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Perhaps for this reason, the lives of many women are becoming more and more ambiguous and heart-wrenching.
The best way for women to gain self-worth and affirmation is to strengthen themselves, not to please men.
If there is no self in life, it is a meaningless existence. It is very necessary to keep yourself.
The best way to attract butterflies is not to chase them, but to show your beauty and charm and let yourself shine. When your charm is attractive enough, don't rush to pursue it, butterflies will naturally fly willingly.
Women should try to avoid being dependent on anyone if they want to live a good life. After all, there is no such thing as a permanent backer in this world.
If you want to have enough capital and self-confidence to face all the hardships and challenges in life, then the best way is to work hard to enrich yourself.
It is a common fact that women have not been appendages of men since ancient times.
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Everyone has the right and freedom to pursue a good life, regardless of gender.
"Women don't let their eyebrows go", there are many women who can achieve great success in the world and create their own immortal legends.
There are many women who have become strong through their own efforts, enriching their souls, and showing their talents in their respective fields.
Numerous facts have proven that women should be on their own rather than men, and this is an important credo.
If you have money yourself, you don't have to please men like a beggar. When you become strong, you can hold yourself up even when you are in trouble.
When you can be confident and independent in your career and life, you will find that a better life awaits you.
-03-
The success achieved through one's own efforts and the sense of accomplishment obtained after overcoming challenges make people feel more satisfied and happy. This experience also proves that we can overcome barriers and achieve the results we want.
Stop being frustrated by a failed relationship, and stop wasting tears and youth for an unworthy man. Let's cherish each day and find our own happiness and joy.
Enrich yourself to become a useful person. Becoming a beneficial person can realize self-worth, win self-affirmation, and enjoy a beautiful and happy life.
On the other hand, if a woman is only interested in pleasing men and is proud of it, she is destined to suffer.
In reality, if a woman does not have real talent and strength, she must rely on men to meet her needs. They need to rely on the strength of others to succeed, which is the harsh reality of this world.
One day, she may lose everything because she will no longer have someone to rely on.
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What is there in this world that will never change? perhaps a promise made to God, or a promise to each other, or a future that we once hoped for together.
In real life, saying "forever" is just a simple wish. The world is ever-changing, everything is constantly changing, so there is no such thing as absolute eternity.
We should put more thought into enriching ourselves than trying to please those who may leave us at any time. It's a healthier and more positive way.
Read more to improve self-cultivation, more experience to enhance courage, and go out more to broaden your horizons.
We should learn to make ourselves more fulfilling, with an upward determination to constantly improve ourselves, and strive to move forward to a better version of ourselves.
Women should learn to be independent and live independently, whether or not they need to please others. This is an important ability and can make women more confident, mature, and at ease.
We need to understand that the greatest sorrow facing women is not a failure in life, but a mistaken belief that it is their destiny to please men. It is an unnecessary pressure and burden, and women should pursue their own happiness and satisfaction autonomously.
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Everyone, male and female, has the right to pursue happiness and freedom in this world.
Building on the foundation of hard work, constantly moving towards higher goals, even if you encounter failure, is also a clear proof of great achievement. Keep moving forward on the road of life and never give up.
Women have no obligation or responsibility to please men, nor should they pursue the pleasures of others like clowns. This mindset should be changed so that women can be self-fulfilling and not lose themselves in order to conform to others.
What's more, clowns still have the value of their existence. And a woman who makes a living from this, in addition to sadness, will only become a topic of small talk for others.
You can get back up if you fall, and you can try again if you fail, but women who only cater to men and never really make an effort are regrettable. Let us cherish every effort and persistence, and be a confident, independent and pursuing woman.
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They confine themselves to the mundane coterie and revel in meaningless actions, eventually being forgotten in the corner by time.
Life belongs to oneself, and only by appreciating and affirming oneself can we achieve happiness. There is no doubt that humans cannot stop the passage of time. Things are people, the stars are changing, and the same is true of life. This is an eternal truth, and we must accept it, cherish the present moment, and live each day as best we can.
Men are not the only pursuit of life, there are countless beautiful things in the world that are worth looking forward to.
If you lose a lot of good things just to please a man, then the proportion of value gain and loss is not worth it.
In general, women should recognize that pleasing a man is not the most important thing. The meaning of our lives lies in affirmation and appreciation of ourselves.
A man's happiness is not so important, what matters is your own mood.
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In this life, there are very few people who can stay by your side all the time. Even your parents can't be your permanent partner. It is not sustainable to focus on pleasing men. After all, life is long, and the most important thing is to learn to enrich yourself and become a different person. This is the right path.
Learning to constantly enrich oneself and improve one's self-strength, so as to obtain inner recognition and satisfaction, is the true happiness and joy in life. We should make unremitting efforts to always pursue growth and progress in order to gain recognition of our self-worth. Only in this way will our lives become more fulfilling and beautiful.
We must remember that more important than men is ourselves. Instead of fighting endlessly for the sake of men, you can achieve self-worth by enhancing your abilities.
This is the key to happiness in life.