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I am an ordinary housewife named Xiaoyu. My husband is an ordinary office worker, and we live an ordinary and warm life. I love cooking and often cook delicious meals for my family to keep them happy and satisfied. My husband, although he is not very good at housework, loves me very much and always tries to help me with some housework after work. Our life is simple, but it is full of happiness and warmth.
However, a small conflict quietly arose in our home. Just as the Spring Festival was approaching, my mother-in-law suddenly offered to come to our house for the New Year. This was a happy thing, but my husband made a request that surprised me a little - the AA system. He said that since the mother-in-law is coming for the New Year, then we should share the expenses equally, and everyone should bear a part, which is fair and reasonable.
At first, I thought it was a good idea, after all, everyone has their own lives, and we should understand and support each other. But when I heard the specific amount that my husband had proposed, I felt a little uncomfortable. He said that each of us was responsible for the cost of food of 3,000 yuan and the cost of accommodation of 2,000 yuan. For me, this amount is a bit out of my budget, after all, I haven't thought about the expenses of so many people before. But the husband insisted that it was a fair thing to do and that everyone would not be too burdened. I tried to persuade him to change his mind, but he thought I was embarrassing him, which made me feel a little wronged.
I thought about paying for it on my own, but I didn't think it was fair. So I decided to talk to my mother-in-law and hope to find a better solution. After all, family harmony is the most important thing, and I don't want to let such a small thing affect our relationship. So, I called my mother-in-law and presented my idea to her.
After listening to my words, my mother-in-law was silent for a moment, and then said slowly: "Xiaoyu, I know that you are a good girl who is sensible and filial, and I am also grateful to you for taking care of our family. But I'm here to see you this time, and I want to get together with you. It's not easy for the two of you, and I don't want to make you feel pressured. ”
I listened to my mother-in-law's words and was a little moved. She is a kind and caring person, and I can feel her kindness in her tone. I hurriedly said, "Mother-in-law, I know what you mean, but I really don't want you to feel that we mean anything bad about you. I think we can talk about it again and find a better solution. ”
The mother-in-law nodded in agreement. So we started talking about it together. I proposed a new scheme: we can spread the cost according to the actual situation, instead of rigidly calculating according to the AA system. My mother-in-law listened to my suggestion and agreed. "It's a good idea, because everyone's financial situation is different, and it can be a little hard to accept that you have to force a fixed amount of money to split your expenses," she said. ”
I discussed it with my mother-in-law and decided to share the expenses according to the actual situation. I cover most of the food costs because I'm good at cooking, and I'm happy to cook some delicious meals for my family. As for the accommodation cost, we can share it according to the actual situation, and if my husband and I can afford it, my mother-in-law will not have to worry about this cost.
My mother-in-law listened to my arrangement and was very satisfied. She said: "Xiaoyu, you are such a sensible and kind girl, I am so lucky." "Hearing my mother-in-law's praise, I also felt very happy in my heart, and felt that this conflict had been satisfactorily resolved.
So, my mother-in-law and I discussed preparing for the New Year. We discussed the recipes for the New Year, prepared the New Year's goods, and discussed some entertainment activities, intending to make this Spring Festival meaningful and happy.
In this way, our family ushered in a happy and peaceful Spring Festival together. At this special moment, I felt the warmth and happiness of my family, and I also understood the importance of family members. I know that as long as we understand and tolerate each other, we can overcome any difficulties and create a better life together.
The atmosphere of the New Year gradually became stronger, and the home was filled with happiness. My mother-in-law and I were busy preparing for the New Year, and in the process of buying the New Year's goods, my mother-in-law picked up an item from time to time and said, "This New Year must be prepared, my son likes to eat." With a happy smile on her face, it can be seen that she is really looking forward to the arrival of this Spring Festival.
And my husband is also very active in it, although he is not good at shopping, but he is very careful to choose the ingredients and gifts suitable for the New Year. Whenever he chooses something, he will excitedly show it to us and ask for our opinions. I looked at his appearance and felt warm in my heart, and I felt that such a day was so good.
In the process of preparing for the New Year, we also discussed the recipes for the New Year. My mother-in-law and I each made some suggestions of our own, and then discussed together how to match them to make the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner more hearty and delicious. Sometimes we have different opinions, but in the end, we will communicate to find a solution that everyone is happy with.
As the Chinese New Year approached, we began to be busy cleaning and pasting Spring Festival couplets to prepare for the new year. While the mother-in-law was busy wiping down the furniture, she kept nagging: "You have to clean up your home during the New Year to welcome the new year." Her words reveal a wave of love and blessing for the family, which makes us feel her attention and expectation for the family.
