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"Bride, what about the 28,800 'getting off ceremony' that your family wants?"
At a wedding in Shangqiu, Henan Province, guests suddenly saw the bride's best friend shouting at the groom's family, asking if the groom's family was ready for a 28,800 yuan drop-off ceremony.
In an instant, the atmosphere of the wedding was completely broken and became very embarrassing, and everyone looked at the groom's family with a blank eye, wanting to know if they were ready for 28,800 yuan.
The groom's family seemed very helpless, so they had to say bitterly to the bride: "My dear, we don't have so much money here, but don't worry, when the wedding is over, we will definitely make up the money for you." ”
The groom also hurriedly stepped forward and persuaded the bride bitterly: "My dear, we really don't have this 28,800 'getting off ceremony' here now, but don't worry, after the wedding, my family will definitely make up for it."
You see that the wedding has been prepared for so long, and in the current situation, if you don't get out of the car, won't your efforts be in vain?"
But the bride said with a reluctant face: "No!
I want to see the 28,800 yuan off ceremony, so I'm willing to get off!"
In the face of the bride's stubbornness, the man also began to be angry with the bride, and the bride's best friend kept persuading the bride: "Bride, your temper is too good!"
It's 28,800, but you don't let you see it, is this blinding you?"
In the end, the two sides confronted each other because of the 28,800 "getting off ceremony", and the bride's best friend was also angry because of the words of the man's family, and slapped the man's family in the face, and the man's family also yelled at the bride: "You are playing a big name, not marrying a daughter!"
The atmosphere reached the freezing point, and in the end, the bride couldn't stand this pressure and proposed to regret the marriage, and the wedding and family affairs were unhappy, what was the reason for the farce?
1. The beginning of the "getting off salute" leads to a farce.
A happy event turned into a farce, this farce happened at a wedding in Shangqiu, Henan, the bride and groom are both local people in Shangqiu, the two families are also very familiar with each other, this wedding is also discussed by the families of both sides.
There were a lot of people at the wedding, and the guests also congratulated the newlyweds, praising the beauty of the bride and the handsomeness of the groom, but when the atmosphere of the whole wedding reached a climax, a bride's best friend suddenly shouted loudly to the groom's family: "Bride, what about the 28,800 'get off ceremony' that your family wants?"
This sentence instantly broke the atmosphere of the entire wedding, and everyone's eyes were focused on the groom's family, and the groom's family also looked very helpless.
The guests at the wedding also discussed: "This 28,800 'getting off ceremony' is too expensive, right?"
"Why didn't the groom's family say it earlier, didn't say it earlier, now that the wedding has been held, what should I do?"
Under the words of the bride's best friend, the atmosphere of the whole wedding became very awkward, and everyone's eyes were focused on the groom's family, and the groom's family had to stand up and explain: "We don't have so much money here, but when the wedding is over, we will definitely get the money together."
As you know, the banking process is also very cumbersome, so we don't have so much money ready. ”
But the bride was unrelenting: "No!
I want to see this 28,800 'get off the bus' before I am willing to get off!"
The groom also hurriedly stepped forward and persuaded the bride bitterly: "My dear, we really don't have this 28,800 'getting off ceremony' here now, but don't worry, after the wedding, my family will definitely make up for it."
You see that the wedding has been prepared for so long, and in the current situation, if you don't get out of the car, won't your efforts be in vain?"
But the bride refused to listen: "No!
I want to see 28,800 'get off the bus' before I'm willing to get off. ”
The groom's family is also very angry: "You newlyweds are really playing big names, not marrying daughters!"
What exactly is the reason for the farce?
Second, the bride made an awkward and asked for 28,800 "getting off the car", which led to a farce.
After investigation, it turned out that the 28,800 "getting off the car" was the bride's condition to the man, and the 28,800 was not a bride price, but a sum of money from the bride to the groom.
