Text by Kusushiba
Between people, it can be said that it is simple, but it is also very complicated.
Because the human heart is unpredictable, the human heart is separated from the belly, and there are thousands of faces.
Often they are careless and careless, so they will fall into the trap of others.
In fact, whether it is with parents, or with lovers, or with friends, or even other people, you must close the door behind you.
For their good, it is also for their own good, and they do not cause trouble to others or themselves.
In fact, it is not that there is scheming, but that a person really understands that a person must leave a way out for himself, and not cut off all his way out.
How can people have a clear conscience when they live? How can they be well?
I hope that everyone can love others and themselves, build a protective screen for themselves, and be safe for the rest of their lives.
It is wisdom for a person, no matter who he associates with, to close the two doors behind him first.
First, the door of the bottom line.
If your parents always challenge your bottom line, don't understand you, look down on you, and don't support you, in the end, family affection will gradually become estranged.
If the other half always touches your bottom line, always makes you suffer from gains and losses, and always puts you on the verge of collapse, then the marriage will not last long.
If friends always touch your bottom line and make you feel very uncomfortable, then this friendship will not last long.
In fact, no matter who you are dating, but the other party repeatedly challenges your bottom line, then often the relationship will not last long.
No matter who you associate with, the word comfort is the best state and the best interpretation.
If a person has you in his heart, then he will not touch your bottom line at every turn, and he will contradict you at every turn.
There is a possibility that you are not suitable for each other, and neither of you will take a step back, so it is time for saber rattling.
You should also reflect on yourself, have you touched the bottom line of others?
Mutual respect is a good relationship.
Therefore, when interacting with people, you must keep your bottom line.
If your bottom line is loyalty, then you must not be easily touched.
If a person really cares about you, in addition to other hardships, he will not touch a person's bottom line for no reason.
Of course, don't touch your own bottom line, be loyal to your other half and be loyal to a relationship, this is the best "wise self-preservation".
Therefore, interacting with people, having a bottom line, can just build a long-term relationship.
Being clear about the behavior of others, not transgressing, measured, boundary, and respectful, is beneficial to one's own communication and one's own life.
In short, closing the door of the bottom line behind you is the best arrangement.
Therefore, if a person has a clear three views, he will often avoid many troubles.
Be yourself and get along with others, so that the relationship can be harmonious and harmonious.
Find problems from yourself in everything, and often in this way, you can win the love of others.
2. The door of trust.
People pay attention to fate, when fate comes, thousands of mountains and rivers will be together, and when fate is exhausted, even if it is close at hand, it will be scattered.
Sometimes I don't love anymore, sometimes I don't trust anymore, a heart has no temperature, and I will never return to the enthusiasm I was at the beginning.
A person must have his own integrity and trust.
I have a scale in my heart, and I have a ruler in my heart, and I measure myself all the time.
Not all money can be earned, so don't let the people who believe in you chill their hearts, earn what they deserve and give up what they should give.
If we think that the child is still young, we can coax the child at will, even if we promise the child something, but in the end it will not be done.
This is a common mistake we make as parents.
Actually, this is the integrity that challenges us.
If we can not keep our promises and keep our promises to our children, then our children will be our present when they grow up.
Honesty is the foundation of footholding, so how should children in the future gain a foothold?
A lie takes an infinite number of lies, and a bad habit takes a long time to correct.
So, don't make promises lightly, don't give promises easily.
When interacting with people, honesty is our face, and honesty is the key to opening the door to interpersonal relationships.
So, don't commit to what you can't do, and don't commit to what you don't want to do.
It's a good habit that we will benefit for a lifetime.
A person's best feng shui is character, and a person's best feng shui is morality.
Don't make promises to your partner that you will be fine?
If you can't do it, it's not just yourself who will be slapped in the face in the end, but more often, you will lose the other party's heart.
May we all be able to guard the door of trust behind us and open the bridge of friendship.
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