My husband and I are also actively involved in housework activities, we clean together, paste Spring Festival couplets, help each other, and support each other. Although there are sometimes small frictions, in the end we are all able to solve problems through communication and understanding, and make the home full of warmth and joy.
In this way, our family ushered in a happy and peaceful Spring Festival together. At this special moment, I felt the warmth and happiness of my family, and I also understood the importance of family members. I know that as long as we understand and tolerate each other, we can overcome any difficulties and create a better life together.
The day before the Spring Festival, the house is lit up with lights and beaming. My mother-in-law and I were busy preparing the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, and my mother-in-law was chopping vegetables while nagging: "Xiaoyu, how to make this dish delicious? What seasoning do you think should be put in this dish?" Her words revealed a love and care for the family, which made me feel her love for us.
I smiled and said, "Mother-in-law, don't worry, I will make this dish, I will add some secret seasonings to ensure that it is delicious!" Hearing my words, my mother-in-law nodded with satisfaction and continued to be busy with the work at hand.
My husband, while he was busy preparing gifts for the New Year, said to me with a smile while sorting out the gifts, "My dear, I have selected some carefully prepared gifts that I hope will be liked by our relatives and friends." "I looked at his serious appearance, and I felt very happy in my heart, knowing that I was really happy to have such a considerate husband.
In the process of preparing the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, my mother-in-law and I kept exchanging cooking skills and experiences, and discussed how to make each dish more delicious. Sometimes we have different opinions, but in the end, we will communicate to find a solution that everyone is happy with.
As the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner approached, our family sat busily around the table and enjoyed a sumptuous Chinese New Year's Eve dinner. The aroma of the dishes is mouth-watering. My mother-in-law said to me with a smile while picking up the vegetables: "Xiaoyu, these dishes you make are so delicious, I really have eaten enough!" I listened to her praise, and I felt very happy in my heart, and felt that all the efforts were worth it.
And my husband kept picking up vegetables for me, and asked with concern: "Honey, do you taste this dish, is it delicious?" I looked at his serious appearance and said with a smile: "It's delicious, it's really delicious!" Thank you for preparing this sumptuous Chinese New Year's Eve dinner for us. "We sat around the dining table as a family, exchanging warm words with each other and enjoying a happy time.
In this way, our family reunited and spent a happy and peaceful Spring Festival together. At this special moment, I felt the warmth and happiness of my family, and I also understood the importance of family members. I know that as long as we understand and tolerate each other, we can overcome any difficulties and create a better life together.
After a warm Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, our family sat in the living room, chatting while enjoying the Spring Festival Gala program on TV. My mother-in-law took a cup of tea and said to me with a smile: "Xiaoyu, look, this show is really getting better and better, and there are new ideas every year!" I smiled and nodded, agreed, and then began to chat with her about some traditional customs and stories of the Spring Festival.
The husband was busy pouring tea and water for us, and while pouring water, he said with a smile: "Mom, you can drink some tea, this Spring Festival tea seems to be very fragrant!" The mother-in-law took the teacup and said with a smile: "Thank you, child, you are really a good and filial son." Hearing this, a satisfied smile appeared on her husband's face.
In the laughter, we spent a warm and pleasant Spring Festival night. Looking at the smiling faces of my family, I feel extremely satisfied and happy. I know that as long as we are grateful and cherish each other, the family will be full of warmth and happiness.
Early the next morning, our family got up early in the morning to prepare for the New Year. My mother-in-law and I sorted out our clothes and prepared to go out, while my husband was busy preparing gifts for us. My mother-in-law took the red envelope and said to me with a smile: "Xiaoyu, let's go to pay New Year's greetings, I wish everyone a happy New Year and good health!" I smiled and nodded in agreement, and then went out with my mother-in-law.
We laughed and gave red envelopes to friends and family along the way, wishing them a happy new year. Every time I went to the house of relatives and friends, my mother-in-law would smile and talk to them about family life, narrating the happy life of our family. I was busy pouring tea and water for everyone, serving food and delivering food, and trying my best to make our guests feel our warmth and care.
In the process of greeting the New Year, we received many blessings and love from friends and relatives, which made us feel very warm and gratified. And the husband kept smiling and chatting with everyone, conveying warmth and blessings. Seeing them like this, I feel very relieved in my heart, and I feel that this Spring Festival is really beautiful and fulfilling.
In this way, our family laughed and spent a happy and peaceful Spring Festival together. At this special moment, I felt the warmth and happiness of my family, and I also understood the importance of family members. I know that as long as we understand and tolerate each other, we can overcome any difficulties and create a better life together.
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