Women who fall in love are more tender and watery, and as long as they think of the man they love, their hearts will be like a sweet marshmallow, which is fascinating.
Women often choose to start with their appearance, hoping to get more care and attention from men, and even hope to be able to firmly occupy men's hearts. They dress up sweetly and cutely, hoping to attract the attention of men through their appearance.
Such thinking can cause them to begin to lose self-management, lose the sense that they are the protagonists of life, and forget the need to fight and struggle.
Women are like a beautiful flower, as long as she knows how to take good care of herself, take care of herself, and continue to learn and absorb nutrients and knowledge, she can make all those who see her admire and marvel.
Even if it was just a breeze, she could remember the beauty and fragrance and the light dance she carried in the wind.
No matter who they are with, women must learn to take care of themselves, not let men despise them, and have their own principles and bottom lines.
Recently, a friend confided in me about her difficulties after marriage. She has a long list of complaints, but the core of the problem is that she is too tolerant and submissive.
They are a young couple who live in the same house as their in-laws and sister-in-law. The in-laws obviously favored her brother and sister-in-law, and she endured it silently; her brother and sister-in-law's children were naughty, but she did not expect to endanger the safety of her own children, so she chose to endure it; this time the child was accidentally poisoned, although it was caused by the negligence of her mother-in-law, she still patiently restrained herself and did not have a seizure.
Her words were full of dissatisfaction, and I could feel her emotions even through the screen. However, it seems to me that if she continues to be weak, she will not only suffer from herself, but also her daughter. She needs to be strong.
In fact, if you learn to have a proper "thorn" and choose to treat a man softly, he will be attracted to your unique charm and respect you from the bottom of his heart. In this way, you can become the darling of a man's heart and make him fall in love with you.
Some women may worry that a thorn on their body may hurt their loved one, disappoint the loved one, and eventually choose to leave. This concern is understandable, but don't give up on your preferences and passions. Have an open and honest conversation with your partner and find the right balance for both of you.
Women always show their soft side and always smile at the man they love, even if her heart is shattered. This is the usual state of many women in the world of feelings, who want to provide strength and support to their loved ones.
However, have you ever thought about it: the person who really loves you doesn't care about whether your thorn will stab him or not, but begins to care about why you blocked yourself and why that gentle you suddenly became angry.
A man who truly loves you, whether you are "prickly" or docile, he will always love you deeply.
Even if he sees the thorns on your body, he will gradually smooth them out with love and help you eliminate the inner turmoil and irritability.
For a man who doesn't like you, no matter how gentle and considerate you are, you can't change his mind. No amount of love and care you give will make him stay. This is true, but there is no need to feel lost, because only those who truly love you deserve to be truly loved.
Men who complain because you don't listen are not worth your effort and compromise. Don't waste time and energy on them, it will be more worthwhile to find someone who genuinely respects you.
If a woman always behaves submissively in front of men, it will make men feel that their attractiveness has completely subdued women. Women should be confident in expressing their opinions and ideas, and show independent thinking and charisma. In this way, you can truly earn the respect and appreciation of men.
He will be convinced that women will never leave him easily, so his behavior will become more unscrupulous, and even his family will not value women.
He will no longer care too much about women's emotions, ignore their needs, and focus only on his own feelings and experiences.
And as this idea deepens, he will become more arrogant, believing that he is superior to women, so that they cannot compare to him.
Men will begin to look for the more challenging people of the opposite sex around them and will focus on other people and ignore you.
It's important to learn to protect yourself and make yourself "a little tricky". This will effectively prevent unnecessary troubles, and at the same time, it will also allow men to pay more attention to your needs and meet your requirements.
Every time he sees your disgruntled expression and complaints, he will deeply reflect on his mistakes and take into account your feelings. This reaction is a great indication that he loves you and has developed a deep emotional connection with you.
When a person starts to get used to thinking about you and thinking from your point of view, it means that you are very important to him and you become the love of his heart. It is a precious emotion that needs to be nurtured and cherished by each other.
Mastering the technique of "prickly" can make men listen to you more, respect you more, and never dare to despise you.
When faced with important decisions, he will ask for your opinion and listen carefully to your ideas.
At the same time, his thoughts of betrayal of you will be greatly reduced. Your firmness and majesty can immediately dispel the germ of this thought. This way, you will be able to build a healthy relationship more easily and the trust between you will be stronger.
You should avoid blindly accommodating your lover, otherwise they will become arrogant and gradually ignore your opinions. We need to learn to maintain a balance between loving others and express our thoughts and needs rationally.
Know that the spikes on your body will make men be in awe of you and will not easily act against you. Such qualities can protect your safety and dignity.
Summary:
It is undeniable that being in love can make many women weak and blind, and they recklessly accommodate their partners, but inadvertently give the other person the opportunity to hurt themselves.
In fact, women should learn to protect themselves and stand firm for their dignity and rights. When men control you with so-called "love", you have to learn to rebel. It is a necessary act that helps you stay free and independent.
Don't worry about this alienating your loved ones, even if you put on a prickly coat, those who love you will still embrace you warmly.
Learning to be defensive is to learn to cherish yourself and learn to refuse what you don't like.
A man who truly loves you will be willing to tolerate your petty temper and habitually give for you in the process of mutual compromise. This is a genuine love and affection, a quality that a man should have.
When that time comes, you will be the biggest bet in his life and the biggest expectation in his heart.