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In our vast land, there has always been a phenomenon that is quite concerning - there are more men than women in China, which also makes the marriage market seem to be a little unbalanced.
And things are far from being so simple, and behind this, there are a series of intricate problems. Once upon a time, people thought that if there were tens of millions more men, women would have an absolute dominance in the marriage market.
But in fact, this so-called "advantage" has gradually changed. The fueling of capital, the rendering of film and television dramas, and the misleading of emotional bloggers have made some women's mate selection criteria deformed.
They seem to be shrouded in an illusory notion that the man is required to have all the perfect conditions, but ignores the practical considerations.
This has led to the emergence of a large number of leftover women, who wander in the dreams they weave, refusing to lower their standards, but not knowing that time has passed quietly. Corresponding to this, there is the helplessness and withdrawal of men.
In the face of the unattainable standard of mate selection, they felt powerless, and even feared marriage, so they chose to give up.
And the once fiery "dog licking economy" has gradually collapsed in this series of changes, and those once humble suitors have finally awakened and are no longer willing to make meaningless sacrifices.
Do you still remember the older leftover girl who made a lot of nonsense on the blind date show? Her rebellious speeches discouraged many ordinary men. They originally came to the blind date scene with a glimmer of hope, but they were hit by these unrealistic remarks.
The reduction of the wedding fleet during the festival seems to tell the helplessness of all this. And the occurrence of the "fat cat incident" has made the "dog licking economy" even worse, allowing people to see the absurdity and sadness in it.
At this time, Sister Awakening appeared, and her self-righteous remarks seemed to be a satire on the whole society. She talks to herself and educates others, but she doesn't know that she is actually the most ridiculous one.
Perhaps the official has also seen the problem in this, Douyin's recommendation algorithm seems to have changed overnight, no longer pushing those ethereal content, but guiding people to pay attention to transnational marriages and foreign girls.
So, in the morning, all the news of transnational marriages and foreign girls was brushed, which made people feel like they had come to the "international service". For a while, many people began to make up their English knowledge overnight, or directly used translation software to talk to them.
But is this really the solution to the problem? Can international marriage really be a good medicine to change the status quo? Actually, although international marriage is a trend, it cannot fundamentally solve the problem of domestic bachelors.
Moreover, the data shows that the main force of Chinese men's foreign marriage is Vietnam and other Southeast Asian regions, and there are still some phenomena of cheating the bride price and running away, which makes people have to be vigilant about international marriage.
So, do "foreign girls" really have an advantage over domestic beauties? I am afraid that this is a matter of opinion. In my opinion, every woman has her own unique charm, whether it is domestic or foreign, and it cannot be simply compared.
The domestic marriage and love market also needs to be fundamentally reformed, and these unreasonable phenomena cannot continue to exist.
But in fact, there are even more disgusting existences.
There is such a group of women, who shuttle between various classes like ghosts, and are nicknamed "fishing girls" by people. This phenomenon is like an ugly scar in society, which makes people both curious and sad.
The "fishing girls", like a group of greedy vultures, target everyone from the rich to ordinary men, and treat them as their long-term meal tickets.
Their methods are endless, and it is difficult to guard against them. Some pretend to be gentle, some show off their amorousness, and some directly perform the "Soul Hooking Dafa" to firmly control the man's heart in his hands.
This makes people wonder, what makes these women so unscrupulous? Is it the guidance of capital that is causing trouble? In this era of rampant materialism, the concept of consumption in society has undergone earth-shaking changes.
Women seem to see "spending money on each other" as a sign of love, while men do whatever it takes to get a smile on their faces. This distorted notion is like a chronic poison that erodes people's hearts.
Not only that, but there is also a culture in society that encourages women to sell their color in exchange for profit. From live streaming to various industries, and even online novels, the idea of consumerism is pervasive.
This makes those women who are already not strong-willed lose themselves even more. They sink in a sea of desire, unaware that they have lost their most precious thing.
is like those women in Zhang Ailing's pen, who do not hesitate to sell their souls for money and vanity. They think that they have obtained material satisfaction and are winners in life, but they do not know that they have already become the laughing stock of society.
And the men who pay for them are not pathetic? They have lost their way in the pursuit of love, and finally fall into the trap set by the "fishing girls".
Do you still remember Pan Jinlian in "The Golden Vase of Plums"? Isn't she also a typical "fishing girl"? In order to pursue her own desires, she did whatever it takes, and finally ended up in a tragic end.
How similar is this to the "fishing girls" in reality! They go farther and farther on the road of pursuing materialism, but they forget their original intentions.
But we can't just sit back and wait! We need to stand up and face this phenomenon with courage. We must call for true love, call for conscience, and let people rediscover their original intentions.
We must let those "fishing girls" understand that true happiness is not obtained by money and material things, but from inner satisfaction and peace.
At the same time, we also need to reflect on ourselves. In this materialistic society, are we also blinded by desire? Have we also inadvertently become accomplices of the "fishing girls"?
We need to examine our own behavior, adjust our mentality, and make ourselves a person with a conscience and responsibility. We cannot ignore the existence of these problems, let alone turn a blind eye to them.
We need to face up to the realities, face these challenges with courage, and find solutions to them. It may be a long and arduous road, but as long as we persevere, we will be able to find our own happiness.
In this complex world, the chaos of the marriage and love market is like a mirror, reflecting various problems in society. We must not be deceived by appearances, but think deeply and explore.
Only in this way can we truly understand the mystery and find the key to solving the problem. Let's work together for a better future!
Let's look at how many crazy men and women in this world, wandering and struggling on the stage of marriage and love. Some of them are persistent in their pursuit, some are disgraced, and some are lost in confusion.
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