1. The true face was ruthlessly torn apart by the reality show spotlight, and the simple face was finally revealed!
Blazing light can reveal the whole inner emotional world of a person through many obstacles. When you're in the spotlight of reality TV, even the thinnest camouflage carefully crafted by celebrities can't resist its power. Once, Miao Miao in people's eyes was the gentle and beautiful girl in the movie "Fanghua", innocent and ignorant, as cute as the sister next door.
However, in this reality show, Miao Miao showed a shocking other side. Her unintentional offense to the elderly Bao Lei, her strong antipathy to living with other girls, and her many excessive demands on her husband Zheng Kai make the audience have to re-examine this seemingly pure and immaculate girl.
As if layers of light yarn were ruthlessly peeled off, Miao Miao's true face was gradually revealed. Her expressions, words, and inner world are very different from the Miao Miao we knew before. On this much-watched reality show stage, Miao Miao's true face was finally completely revealed.
Second, the shadow of "isolation" in college days lingers!
It turned out that Miao Miao had gradually fallen into the trouble of "isolation phobia" due to oversensitivity since her college days. "When I was in college, whenever I tried to fit in, they would immediately stop talking, and the whole class avoided me," she recalls bitterly on the show. ”
Recalling that unbearable past, Miao Miao still seems to be able to feel the loneliness and helplessness of being excluded. How she struggled in loneliness, facing the instinctive alienation of her classmates but had nowhere to confide, she could only laugh with tears on her face.
From then on, she began to gradually distance herself from the crowd and close herself off.
After graduation, she entered the art troupe, and Miao Miao still maintained a solitary lifestyle, lest she would encounter a cold reception when she interacted with people again. Later, I participated in a training camp, full of hope and longing for collective acceptance, but in the end, I only got the cruel reality of "everyone is talking about you behind your back" in the director's mouth, and the tears of grievance came out of my eyes again.
Since then, the "isolated constitution" has been like a lingering haze in Miao Miao's heart, and although she is an adult, she has always maintained excessive vigilance and caution about any signs that may lead to alienation, lest she fall into loneliness and exclusion again.
3. Deep dislike and prejudice against women
In many details of the show, Miao Miao's prejudice against women and her disgust from the inside out are undoubtedly revealed. For example, in the separate room room, when other guests chose to share a room with the same sex, Miao Miao resolutely refused to live with other girls, the reason was: "I have lived in a girls' dormitory, but I really can't stand that environment." She frowned as she said this, as if she was still haunted by the misfortunes of the past.
However, when the elder Bao Lei shared the good times she spent with her girlfriends in college, Miao Miao pursed her lips and showed a disdainful expression. During the meal, she expressed her true thoughts unabashedly, and her tone was full of anger: "I prefer to socialize with boys, because they are simple-minded and will not have too many entanglements." At the same time, she firmly defines herself as someone who "has a boyish personality".
However, what is ironic is that Miao Miao, who claims to have a "boyish character", shows a typical "girl character" in the show - sensitive and fragile, easy to cry, petty, and calculating. Her unintentional offense to Bao Lei and her resistance to living with a girl all reveal the narrow-mindedness and jealousy of a "girl".
This prejudice and disgust for the opposite sex is like a stubborn stain on her clothes, deeply imprinted in her heart, no matter how she beautifies herself, it cannot be completely eliminated after all.
Fourth, the "deformed" state of married life
The most striking thing is the "deformed" marital life between Miao Miao and her husband Zheng Kai. A couple who originally had significant differences in family background, according to common sense, should be Miao Miao's integration into Zheng Kai's family after marriage. However, the reality is that it is "the opposite".
The reason for the incident is that Miao Miao was worried that her parents would have no one to take care of her in her hometown, so she first brought her elderly mother to Shanghai to live with them, and then brought her father who was idle at home. Seeing the two old men looking slightly cramped and uneasy in this strange metropolis, Miao Miao's brows couldn't help but tighten.
However, what Zheng Kai didn't expect was that Miao Miao didn't hesitate to take her sister and take her to the bustling city of Shanghai! The reason was because Miao Miao's sister felt idle at home and was too lonely and lonely. Faced with such a scene, Zheng Kai could only smile bitterly and shake his head, feeling angry and helpless in his heart, not knowing how to treat this little sister-in-law who suddenly appeared.
Zheng Kai's home was originally just an ordinary flat floor, which could not accommodate such a large number of people. In order to solve this thorny problem, Zheng Kai had to buy a luxury villa in Shanghai again so that Miao Miao's family could live and work in peace.
In the face of such a "deformed" family structure, Zheng Kai humorously made an analogy in the show, and his tone was full of helplessness and resignation: "Originally, my wife was a pink ball, and I was a blue ball, and the two complemented each other and matched perfectly. Now, however, the pink ball had become so large that it had wrapped the blue ball tightly and even devoured it. ”
He even joked that he was not marrying Miao Miao, but "joining" Miao Miao's family. Although these words are said in a joking tone, there is a deep meaning in them. Marriage was supposed to be a private space for the newlyweds, but now Zheng Kai has completely lost his dominant position, and his life is firmly controlled by Miao Miao and his family.
Fifth, behind the original simple image
Looking back, the reason why Zheng Kai was deeply attracted to Miao Miao was largely because of her pure and kind appearance. After all, Zheng Kai's ex-girlfriend Cheng Xiaoyue is an independent rich daughter with a distinct personality, which forms a strong contrast with Miao Miao's gentle, considerate, gentle and lovely little family jasper.
In contrast, Miao Miao appears more gentle and virtuous, well-behaved and obedient, and easier to control. As Zheng Kai said in the show: "Miao Miao looks very simple, like a white and flawless white paper." It was this "blank paper" purity and purity that deeply attracted Zheng Kai and prompted him to make up his mind to marry Miao Miao.
However, looking back now, Zheng Kai's perception of Miao Miao seems to be too naïve and naïve. The seemingly blank "blank paper" was actually full of all kinds of content, but it was cleverly concealed by a simple coat.
In the face of such a huge contrast and reversal, Zheng Kai was confused by Miao Miao's "blank paper" appearance, and finally made this decision was undoubtedly a serious miscalculation.
6. Rare special marital status
Although she is a mother, Miao Miao gave birth to two children in quick three years, undoubtedly endured great hard work, and her dedication can be called heroic and fearless. However, this unique and rare mode of marital relationship between her and her husband Zheng Kai is really rare in the entertainment industry!
Under normal circumstances, celebrity couples will try their best to pursue personal privacy and family independence, and try their best to stay away from all kinds of disturbances and public opinion pressure from the outside world. After all, life in the entertainment industry is already compelling enough, and they naturally want to have a quiet little world at home.
However, the lifestyle of Miao Miao and Zheng Kai, a loving couple, completely breaks this convention. Not only Miao Miao's parents live here, but even her younger sister is included in this big family. Zheng Kai's private sphere is gone, and the couple's two-person world is even more difficult to find.
The wedding room often echoes the coughing of the elderly and the cries of children, and the romantic and warm atmosphere has long since disappeared. Such a "household name" lifestyle is probably unbearable even for ordinary people, let alone the stars in Vanity Fair?
Under such circumstances, it is difficult to predict whether the emotional bond between Miao Miao and Zheng Kai will last long, and where will their marriage lead. What is certain, however, is that the young couple did experience a "rare and special" starting point in their marriage.