his eyes at the time!
He immediately told Xiao Ming this cruel truth. Xiao Ming was like being hit hard by a heavy punch at that time, and he stood there speechless for a long time.
After a long while, he finally burst into great anger and sadness, pointed at Uncle Li's nose and scolded bitterly: "You blind fool! Why did I believe your nonsense so easily?
Uncle Li was embarrassed and guilty. He began to reflect on whether he was too confident at the beginning, thinking that his vision must be right.
"I'm sorry, Xiao Ming, I was really naïve. I was meant to be well-intentioned, but I didn't expect it to be a big mistake. He said in a dejected tone.
After some ideological struggle, Xiao Ming finally made up his mind to break up with Xiao Li. On the day of the breakup, Xiao Li cried so much that she begged Xiao Ming to give her a chance to be a new person.
"Please, give me another chance! I swear I'll never do anything like this again. Xiao Li cried loudly, hoarse.
However, Xiao Ming turned a blind eye and left without looking back. Seeing this scene, Uncle Li was devastated and began to doubt his life path.
"As an adult, I should have been wiser, more steadfast, and not so reckless. What the hell did I go wrong?" He reflected on himself.
After this incident, Uncle Li began to reflect on his life. He realizes that his past self is too conceited and empty-minded, thinking that he can control the fate of others by himself. In fact, life is far more complicated than he imagined.
In order to make amends for his mistakes, he took the initiative to apologize to his family and friends and sincerely asked for their forgiveness.
"Guys, I know I've done something wrong and caused trouble for everyone. I sincerely apologize to all of you here, and I hope you can forgive me for being a fool. He said.
"Let the past pass, the most important thing now is to learn from your mistakes and live your new life. He said to himself, "I will definitely become a more humble and wiser person." "
Since then, Uncle Lee has become more humble and more steady and thoughtful. He no longer boasted about people, but studied modestly and worked diligently. When everyone saw that he had changed their minds, they all re-accepted him and lived in harmony with him.
One day a few years later, Uncle Li received a wedding card from Xiao Ming. He finally found the happiness that truly belongs to him, and Uncle Li couldn't be happier for him. On the day of the wedding, he wished his nephew a happy wedding and took the opportunity to sincerely apologize to him.
"Xiao Ming, I'm sincerely happy for you. However, I also want to sincerely apologize to you, I hope you can forgive me for the harm I caused you to be reckless. Uncle Li said.
Xiao Ming smiled and patted him on the shoulder: "Uncle, that's all in the past, you don't have to blame yourself anymore." It was because of that lesson that I realized that happiness needs to be cherished and guarded by myself. Now that I'm grown up and able to do it on my own. "
Seeing his nephew so mature, Uncle Li was sincerely happy. This incident taught him a heavy lesson. He realized that no one is omnipotent, that we all make mistakes, and that the key is to learn from them.
"Life is like this, full of unknowns and twists and turns, we have to learn to face reality. He muttered to himself.
Although the road of life is bumpy, as long as we have a humble and courageous heart, we will be able to overcome many obstacles and live our wonderful life. Let's face the future bravely!
Uncle Lee's experience has taught us that we need to be extra cautious when introducing people to such things. We can't be too hasty, let alone blindly confident. Instead, we need to learn with an open mind and be more empathetic and patient.
"I was just too conceited to think I had a better vision. In fact, everyone has blind spots, and the key is to be self-aware. Uncle Li said.
He is now more humble and thoughtful. Whenever someone asks him for advice on blind dates, he will earnestly teach: "Introducing a partner is not child's play, you must fully understand the other person, not just look at the surface." Your introduction will only be successful if both parties truly love each other. "
Everyone was impressed by him when they saw him change so much. Someone sincerely praised: "Uncle Li is really a great person, we should all learn from him." "
Yes, it was precisely because of that setback that Uncle Li realized his own shortcomings, which led to today's progress. He often said to those around him: "Be humble and self-aware, so that you can constantly correct your shortcomings and become a better person." "
Seeing Uncle Li so inspirational, everyone was infected and inspired by his optimism. Someone joked, "If you had been here before, you would have boasted that you don't know what year it is!" Everyone laughed when they heard this.
Uncle Li also smiled and said, "Yes, I was too conceited in the past. However, it doesn't matter, who can be faultless if you are not a sage? The key is to learn from your failures and start anew. As long as we have dreams, we will be able to rekindle the flame of hope. "
Everyone was moved by his open-mindedness and optimism, and praised him. Yes, life is like this, there are unknown challenges everywhere, but as long as we face them bravely, we will be able to break through many obstacles and live our wonderful life.
After that lesson, Uncle Lee became more humble and steady. He no longer boasted about others, but studied modestly, worked diligently, and tried to make up for his past mistakes.
Once, a young intern, Xiao Wang, came to the unit. Xiao Wang is only in his early twenties, but he is already arrogant about his abilities, reasoning with others everywhere, and repeatedly offending colleagues. Uncle Li saw it in his eyes and was very worried that he would repeat his mistakes.
So, he called Xiao Wang aside alone and taught him step by step: "Xiao Wang, you are a very talented young man, and your future is limitless. However, you also have to keep in mind that no one is omnipotent, and each of us will have blind spots and flaws. The key is to be self-aware and humble at all times. "
Xiao Wang didn't think so, and still went his own way. Seeing this, Uncle Li had no choice but to tell his story about his experience back then, hoping to warn him.
"I used to be like you now, with no one in my eyes and arrogance. I once introduced my nephew to an unmisbehaved girl, and it turned out to be a big mistake and broke my nephew's heart. That lesson taught me that everyone can make mistakes, and the key is to learn from them and be a new person. "
Hearing this, Xiao Wang finally lowered his head in shame. He sighed sincerely: "It turns out that Uncle Li has also experienced this kind of setback, I am too young to understand anything." In the future, I will definitely remember your teachings and be a humble and promising person. "
Since then, Xiao Wang has indeed changed his previous arrogance and conceit and become humble and polite. He humbly consulted his colleagues and worked diligently, and soon won everyone's appreciation.
Once, the company organized an outdoor outreach activity. In a project that tested teamwork, Xiao Wang showed excellent organization and coordination skills, and led everyone to successfully complete the challenge.
After the event, everyone paid tribute to him. Even his colleagues, who usually don't have a good impression of him, also praised him sincerely: "Xiao Wang, you are really amazing! If it weren't for your overall coordination, we would definitely not be able to successfully complete the task." "
Xiao Wang shook his head humbly and said, "It's all thanks to everyone's cooperation." I've only done a little bit, and the real heroes are you colleagues. "
Everyone saw him so humble and promising, and they all looked up to him. Uncle Li watched from the sidelines, and his heart was extremely relieved. He said to the people around him, "You see, this is a good and positive young man. As long as we have dreams, we will be able to rekindle the flame of hope. "
Everyone was infected and inspired by his optimism. Someone joked: "If you were here before, you would have bragged that you were a good leader!" Everyone laughed when they heard this.
Uncle Li also smiled and said, "Yes, I was too conceited in the past. But it doesn't matter, who can be faultless if you are not a sage? The key is to learn from your failures and start anew. As long as we face it bravely, we will be able to overcome many obstacles. "
It was because of that setback that Uncle Lee realized his flaws and made progress today. He often said to the people around him: "Life is like this, there are unknown challenges everywhere, but as long as we face them bravely, we will be able to live our wonderful life." "
Everyone was moved by his open-mindedness and optimism, and praised him. Yes, there is no perfect path in life, but as long as we have dreams and move forward bravely, we will definitely be able to overcome many obstacles and finally achieve our ideal life.