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Recently, a blogger nicknamed "Lao Yu's family" posted a video of his parents coming to live in the city on the Internet, and Lao Yu found that his parents have not been very happy since they came, especially after dinner, the two old people sat on the sofa or small bench and looked out the window blankly.
It stands to reason that when the elderly are in the countryside, they have to turn over the ground every day, feed the livestock, and entertain the activities either by playing cards or gathering in a pile to convey "information", which is quite boring day after day, but what do you want in the city, the transportation is also convenient, and the elderly can go to the supermarket and the park if they have nothing to do, so why do you still want to go back to the countryside?
The reaction of his parents made Lao Yu very unbelievable, Lao Yu often sat on the floor, holding his legs with his hands, observing the birds outside the window or the neighbors coming and going downstairs, and even his father was not in the mood to eat.
Lao Yu's mother is the same, she feels like she is full of unresolved concerns every day when she comes to live in the city, and every time Lao Yu wants to take the initiative to help the second elder solve problems, his parents just sigh softly, and then respond: It's okay, you don't understand.
As the days passed, Lao Yu inexplicably felt that his parents had a sense of despair, because the two of them looked loveless every day, and they were thinking in their minds: the land in the countryside has not been watered for two days, and the chickens, ducks and geese at home will not be fed for a few days.
Finally, Lao Yu couldn't bear to look at his parents who were in pain and couldn't extricate themselves, so he turned his head and sent the two back to his hometown.
The moment my father picked up the hoe, he was full of strength for a moment, and he began to plow the land, this good fellow, his head didn't hurt anymore, his waist didn't hurt anymore, and his appetite recovered, especially when he saw that the chickens, ducklings and geese in the cage were not starved to death, and his mouth was almost grinning to the root of his ears!
Lao Yu's mother is the same, she started to work, the first thing her mother did was to go to the field to collect vegetables, maybe her mother's mood when she collected vegetables was like us playing QQ farm, and I still remember that everyone didn't sleep in the middle of the night to get up to collect vegetables and steal vegetables.
Not only that, but when you return to your hometown, you can also have close contact with all kinds of small animals, unlike feeding cats and dogs in the city, the lambs and calves in your hometown are generally not seen in the building, which is cute and fragrant.
The most important thing is that parents don't need to buy vegetables to cook in their hometown, they have all kinds of vegetables in their own fields, they can grow whatever they want, and they can grow it safely and securely, and they can't finish it, they can't eat it at all!
This may be the real water and soil adaptation, although there is everything in the city, but there is no way to fill the happiness of the elderly, and this is precisely because there is nothing lacking in the city, everything is ready-made, the old people have almost nothing to do in the city, and there is no sense of participation at all.
Lao Yu's funny video resonated with a large number of netizens, and a netizen complained under the video, saying that after she took her mother to the city, she had a headache on the first day, cervical spine pain on the second day, back pain on the third day, and knee pain on the fourth day.
Later, netizens couldn't bear it anymore, and predicted in advance that the soles of the feet began to hurt on the fifth day of the mother's feet, and the tone of the netizen was not very good at that time, the netizen's mother directly grabbed the handle and packed the luggage on the same day, and the mother bought a train ticket at 3 o'clock in the afternoon, and she went out at 1 o'clock in the afternoon, but the netizen's house was only ten minutes away from the train station.
It seems that the netizen's mother was afraid that the netizen would apologize to her if she was late to clean up, even if she was a second late, it was estimated that the strength would pass, so she had to leave as soon as she was angry.
Another netizen also shared his own experience, a few days ago, netizens were strolling around the community, walking and walking to meet an uncle, when the uncle was so anxious that he cried and scared netizens.
The uncle asked netizens to help check whether there was a ticket to Urumqi on the Internet, and the netizens found that there was a ticket three days later, and the uncle was even more anxious, crying to netizens that it was too uncomfortable to stay in the city and wanted to leave immediately.
It can be seen that this uncle can't wait for a minute, and the uncle next door is really crying, Shanghai is indeed far away from Urumqi, and it is not difficult to understand that the uncle is in a hurry.
There is also a netizen who sent out the same elder as Lao Yu, and the netizen wrote: Looking at the lonely back, it looks like squatting in prison.
