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Text/The starting point of the baby's story
In the past, the preference for sons over girls was one-sided, but now it is the same for both boys and girls?
There are often mothers who say that boys and girls are the same, but there is a certain reason why the elderly prefer sons over girls.
Only after experiencing it yourself can it be clear, whether giving birth to a boy or a girl is really not something to say with a mouth, summing up the mother after reading it, she has the bottom in her heart:
has a son, and the happiness index is higher in later years;
has a son, and the atmosphere of life is higher in his later years;
If you have a son, your security will be more stable in your later years;
……
Therefore, it is not without reason that the elderly are patriarchal, although young people now think that men and women are the same, but this is not said with their mouths, and the pros and cons can be shown in old age.
Yesterday, I also discussed this issue with my mother in the group, and a mother said that she had to count on her son to take care of her in her later years.
However, some mothers said: daughters also have the obligation to provide for the elderly, I think it is the same for boys and girls, the first child is already a daughter, and the second child is not accepted by the son.
After all, the daughter is married outside, and the time to accompany herself is naturally very small, companionship is always more important than money, and the daughter cannot always be by her side after getting married, and they also have their own families to manage.
Therefore, the difference between sons and daughters is obvious, having a son can live together, helping a son take care of the child when he is old, sharing the pressure of his son, and the happiness index is also very high.
When you are old, you will be accompanied by your children and grandchildren, and the elderly will be very fulfilling.
The most fearful thing for people when they are old is loneliness, and they have been busy for most of their lives, and they all hope to have a happy life when they retire in their old age.
However, there is a high probability that the old man who does not have a son will not be too happy, and he will know after experiencing it.
Having a boy or a girl is not only limited to the security of one's later life, but also the differences in these aspects, parents should also understand, the sooner you know, the better.
1. Differences in economic pressures
It takes a lot of money to raise a baby, and it costs a lot of money from childhood to adulthood.
As a result, the financial pressure on the family will also increase.
However, boys and girls are raised differently, boys are poor, and girls are rich. Therefore, the cost of giving birth to a girl will be a little higher, and the money required for phone bills will be more.
2. Differences in education
There are also significant differences in the education of boys and girls.
In terms of education, girls are more up-to-the-road, obedient and sensible.
But boys are still more rebellious, and their personalities will be wilder than girls.
Moreover, the educational philosophy instilled in boys and girls is different, and mothers should not be negligent.
Boys should be instilled in self-reliance, responsibility, and self-control.
Girls should instill the bottom line of their body, the bottom line of dressing, and their words and deeds are more particular than boys.
Therefore, the difference between boys and girls is still very large, and the difference has appeared since the baby entered the kindergarten, girls need to be cared for and protected, and boys need to be controlled and controlled.
After growing up, getting married, and starting a family, one is with you, and the other is married.
Seeing this, do you still think that all boys and girls are the same? If there is no son in the family, is happiness guaranteed in old age?