The most difficult relationship can be said to be the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be said to be a big problem for thousands of years. Almost every relationship family has to deal with such a relationship. How do you get along? What does Mr. Venus say?
Recently, a netizen consulted Jin Xing: said that her husband always asked her to treat her mother-in-law as her mother!" Instilled various ideas in her every day about how good her mother was to her, but because she was not her biological mother after all, the girl couldn't do anything, and treated her mother-in-law like her own mother, so she had a conflict with her husband.
Jin Xing specially recorded a video to reply to the girl who consulted her, and Jin Xing said that it was your husband who couldn't figure it out, can in-laws and blood relatives be the same? It is unfair to both parties to drag a daughter-in-law and son-in-law into the original family. You must know that everyone was a stranger in the first 20 or 30 years, and when they got married and changed their mouths, they really became a family?"
At the same time, Teacher Jin Xing also gave everyone advice that if you want to stop living and live a good life, young and old people should not get together and maintain the boundaries of the two families. The older generation helps the younger generation within the economic scope, and the younger generation takes care of the older generation's energy range, respects each other and does not interfere with each other. This is the long-term way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along
After seeing it, many netizens sighed that what Mr. Jin Xing said was really incisive, and indeed the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not only the relationship between two people, but also the relationship between two families. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often have different values and living habits, and there will be great conflicts when living together, for example, in life, the mother-in-law will think that the daughter-in-law is too wasteful, while the daughter-in-law will think that the mother-in-law is too picky, and the mother-in-law will think that she has life experience and force the daughter-in-law to do things according to her own habits, while the daughter-in-law will think that she has a better way. and other things in life will cause conflicts in the family, and the man will not be able to play a good conciliator in the middle, which will deepen the conflict
Most of the boys think that after getting married, they should think that their daughters-in-law should treat their mothers as their own mothers, and they don't think it's strange but take them for granted!