The elders' adventures in the city are really about to make people laugh off their big teeth, although it is not moral, but everyone's original intention is to bring the old people to the city to enjoy the blessings, I didn't expect to make the old people so uncomfortable, there are two days of being suffocated, living in the elevator room afraid that they can't go out and come back, and there are breathless and pulling and spitting all over the body...
In fact, the same news has been on the hot search many times, a long time ago there was a media article about a daughter taking her parents to the city, but the old couple was drowsy every day, and they felt bored about what they were doing, and in desperation, the daughter sent the two back to the countryside, from the first step into the countryside, the old couple instantly cheered up.
The main thing is that the old people are used to living in the countryside, and suddenly they have to adapt to the living habits of the old people for a few days, and they are more particular about it in the city than in the countryside, such as squeezing the elevator when entering the door, changing slippers when entering the door, not shouting loudly, and buying vegetables is expensive.
The most important thing is that it is difficult to find old men and old ladies to talk to, and the children feel that it is a blessing to take them over, but the old people feel that although they are comfortable in the city, they are too mentally offended.
But think about it on the other hand, as children, everyone is happy every time they go back to their rural hometown, and they are almost reluctant to leave when they leave, but this is the charm of the countryside.
There is a topic on the hot search, "Why do Chinese want to go home and farm once they are frustrated?", as if the smoke-filled mountains and fields are the life engraved in the bones of Chinese.
When you squeeze your head in the city and want to be promoted and raised, you will want to go back to the countryside and live a comfortable and leisurely life;
When he achieved fame and success in the city, he would think that he would build a small villa in the mountains and fields in the future, and take the whole family to live a secluded life avoiding the noisy streets;
When I finally found out that life is more than money and profit in the city, I will want to go back to the countryside and farm the land, which is the way to step out of the red dust and return to my true self for rebirth;
When you're older, you'll want to go back to the countryside and farm.
It is not so much that Chinese are obsessed with the countryside and fields, but rather that they are obsessed with farming, I don't know if everyone has found it, and some people who have lived in the city for a long time will plant some flowers and plants in front of their homes or on their balconies.
To sum it up in one word, that is, to cultivate sentiment, Tao Yuanming has the most right to speak in this matter, he said that "grass is full of bean seedlings", but he is still willing to go out early and return late to take care of these bean seedlings.
Because you don't have to pay attention to dealing with flowers and plants, you will grow well if you plant well, and Xiaohua will not say that she wants to rebel against the gardener, and she can grow well, but she has to grow obliquely, even if it really grows obliquely, it must be because of the deviation of the planting method.
What's more, it is all technology and ruthless perfume fragrance, how can it smell good with natural flowers and herbs, even if there is no smell, it can also purify the surrounding air.
In 1966, a man named Baxter in the West went to verify whether plants are alive because he had an immature idea.
In his first experiment, he used a lie detector to test whether the plant had emotions, he cut a Chinese cabbage in front of a pot of plants, and the result was that the lie detector meter actually showed abnormal radio waves emitted by the plant, and the subsequent group began to destruct the same kind of plant, and they all got the same result.
It wasn't until 2014 that Professor Steve confirmed the feasibility of plant experiments, and clearly concluded that plants are emotional and alive.
Therefore, people who like to raise plants and like to have pets are essentially the same, they will accompany themselves in different forms, watching a puppy grow up slowly and have a deep affection for it, the same is true for raising plants, watching it slowly blossom and bear fruit from a small seed, and the heart is also very fulfilling.
And the plant may be a good listener, it has electromagnetic waves, has sensing organs, when the owner is in a bad mood, it will also be sad, when the owner is in a good mood, it will take the opportunity to grow violently, silently with the owner of each other.
As the saying goes, every effort is harvested, and the effort put into the work may not be seen, but the hard work done on the land, it will certainly not fail any efforts of the gardener.
In the hustle and bustle of the floating world, what most people really want is to see Nanshan leisurely.
Information sources:
[1] Douyin blogger: Lao Yu's family: Two weeks ago: The difference between my in-laws in the city and after returning to the village, they all say that it is a blessing to take my parents to live in the city, why do I see them so painful?
[2] Lizhou Rong Media: 2 years ago: My parents went to the city and were drowsy all day, but after they were sent back to their hometown, they came to their senses.