A 45-year-old male bachelor is unwilling to marry a 34-year-old leftover woman, listen to the man's voice.
The 45-year-old male bachelor was unwilling to marry a 34-year-old first-married leftover girl, and after listening to this man's words, it really made all the older leftover women slap their faces.
Did you find out? Now there are more and more older young women around me, and this phenomenon is also common in rural areas, and now girls don't know what to think, and when they reach the age of talking about marriage, they are not in a hurry to find a partner to marry.
There is also a strange phenomenon, that is, men nowadays would rather find a married woman, even with children, and would rather be single than find an older leftover woman who is married for the first time.
During the May Day holiday, I introduced a person to my sister's child, and wanted him to take advantage of the May Day holiday to meet other girls, and guess what, after listening to my introduction, he didn't even see him, so he refused to me directly.
And his words also made me nod my head when I heard it, thinking that this kid has brains and makes sense, now let you listen to it and see if what this kid says makes sense.
Here's the thing, my's child is 45 years old this year, it has been five years since the divorce, and there is a boy next to him who is in junior high school, he is a veteran, he works in the National Taxation Bureau, and he is still a regular grade, with an annual income of more than 100,000 yuan.
His ex-wife works in the Finance Bureau, she is very beautiful, she was the school flower in the class when she was in school, because she couldn't get along with my, the two often quarreled, and she got angry and scolded my at every turn, and my cousin's son couldn't bear to divorce him.
I introduced him to the daughter of my classmate, who is 34 years old this year, has never been married, and is very beautiful.
She used to work in a beauty shop, and after working for a few years, she learned experience, so she opened a beauty shop by herself, and I heard from my classmates that the annual income was about 200,000 yuan.
My classmate said that her daughter was busy with her own affairs in the store all day long, and she didn't have time to go out to talk about friends, and most of the people she contacted were women.
Either the suspect's parents are not good enough, or the suspect's family earns less, and she will become an older leftover girl if she picks and chooses, and she also knows that the girl who has passed the age of 35 and gets married and has a child is an advanced maternal age, plus my classmates are constantly urging behind her back, and now her conditions have been reduced, even if she is looking for a second marriage.
So I wanted to match the two of them, according to the old people's thinking, as long as the girl is willing, the man should be fine, after all, the man is married and has a child, but who knows that the man is unwilling.
Listen to what he has to say: Yes, I was married once, and I had a boy next to me, but that doesn't mean I have to lower my conditions.
I have been married once, I will cherish and pay more attention to remarriage, I have had a failed marriage, I don't want to fail again, this marriage is in line with a long time, live in peace and stability, and want to find a person who is responsible for growing old with her.
I don't want to find another vase to put at home, beautiful and good-looking are a thing of the past for me; I don't want to find another ancestor to provide for at home, I want to find someone who really wants to live with me;
I don't want to find another money worshipper, so I handed over all my salary to her every month; I don't want to find another person who is not filial to my parents, and honoring the elderly is my standard for choosing a mate.
I have a boy now, I want to set a good example for him, I care about this second marriage, I don't want to find an older leftover girl who has never been married.
I'd rather find someone who has been married, even if it's with children, as long as it's a person who can live, what a high income, good looks, it's outdated for me.
The girl you said is so beautiful, she has a store by herself, and her income is high, with such good conditions, if she wasn't overly picky, she would definitely have married a long time ago, and she wouldn't drag herself into an old girl.
Such a girl must not be able to cook or wash clothes at home, and the family must raise her like a princess, and the choice of the object must be high or low, and she must have left herself behind, and now she wants to get married under the pressure of her parents.
Like her, a person who is not bad for money, just wants to find one, saddle her before and after the horse and serve her, and give her a cow and a horse, but I am not that kind of person, if we get married, she is busy with the things in her store, and she still can't take care of the family and children, and there will be conflicts after a long time, I don't want to do a second time about quarreling and divorcing, I would rather be a bachelor for the rest of my life than serve such a person.
After listening to what this man said, do you think it makes sense? Do you support his ideas or not? Please chat in the comments section.
I'm here to advise those older leftover girls, stop daydreaming, wake up quickly, don't just think about finding the diamond king Lao Wula, ordinary people still live an ordinary life, don't let your parents worry about your affairs all the time.
Do you have any older leftover girls around you? What do you think about this? Feel free to share your views in the comments section.