According to the groom's father, their initial condition was a bride price of 20,000 yuan, but the bride's family thought that the bride was an only daughter, so the bride price of 20,000 yuan was too little, so the two sides discussed the price of the bride price and the wedding, and finally agreed on a bride price of 28,800 plus a wedding of 28,800, and the families of both sides agreed to this price.
But when the wedding was approaching, because of various reasons from the groom's family, the money was not collected immediately, and they did not expect the bride to ask for money in advance, so there was an awkward "getting off ceremony" of 28,800 yuan for the bride.
The groom's father also said: "We really don't have so much money now, but don't worry, we will definitely make up the money after the wedding." ”
But the bride refused to listen: "No!
If I don't have money, I won't get off!"
So the two sides confronted each other like this, and the groom hurriedly stepped forward and said bitterly to the bride: "My dear, don't be angry, the wedding is what you have always dreamed of, if you don't get out of the car now, the wedding will be in vain, you see that our family does not owe you money, but it is not ready, but you also know that the process of the bank is also very complicated, and we did not mean to." ”
But the bride refused to listen: "No!
I want to see 28,800 'get off the bus' before I'm willing to get off. ”
The groom's family is also very aggrieved, but the bride's best friend also keeps persuading the bride: "Bride, your temper is too good!"
It's 28,800, but you don't let you see it, is this blinding you?"
In the end, because of the 28,800 "getting off ceremony", the bride and the man's family confronted each other, and the bride also couldn't stand the pressure and proposed to regret the marriage, and the wedding and family affairs were unhappy.
3. The bride and the man's family have a conflict and seek justice.
This farce also happened in 2019, and after being known by netizens, they all abused the bride: "This bride is too gold-worshipping, isn't it a 'go-off ceremony' of 28,800 yuan, isn't it marrying a daughter, is it selling a daughter?"
"The groom is too unlucky, he married such a woman who worships money, but fortunately he didn't marry her, otherwise he would have had a very hard time in the future. ”
But some people clarified for the bride that the groom's family did not prepare the 28,800 yuan of the "getting off ceremony" money: "The bride is not worshipping money, and the bride didn't know that the groom's family was not ready for this money at the beginning, so she was willing to get off when she wanted to see the money, and some people still don't spray the bride casually." ”
In the end, the bride also made a statement: "I regret it very much now, if I had known that the groom's family did not prepare the money, I would not have been willing to get out of the car after seeing the money." ”
The bride's family also clarified for the bride: "Our family didn't have much money, so we asked for the bride price in advance because we wanted to take the bride and the groom to the bank together, so that we could also see that the groom's family didn't owe us money, but the groom's family disagreed, and the groom's father also said to us, 'You are not marrying a daughter, you are playing a big name!'
But the bride's best friend's words made the bride's family very angry: 'You are not marrying a daughter-in-law, you are raising the price!'"
The bride's family and the groom's family also negotiated: "We don't say that we don't have to ask for the 28,800 'getting off gift', as long as it is a transfer of 28,800, we will agree, but the groom's father disagrees, saying that he doesn't do anything, and now it's all cash, so he can do whatever he wants." ”
In the end, the groom's family agreed, but repented: "Didn't they say that they would transfer the money, but now they regret it, saying that the transfer is inconvenient, or the convenience of cash, the bride's family is also very angry, and the bride's family defended the bride's words: "The bride can't stand the groom's family's anger, so she will say such angry words." ”
In the end, the families of both sides discussed, and the groom's family agreed to the bride's family's request, but the groom's family repented again, and the groom's family has been repenting, which is really infuriating, so the bride's family is also very angry, if it were you, what would you do?
epilogue
In fact, no matter what the price of the bride price and the wedding is, the ultimate goal is to make the groom and the bride happy, if the bride's family really has this requirement, the groom's family should also respect the opinion of the bride's family, after all, everyone's personality is different.
The media should also verify such things in many ways, so as not to affect the lives of the groom and bride because of a sentence.
Although the bride price and the price of the wedding are very important, the foundation of marriage should be affection and mutual support, and money should not be an obstacle to marriage.